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first of all, I want to explain how I met her and what happened and I'd like to know if you guys think that she could actually be interested in me.
it basically was just one day, we met by coincidence and spent the day with her (plus some of her/my friends) at some places in Kyoto. we talked for quite some time, she asked about him and I did the same about her.
not long before she and a couple of her friends left she asked for my number/line. which I think is quite rare for a girl to ask that to a guy, especially japanese ones, no?
of course this could have meant that she was just trying to be polite or whatever, and not that she was actually interested in me. the next day she had to leave but I find her again at the station by pure coincidence, wa talk a little and she leaves.
after that we just chat a bit on LINE, for some reason she waits like 2 hours for each reply. (why? Lol)
after a couple of weeks she comments on one picture I made and she says something like "those days in kyoto were great".
now I obviously don't believe that she is 100% into me but what do you guys think? Btw she has some pictures of that time where I think I look like shit. on the other hand if she sees me again she can (maybe) change her mind and think that I'm not as bad as I looked in those pictures.
almost 2 months have passed and now I was planning on going to visit the city where she lives before going back to my country, and also planning on asking her to go out with me when I'm there. I won't be there for long (around 5 days maybe a week) but if she actually says yes (which can easily be for kindness and not for actual interest, she said "if you ever come to my city let me know" but that's really what everyone says to a friend, I believe) how should I play my cards? How should I ask her if she wants to go out again (maybe right the next day)? Considering that I won't have much time should I also be a bit "aggressive"?
it basically was just one day, we met by coincidence and spent the day with her (plus some of her/my friends) at some places in Kyoto. we talked for quite some time, she asked about him and I did the same about her.
not long before she and a couple of her friends left she asked for my number/line. which I think is quite rare for a girl to ask that to a guy, especially japanese ones, no?
of course this could have meant that she was just trying to be polite or whatever, and not that she was actually interested in me. the next day she had to leave but I find her again at the station by pure coincidence, wa talk a little and she leaves.
after that we just chat a bit on LINE, for some reason she waits like 2 hours for each reply. (why? Lol)
after a couple of weeks she comments on one picture I made and she says something like "those days in kyoto were great".
now I obviously don't believe that she is 100% into me but what do you guys think? Btw she has some pictures of that time where I think I look like shit. on the other hand if she sees me again she can (maybe) change her mind and think that I'm not as bad as I looked in those pictures.
almost 2 months have passed and now I was planning on going to visit the city where she lives before going back to my country, and also planning on asking her to go out with me when I'm there. I won't be there for long (around 5 days maybe a week) but if she actually says yes (which can easily be for kindness and not for actual interest, she said "if you ever come to my city let me know" but that's really what everyone says to a friend, I believe) how should I play my cards? How should I ask her if she wants to go out again (maybe right the next day)? Considering that I won't have much time should I also be a bit "aggressive"?