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keeping the fire burning in SB relationship

MikeH said:
This is the part I do understand in SB relationship. The part I do not understand is the "need to go all out to keep the fire burning". Unless "all out" means "to pay the amount we agreed". Other than that it just makes me very confused.

And I do not mean the part about eating pussy, as I do it pretty much with any girl because I like it. But I thought the SB thing is especially to avoid all the bullshit related to the more common relationships. For example meeting even when you do not feel like it, or doing stuff you do not enjoy to please her.

I mean if you are happy to make all the effort for two and take all the shit she gives while still paying for it all why you do not just get married and be done with it?
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Because you would be done with it.
 
Well there is another , more literal way to keep the fire burning, but I am a bit afraid of the legal repercussions if I mention it here :D
 
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shadowboxer said:
Because you would be done with it.
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Just find someone you don't like and give her half of your money. It is faster and hurts less that way.
 
MikeH said:
Just find someone you don't like and give her half of your money. It is faster and hurts less that way.
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I think I'm already in such a situation: it's not quite half my money I'm sacrificing, and it's not really a "she" either.

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shadowboxer said:
I think I'm already in such a situation: it's not quite half my money I'm sacrificing, and it's not really a "she" either.

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i feel you
For what we pay frankly the MoF could at least have a hot female dominatrix as its boss
 
Frenchy said:
i feel you
For what we pay frankly the MoF could at least have a hot female dominatrix as its boss
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Nothing is enough for you guys, you get sucked dry and still complain.
 
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Dear gentlemen...
My experience with SBs was very satisfying when visiting the US and somehow disappointing in Hong Kong.
I do feel you can build some great relationships in US with girls who can look for an arrangement for the thrill of it on top of the attached benefits.
I met a young good looking PHD student in NYC and had an incredible fun with her... I mean good sex, good parties, great conversations. A great match. The fact I could see her only 3/4 times a year before the COVID crap happened was fueling our desires without creating a routine. I also met a gorgeous Instagram influencer, so dedicated to show me the city. We were very attracted to each others. Sex was a bit less crazy but the overall xp was pretty good.
In Hong Kong, I never had such chemistry really. I met very good looking young ladies. But somehow sex was always pretty dull and the chemistry not really there. I don't know. I guess I'm used to be desired (I guess it sounds very arrogant :) ) despite my old age. Then when the body language is not there, I simply don't feel it. Plus most of people I met were very narcissistic. It lacks some depth.
Anyway... I may finally travel outside of HK next month after two years.. yeah
 
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gentlegiantjp said:
As long as we are each other's bitch I can't really complain. I enjoy getting BJs from her too :p .
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With the amount of money guys normally spend on SB you could get two blowjobs daily from different girls each time.
 
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MikeH said:
Just find someone you don't like and give her half of your money. It is faster and hurts less that way.
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This sounds like settling down and getting married :dead:

That part is true though. If it hurts less that means you don't like her nor really care about her enough :banghead:.

Need to find equilibrium wherein I just look forward to mind blowing sex and fun dates and not really have to think hard about stuff in between.
 
gentlegiantjp said:
Need to find equilibrium wherein I just look forward to mind blowing sex and fun dates and not really have to think hard about stuff in between.
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I thought the monthly payment was supposed to take care of the hard stuff; both in the relationship and in your pants. :p
 
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I learned something new from my lady friend/SB today, that watching sad movies makes her feel better after: 悲しい映画を見ると心がきれいになる気がするので良いです.

And then I googled and there is this The Guardian article :
"Watching sad films boosts endorphin levels in your brain, psychologists say"

So I guess I found the answer to my question: 1) watch more sad movies 2) we both cry 3)then swoop in and make her feel better a lot more and kimochi...
 
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gentlegiantjp said:
I learned something new from SB today, that watching sad movies makes her feel better after: 悲しい映画を見ると心がきれいになる気がするので良いです.

And then I googled and there is this The Guardian article :
"Watching sad films boosts endorphin levels in your brain, psychologists say"

So I guess I found the answer to my question: 1) watch more sad movies 2) we both cry 3)then swoop in and make her feel more better and kimochi...
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i wonder whether Sad Porn is a valid category in this case
Like … he’s broke and battles cancer… she just lost her whole family in an horrible plane crash… yet they shag beautifully in a trailer park while dogs are howling at the moon , sthg like that
 
Frenchy said:
i wonder whether Sad Porn is a valid category in this case
Like … he’s broke and battles cancer… she just lost her whole family in an horrible plane crash… yet they shag beautifully in a trailer park while dogs are howling at the moon , sthg like that
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And now @Frenchy here, gets to ruin it. But I don't really care as long as I get to shag in the end !
 
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Frenchy said:
No, if I really wanted to ruin it I would have suggested typical morose existentialist boring French movies where usually the lovers die in the end and frankly it’s a relief for the spectators
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Thanks ! Scratching off sad french movies from my "Sad movies for Sex" play list .
 
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CharlieSimms said:
I think it’s called Netflix and chill. But I’d imagine you’d have more luck starting her engines with Magic Mike than Bambi… :)
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Nah bro the objective is to swoop in and make her feel better after watching a sad movie, so yeah it should be Bambi or Land Before Time.

I will report back how effective death scene of Little Foot's mom will be. I will probably end up crying with her though...
 
gentlegiantjp said:
I will report back how effective death scene of Little Foot's mom will be. I will probably end up crying with her though...
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That is why doggie style is so amazing; you can both watch the movie and fuck at the same time.
 
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So far , I am happy to report that fire is still burning well. She starts to call me hentai now... which is good sign I guess . I also had to confirm multiple times that she likes, and is okay, that I am hentai.
 
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