Keijiban (japanese Contact Sites)

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  1. Zaphod222

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    Hi, I am new here.

    I don´t see this question in the forum, so my apologies if it is redundant:

    I wonder if someone has a list of up-to-date Japanese "Keijiban" sites. I used to be active on a couple of those some years back, and had some great experiences. For personal reasons, I have not played for a couple years, but now I wanted to get back in the game, but I see that all my old browser links are invalid now. I guess that is the nature of the scene... sites come and go.

    I googled for the relevant Japanese keywords (like "papa bousho"), but a lot of the sites that come up are commercial crap. I am not looking for anything with a profit-taking middle man in between and bombastic promises and registration and all that; I am simply looking for bulletin board sites where J-girls post messages, saying what they are interested in (which can range from fun dates with young guys to paid dates with old geezers like me). There used to be some great sites out there, but all I could find until now are two which are geared to smartphones and thus very telegram style (but maybe that is the direction this is moving anyway).

    Anyway, thanks in advance.
     
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    Well, nobody seems to know.
    Anyway, I got a fekk date next week with a 20 year old from this site:
    http://bakusai.com/
    (It is large site. You need to go to the section Kanto, Tokyo, Fuzoku, Papa Boushu for the sugar daddy messages.)
    Wish me luck. She is 150 cm and 45 kg, so body should be OK. If it clicks, I might have a great sex friend for a long time. (I had a phantastic one a couple of years back, movie star body, first rate sex, and no time pressure... would have kept her forever, if she hadn´t decided to get married and become a respectable expat housewife. Well, there is one happy Belgian expat out there, LOL)
     
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    Be careful with some of those sites- many of them are sakura scams trying to collect money without any real dates.

    I signed up for one and started getting like 40-50 emails a day from the site. Ugh.
     
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    I explicitly said I am aware of the scam sites, and I dont want anything to sign up to. If you were stupid enough sign up to one of those, it is your own fault.

    The site I got my date from (and which I referenced) is a simple message board, and you reply DIRECTLY to the girl who posts the ad, and NOT to some middleman who wants your money.

    Again my question: I am looking for simple message boards. NOT something where you need to "sign up" and NOT something where you can not direclty reply to the girl.
     
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    Geez, a respected member tries to help you out on your thread and you go all caps and start with the "stupid" remarks? Good luck getting much help around here man.
     
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    Not all caps, and not "helping out", since he simply repeated what I already pointed out in the original query:

    "I googled for the relevant Japanese keywords (like "papa bousho"), but a lot of the sites that come up are commercial crap. I am not looking for anything with a profit-taking middle man in between".

    I simply highlighted the "not", because he apparently missed that.
     
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    Well, I poked around a little more on the Bakusai site (which I referenced), and there is indeed more to find than I originally thought. I.e. what I thought was the only thread about "sugar daddy wanted" is indeed only one of many, because the girls start a new thread for every new ad, inside the adult activities section. That makes the structure of the site is quite confusing, and much more difficult (for me) to read than the Keijiban sites I used a couple of years ago. Anywy, there really is quite a lot of material there, from bored housewifes looking for fun to young gals looking for paid dates, to all sorts of assorted special fetishes.
    I´d still be interested in hearing about other useful Keijban sites though, if anybody knows some.
    Anyhow. with all of these sites, some basic Japanese capability is a must, so if that is lacking pls ignore.
     
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    Well, what do you know. Got another answer from the message board.... that is 2 answers for 3 replies. Not bad a ratio at all. At this pace, I´ll be set up with a cute sex friend soon.

    This one is 20 yrs, 158 cm and "D cup"... don´t know what to make of that, but I assume a little on the voluptoous side. So probably not quite my type. Also, I don´t really need them that young, personally I would prefer around 30 and more mature. But who is to complain. Anyway, she wants to get invited for a dinner first to talk things over. That is fine with me, I like that actually. In the worst case, I get a Japanese lesson out of it.

    Anyway, the keijiban scene is clearly alive and well, even if my old favourite sites are gone.
     
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    Back from my date, and it was a total success. She is 20, looks like 15 (almost embarrassing walking into the love hotel, I was thinking I must look like a pervert), super cute, a little shy but willing to learn. We did the whole alphabet soup program of the escort scene, and it was great. I think I found myself a great sex friend, so I wont be looking for another one for a while.

    Interestingly, she said that basically my reply was the only serious one. She got a lot of mail from Japanese guys, but they were all asking for photos. Idiots! That simply not something you do in the private scene. Goes to show that stupidity is not a gaijin privilige....

    The other one, the "D-cup" has not replied again, but I don´t really need her any more. If she does replay, heck, I´ll go for dinner with her, no problem. But I am too old and too poor to have two sex friends at the same time...

    Anyway, high-five from me for the Keijiban.
     
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    Great that you had success. In the past I had a lot of success on several sites that are all gone now. I'll give that a go some time.

    How did you come to the financial arrangement?
     
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    She said she was looking for "suppo". I mailed to her and said I am OK with suppo 3 man per meeting. She replied that would be OK. Nothing more to it.
    Now, if I am going to see here regularly, that is of course going to come down. It always happens... of course I am always going to have to pay some suppo, but she´ll happy with less, because she knows me. And there will be the occasional freebie... That is the way these things work.

    In the event, I am deliriously happy. I did not except to be pleasantly surprised like this. Atari!
     
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    Ha! Now the "D-cup" has replied too. Busy this week, but we can meet next week.
    Well, right now I am content with the girl I met today, but I´ll have dinner with the D-cup just to take a look and talk. Who knows, it could be interesting.
     
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    Found another site, very active, lots of contact messages. But you have to register (free) and send mail via the site; something that I don´t like. Also, totally geared to cellphone use, but that seems to be the standard these days.

    The site is:
    http://love-w.net/list.php?&tpl=dj/list

    (subdivived into areas, above the page for Minato-ku, Tokyo)
     
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    Just back from a long session with my sugar girl, and she told me that since she met me, she has been getting messages from gaijins. Now that is a brightly lit arrow pointing at this thread, where I mentioned the Keijiban.

    So you rascals have been hitting on my girlfriend, eh? A Norwegian and an American, you know who you are.

    No chance with this one, she is taken! Or at least so she tells me, haha.
     
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    One site which I came across is linked below, but you have only a limited amount of points, and then you have to pay to add more.
    http://happymail.co.jp/
    Most of the girls on the site are basically just offering a private affair at a hotel for a fee (aka the ゴム別2 deal)
    The same with as with ASOBO and maho lover.
    I've had only a few encounters with the girls from the site, and it's a hit or miss. If you're not too picky that is.
     
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    If anyone knows of sites along these lines which are partly or entirely English language (thus presumably catering to gaijin guys or featuring gaijin woman), please let the rest of us in on it! I know it is unlikely that such exists, but it can't hurt to ask.

    -Ww
     
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    Aside from Universe Club, some of the US sugar daddy sites that have a few Tokyo entrants, or the usual personals like metropolis or craigslist, there aren't any English language sites that I'm aware of for this sort of thing. Be aware that while it's pretty easy to find a real date on some of the dating websites like japancupid.com, proposing an arrangement is a good way to get your account suspended- I know this from personal experience. (oops)
     
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    Fwiiw, UC has more than enough great looking possibilities to keep me occupied and, I hope, happy, and I have also met some fine SBs via the Tokyo listings on seekingarrangements.com . So, it is not that I am in any urgent need of new sources. However, long experience has taught me that such businesses can very suddenly disappear or go waaaay downhill in various ways. Thus I am always on the lookout for new possibilities/sources. In any case, thanks for the response and the info...

    -Ww
     
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    Found this site, and it looks nice, well-organized, with easy-to read messages:
    http://furin.misty.ne.jp/top.shtml

    Registration is free and went smoothly. However, when I try to send a message to a girl, I get this error message:

    ブラウザのクッキーを削除した場合やPCを再インストールした場合などのときは、もう一度新たに会員登録(パスワード発行又は再発行)手続きから手続きをやり直してください。
    すでに本日メッセージを送信している場合は本日のメール送信できません。

    (注)何度もこのエラー画面が表示される時は、ブラウザのキャッシュ機能によってこのページが表示されている可能性があります。その場合は「ブラウザの履歴を削除」などの方法でこのページの履歴を削除してください。
    エラーコード(105)

    Wtf? My browser is just fine, and I did not touch any cookies. Can sometime try and tell if it works for them?
     
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    Ha! I am happy. My keijiban girl just wrote again. She didn´t dump me, she is just busy (university). Nice. I was almost heart-broken, thinking I was being dumped so unceremoniously. (Which actually is a very Japanese way, alas.)
     
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    On the Keijiban site, I saw a message from a 21 year old who is looking for a date at 3 man. I contacted here, she replied immediately, and she is gaijin friendly. But her specs are 169 cm and 57 kg. That is a bit too voluptuous for my taste. Contact me in private, and I pass on the e-mail address.
     
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    Yes, looks like they all point to this same "mintj" pay site. I don´t like it.
    I would *love* to be able to use the Furin Misty site, which looks very clean and well-organized:

    http://furin.misty.ne.jp/deai_bbs/women/search_kantou.cgi

    but I keep getting this weird error message that I mentioned before. I had been using this site several years ago, but my old password does not work, and when I try to renew it, I get stuck with the error message. I think it might have something to do with their database and a cookie which is needed on my side but which I don´t have any more. If you manage to register there, could you tell me?
     
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    First Post! I've been browsing these sites for the past couple of weeks and have learned some lessons through trial and error. There are some truly free sites out there, but you'll end up getting emails from multiple pay sites that they obviously farm out your email to. If you sign up for any of the free ones, be prepared for your inbox to be flooded with "potential" mates. You'll get a free trial that lasts about a day, where you can send a few mails and then you'll be hit with the inevitable "you must now buy points" to go any further. You can easily drop 2-3万円 quickly, so be careful. So far, one of the best ones that i've found that seems to have fewer "sakuras" is digicafe. The free trial lasts a while, and it's relatively cheap. It also has a chat room that is free to peruse and post on the public board. If you go into private chat, your points will drop over time. Megumi has good promotions, so if you like what you see there, wait a day or two before upping your points. Maholover is a waste of money in my opinion. Way too expensive and their promotions are shit. I've yet to actually meet anyone but i'll keep trying. Anyway, good luck. Let me know if you have questions.
     
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    It does not sound like you found any truly free sites, since you only went to sites that ask you to sign up and buy points and that spam you with sakura.
     

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