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Guys,

As a concept do you think Long distance sugar dating works? To be specific for discussion purposes visiting once every few months? Seems like a bit of challenge, what do you guys think? How if it all could this work?
 
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Mwktm said:
Guys,

As a concept do you think Long distance sugar dating works? To be specific for discussion purposes visiting once every few months? Seems like a bit of challenge, what do you guys think? How if it all could this work?
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It can definitely work if there's good chemistry and mutual understanding! :) I'm in a long-distance sugar relationship with a very sweet man, and have been for over a year now, I believe. We see each other several times every 3-4 months, and talk on a regular basis (at least once a week).

Communication is key. That's what makes LDRs work, in my opinion.

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I'm sure it works, but how cost effective would it be?
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I follow multiple sugar babies on Instagram, and love reading posts from the most experienced ones. Even when their SDs are not available to see them, some of them get random deposits in their bank accounts, or their SDs give them their credit cards while they're away. I have no idea know how they do it, but they prove it's possible.
 
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MissInsomnia said:
It can definitely work if there's good chemistry and mutual understanding! :)

Communication is key. That's what makes LDRs work, in my opinion.
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Exactly so.

Those factors plus tryng to making the best use you can of the limited time you have together, trying to make them special and memorable in various ways.

Pretty much the same as non-sugar LDRs imo too.

-Ww
 
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This may sound strange at first and unrelated to the topic, but then, again ...

 
Thanks guys, this is very useful. I can understand when both parties meet regularly but what would be the drivers for an SB to accept such a relationship apart from perhaps monthly inflows...or are the inflows only limited to times when they meet which is why the comments around cost efficiency...

Sorry if this is too much detail, but I am trying to understand the basics of such a relationship... I am not be understand what could keep such a relationship ticking...@missinsomnia your views?
 
Mwktm said:
Thanks guys, this is very useful. I can understand when both parties meet regularly but what would be the drivers for an SB to accept such a relationship apart from perhaps monthly inflows...or are the inflows only limited to times when they meet which is why the comments around cost efficiency...

Sorry if this is too much detail, but I am trying to understand the basics of such a relationship... I am not be understand what could keep such a relationship ticking...@missinsomnia your views?
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You are looking for @MissInsomnia 's answer I realize, but fwiiw, I don't understand your question. Are you simply asking how the financial arrangements differ in a sugar LDR compared to other sugar relationships? The answer is ithat it varies all over the map in my experience.

In fact, sugar arrangements vary so much...way more than conventional np4p and p4p ones...that it is very hard to answer general questions...in general! :D

-Ww
 
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If long distance relationships work, why shouldn't that be the case for sugar dating? I have no experience in sugar dating, but my understanding is that they are tinkered towards the convenience of both part, not only in financial matters. It probably wouldn't fit everyone, but some people may prefer an intense continuous period together over once a week arrangements etc.
And it's only a guess, but I think for most SD the financial aspect isn't the major one. If one isn't comfortable with the level of spending, the arrangement probably isn't a good fit, long distance or not.
 
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Mwktm said:
Thanks guys, this is very useful. I can understand when both parties meet regularly but what would be the drivers for an SB to accept such a relationship apart from perhaps monthly inflows...or are the inflows only limited to times when they meet which is why the comments around cost efficiency...

Sorry if this is too much detail, but I am trying to understand the basics of such a relationship... I am not be understand what could keep such a relationship ticking...@missinsomnia your views?
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I think there is no problem with sugar being limited to times when they meet, as long as they are both allowed to see other people.

It would be financially unstable for the SB if she can have some other (small) daddies and the guy would also have to be without sex for certain periods.
 
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I think it can work out quite well for both parties. I live in the US and I met an escort in Tokyo. I really liked here. We started a SD/SB relationship that lasted almost a year. I invited her in the US for a few days and she would often come with me in my many business trips to Europe/Asia. In between the trips, we stayed in contact and she would send me private pics/movies.
Financially, I gave her a monthly payment and covered all trip expenses.
 
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Tried it! Bit after awhile I got suspicious! Never a new pic always old and always from the same months and time periods. After repeated requests for current pictures, I stopped the whole agreement. Turned out to be a grandma using her grandkids photos.

And another time, I thought I was talking to a young coed and actually when this woman arrived, she was 30 years past her expiry date. She was on something. I hosted her for a week and boy could she dance! Literally, she had more energy than all of the youngins in the club combined. After my two negative experiences, I decided that LT or LD Sugar anything was not my thing unless it was arranged previous with a person of choice in the beginning. Therefore I'd say no! But others might disagree.
 
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DeepStick2020 said:
Tried it! Bit after awhile I got suspicious! Never a new pic always old and always from the same months and time periods. After repeated requests for current pictures, I stopped the whole agreement. Turned out to be a grandma using her grandkids photos.

And another time, I thought I was talking to a young coed and actually when this woman arrived, she was 30 years past her expiry date. She was on something. I hosted her for a week and boy could she dance! Literally, she had more energy than all of the youngins in the club combined. After my two negative experiences, I decided that LT or LD Sugar anything was not my thing unless it was arranged previous with a person of choice in the beginning. Therefore I'd say no! But others might disagree.
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Lucky for you that she did not sext you on Skype. That would have resulted in years of therapy.

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Ain't that the truth. Neither were bad looking, actually. Just not truthful about their age! I suspect the first one was a con artist and the second a cougar that had started to lose her cougar appeal. But even in her leopard skin leotards, you could tell that she was once a "sexy kitten"! I actually thought that if I'd have never met her and the illusion kept, she'd have made a nice talk buddy, but that leopard skin image just wouldn't shake.
 
I have a long-distance SB and have had her for the past 3 years. Our relationship has always been about travel experiences; she never has wanted cash so it might not be exactly the same as the relationship you're looking at. This girl has a good job but can't afford life's luxuries. I've taken her on trips, here in Japan and overseas. Over these trips, I've become close to her and I feel she cares about me. I think she knows if something suddenly rocked her world - someone without insurance totaled her car, etc - that I would help her and I gladly would. In the beginning, cost/benefit was very high in my mind. These days, with her, it's not. I have my limits - if she asked me to buy her a condo, I wouldn't. But she would never ask me that.
 
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