Looks or Performance?

I'm going to be in the minority here and say looks. Yes, performance is very important and it's a tough call for sure but I'll give you two experiences from 2019:

1) Decided to not nominate and ended up with a fairly unattractive girl at a pink salon. She did a pretty solid job but it's nothing I'd like to think back to. Yeah, I blew my load but I wasn't particularly happy about it. Furthermore, when I'm masturbating, it's not something I'd rather think about.

2) Ended up with a really cute girl at Lovely Hand. Despite her being young and very attractive she gave a half-assed blowjob. Mostly just licking the shaft and tugging on it. I asked her to open her mouth and I just jerked off and came on her tongue. Despite her lack of skills I still love fantasizing about her cute face/reactions while I pretty much never think back to the girl from the first example.
 
I'm going to be in the minority here and say looks. Yes, performance is very important and it's a tough call for sure but I'll give you two experiences from 2019:

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2) Ended up with a really cute girl at Lovely Hand. Despite her being young and very attractive she gave a half-assed blowjob. Mostly just licking the shaft and tugging on it. I asked her to open her mouth and I just jerked off and came on her tongue. Despite her lack of skills I still love fantasizing about her cute face/reactions while I pretty much never think back to the girl from the first example.

But that was more masturbation with a living image than sex, wasn't it?
 
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What is more important in an escort to you?

Definitely performance!

Many times even below average looking girls and average performance can be a gem if their attitude is good!

I have been with some gorgeous AV girls, even very famous ones and their attitude is disgusting and mediocre performance. Diva attitude and very dissappointing playing time.
 
It depends on how ur body will react.
i'd go for looks anytime of d day, but the thing is, in my experience, Girl A(very my type but was boring in bed) and Girl B(not actually my type but has this weird fetishes that turned me really on).
i ended up meeting Girl B more often.

So its really up to you and ur taste.
 
Generally I try to find a balance with both. On a scale of 1-10 in looks and performance/ attitude you would be be lucky to get an 8-8 or higher for both. Mina of AM is a great example of someone who ranks high in looks and performance/attitude. But overall, I’d lean towards a 6-9 in looks and performance over someone who’s a 10-3. There’s nothing more frustrating than getting someone who looks great and has a shitty performance/attitude.
 
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If they are very physically attractive they will know it and usually can dial down the service level because their looks provide enough business. My favorites are the ones that don't stand out in a crowd of two and know it and go that extra distance to compensate for it and provide very good service. My current favorite (will not disclose) at one place is very, very plain looking but her personality, work ethic and sexual attractiveness make up for it. I treat her like she is beautiful, she probably realizes that it is not entirely true but appreciates the sentiment just the same. If you walked by her on a Yamanote platform 1000 times you would not even notice she exists but her skin is clear, her grooming is top-notch and she tries very hard to please her customers and has that personality that is very conservative Japanese, although it is probably somewhat an act.
 
Although we have been talking mostly about pros, the same basic principles apply to amateurs. Ladies who aren’t particularly good looking can (or at least should) try harder to please their men.
 
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Although we have been talking mostly about pros, the same basic principles apply to amateurs. Ladies who aren’t particularly good looking can (or at least should) try harder to please their men.
First thoughts upon reading this:

 
Looks! of course though, it depends on the type of bad attitude.
if a good looking provider is simply disinterested or lazy, thats fine with me. BUT if they seem to really hate being there (either they really dislike their job, or me), then its a deal breaker.
 
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Close your eyes they all look good. It must have been 30+ years ago someone showed me a B1 place in kabuki-cho, You paid ¥3000, put your tool through the hole in the wall and, well walked back up “unloaded”. I never gave it a go but did see a line of willing takers, so at least for some, looks matter not! Myself, I prefer looks, at least on the street, but when others can’t see what she is willing to accept money for, I reckon if she shows me off or hides me, that is also her choice. Sorry was this question about how she looks or how he looks?
 
Close your eyes they all look good. It must have been 30+ years ago someone showed me a B1 place in kabuki-cho, You paid ¥3000, put your tool through the hole in the wall and, well walked back up “unloaded”. I never gave it a go but did see a line of willing takers, so at least for some, looks matter not! Myself, I prefer looks, at least on the street, but when others can’t see what she is willing to accept money for, I reckon if she shows me off or hides me, that is also her choice. Sorry was this question about how she looks or how he looks?

If glory holes are your thing, then you shouldn't be too picky about the gender of the provider either.
 
If glory holes are your thing, then you shouldn't be too picky about the gender of the provider either.

Not true, moustaches can still be ticklish.
 
Close your eyes they all look good. It must have been 30+ years ago someone showed me a B1 place in kabuki-cho, You paid ¥3000, put your tool through the hole in the wall and, well walked back up “unloaded”. I never gave it a go but did see a line of willing takers, so at least for some, looks matter not! Myself, I prefer looks, at least on the street, but when others can’t see what she is willing to accept money for, I reckon if she shows me off or hides me, that is also her choice. Sorry was this question about how she looks or how he looks?

Video NSFW and may feature clowns.
 
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Attitude and a little on looks, a certain provider at a pink salon did and said the right things on the first meeting 1 year ago and I’m still head over heels to this day.
As for performance I personally don’t really care as much (never had a bad one though), As long as I pop you know, but that’s just me. But I will say, the best performers for me are usually the less pretty ones.
 
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On the reverse side I've had many conversations with ladies I've seen for years and when they talk about what type of customer they like (and don't like) the underlying sentiment is they don't like guys who are rough and don't listen (i.e. mainland Chinese) and guys who treat them with little or no respect. Secondly, a female's nose is far more sensitive than ours and they really can't stand guys with poor grooming habits, dirty clothes, bad breath, greasy hair, smelly bodies and are otherwise unkept. The shower/bath and tooth brushing before a session can only do so much. When I ask them about looks they mostly say a guy's looks are really not very important and guys who are really good looking can be some of the worst customers. It sounds like a lot of this works in reverse the same way for her as it does for us. The lesson I take away from them is go there with a clean body and mouth, clean clothes and a nice attitude and your chances of better performance by her is enhanced.
 
What omg Looks, I can't do no ugly girl for shiz or fat girl my wee wee will be soft. I really not sure by the meaning of performance but vagina quality. I talked to escort because and was told if my penis was a certain size charge extra and heard some are no go at all. So quality is there I'm a dude she just have to be kawaii
 
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