ok. this is my last first post today. this year, it will have been 6 years since i came to japan. in that time, i have been with every type of j-girl that is out there. as luck would have it, i never married any of them... thank god. bloody j-girls, they are like drugs.. you cannot stop once you have had a taste I guess. the current gf, she is sweet with a hint of horror. once a month i have to just let her be. After that, she comes back just as sweet as before. i learned just to just keep a distance during that time 'period'. dating j-girls is a crap shoot; get them from roppongi and your chances to find a good chick drop to about 15%. country girls are rough around the edges, they can be trained up though. i would not mind settling down with a j-girl, only after i have confirmed her real intentions and there's no being stuck to her mother or father. Maybe real english girls are better... in the end... just not sure. like I said, j-grils are a drug that is bloody difficult to quit.