Levels of Sugar Dating - A Living Guide

[TAG Manager]

This thread is intended to be a living thread to discuss and document the levels of sugar dating out there in the real world This first set is not considered a complete or completely accurate representation of Sugar Dating levels, but I expect experiences SD's and SB's to comment in this thread to discuss the levels on a high-level.

To get started... a basic outline of Sugar Dating levels that can be interpreted in many different ways:

1) High - A SB that receives a set amount of funds for each month, usually with a set agreement on number of meetings during each month. This amount usually sustains the SB for the entire month and doesn't require additional support. (Some SB's are exclusive with their SD in this situation)

2) Medium - A SB that usually receives monthly amount that is moderate or maybe the SD covers monthly bills such as rent/housing, cell phone, airline tickets, credit cards... etc. (Varies)

3) Low - This is basically the same as an Escort -- A preset per-meeting amount received for designated activities. This would also include deai cafes such as Kirari and Momocafe which can be just a date for dinner, karaoke or hotel play depending what's on offer.

Exclusive SB - Means you have one SD only. (Means no escorting either...)
Non-Exclusive SB - Freedom to do what you like and to see anyone.

There are various interpretations on the above, but this a high-level view of most SB/SD relationships.

All input is appreciated... this will help current and new members looking for real-world guidance on this dating arrangement.

Thank you!

 

[Wwanderer]

Nice idea for a thread, but fwiiw, none of the three levels described would apply to ANY of the now quite numerous sugar arrangements I've had...at least as far as I can recall. They have all been much less rigidly/contractually defined for one thing.

-Ww

 

[TAG Manager]

Nice idea for a thread, but fwiiw, none of the three levels described would apply to ANY of the now quite numerous sugar arrangements I've had...at least as far as I can recall. They have all been much less rigidly/contractually defined for one thing.

-Ww

Thus, the point of the thread. Please contribute your definitions and we'll go from there. The three above are the most basic, generic forms without a lot of customization.

 

[static]

Might want to add something as a different level for deai cafe's, since those are kind of a bridge between p4p and sugar dating. Not quite sure how I'd classify it, but I wouldn't put it in the same group as the "Low" level you put there.

 

[Wwanderer]

Thus, the point of the thread. Please contribute your definitions and we'll go from there. The three above are the most basic, generic forms without a lot of customization.

Understood (I meant it when I said nice idea for a thread) and will do, as soon as I have a chance.

-Ww

 

[TAG Manager]

Might want to add something as a different level for deai cafe's, since those are kind of a bridge between p4p and sugar dating. Not quite sure how I'd classify it, but I wouldn't put it in the same group as the "Low" level you put there.

Added a short comment on the 'Low' section - will add more later.

 

[Macansx]

Anyone have any good sugar-baby cafes to visit in Tokyo ?

 

[User#8628]

Anyone have any good sugar-baby cafes to visit in Tokyo ?

R2 is the best bet if you don't speak Japanese.

If you speak Japanese there are plently of places exactly for this purpose

 

[Macansx]

Just went to R2 last night . Pretty quiet ! Any good ideas on where would be good to chill and pick up some chicks ? Hahaha

 

[Rusty Trombone]

Great Thread @TAG Manager

Like @static says, I think there should be a difference between Lows. Most of the Deai Cafes etc are warikiri arrangements (no strings attached / once only / very much like an escort), whereas many pay per date sugar dates are repeats (especially in the early stages of the relationship), and can extend over a long period of time (as in the case of remote SB where you see them intensely for a week or so, then don't see them for 6 months)