Meet & Greet and or Socials?

I’ve met four of the other TAG independent ladies, and I doubt that they would make a fuss if they found themselves at a gathering with a client that they had blacklisted. They would simply avoid them and get on with being professional-yet-friendly.

Masquerade masks could help protect the identity of attendees, although they would somehow need to be identified to gain entry to the event.

In Australia, fellow (male) mongers just tend to DM each other and meet for a casual drink when they are in the same city. I know that some do find it helpful to make connections with other men as they can’t talk to many people about their ‘hobby’.
 
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jhingy567 said:
sorry, did you mean guys wanting a free session (sex) or to just meet socially for free ?
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Socially for free, because time is still time.

Escorts can be taken on public date locations, such as restaurants, parties, art galleries, concerts, etc. These dates don’t have to involve sex, yet we still get paid for our time.

I’m not saying that everyone who invites providers to their meet-ups wants to take advantage of them, but there are people like that.
 
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I would suggest there be some strict rules about photos - selfies or otherwise. That's one of the reasons why many of us only meet here in the anonymity of the internet.

Either a 10,000 Yen fine for every infraction - or I would be tempted to "borrow" the violator's phone and return it in pieces.
 
The problem really is the “small world” and we have all read where people have been outed anonymously and shamed publically. Not saying anyone is interested in a foreigner, but it happens. I used to run with a bunch of serious drunks and rumors spread and stuff happens that you can’t take back. For some this kind of circle is for when you have nothing to lose.
 
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Lukes said:
That's not all that would be empty ;)

But in all seriousness, I think there's a certain appeal to being able to meet other mongers rather than just the ladies (though I wouldn't pass on that either). This lifestyle isn't for everyone so it's nice to know there are others that share in it.
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There was a post recently about "Can't men and women just be friends", just my 2 cents, but the TAG meet up should be fellow TAG members just having a few drinks and just talking about any topic (could be sexual if they want to) under the sun and not a meet up to "Get Laid" for free and to harass others.
 
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CluelessInJapan said:
There was a post recently about "Can't men and women just be friends", just my 2 cents, but the TAG meet up should be fellow TAG members just having a few drinks and just talking about any topic (could be sexual if they want to) under the sun and not a meet up to "Get Laid" for free and to harass others.
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You can start an event if you’d like.

What I said in my previous post is also my 2 cents. I’ve attended some of these events, but no longer want to take part in them due to people gossiping behind other people’s backs, including mine after I left. I’d rather not be associated with those people.
 
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MissInsomnia said:
You can start an event if you’d like.

What I said in my previous post is also my 2 cents. I’ve attended some of these events, but no longer want to take part in them due to people gossiping behind other people’s backs, including mine after I left. I’d rather not be associated with those people.
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Currently living in Singapore, pretty hard to arrange an event plus I'm quite inexperienced.

That's too just sad, people like that just shouldn't be at events just to ruin other people's nights
 
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I’ve attended some of these events, but no longer want to take part in them due to people gossiping behind other people’s backs, including mine after I left. I’d rather not be associated with those people.
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This is a good point.
We all know that the people who most like to come to these events are the people who are most curious, and they WILL talk.

Personally, i'm also someone who's curious about who is behind the screen names, and as for work, i think its a smart move to go because trusted forum users who would not book me for some reason (rates, not their type) but who can later confirm that my looks are legit and on point and my personality is not crazy at first sight.

But yes, people will have some gossip ready so we'd have to watch our looks and watch what we say and its less fun and more stressful.
 
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I personally enjoyed the first meeting we had as a group. It was a very nice gathering.

But I think I’m at some point of my life where I wouldn’t want to meet a random group of strangers from a P4P forum. It’s not as negative meant as I probably write it but working on something in my career has made me more careful as to who I trust and meet face to face (besides escorting of course, but Tokyo is small when it comes to foreigners)
I’m still more than happy to meet with my fellow escort friends here unless I have a bad feeling about someone new :)
 
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But yes, people will have some gossip ready so we'd have to watch our looks
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"gossip" :rolleyes:
I'm just imagining a gathering of middle-aged men talking about some girl's smudged makeup.:ROFLMAO:

Anyway, people will still gossip, even without a meetup. Not really something you have control over anyway.

In fact I think hearing some bad gossip about ourselves is beneficial in some ways - 'character building' and helps us grow thick skin or improve.
 
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jhingy567 said:
"gossip" :rolleyes:
I'm just imagining a gathering of middle-aged men talking about some girl's smudged makeup.:ROFLMAO:

Anyway, people will still gossip, even without a meetup. Not really something you have control over anyway.

In fact I think hearing some bad gossip about ourselves is beneficial in some ways - 'character building' and helps us grow thick skin or improve.
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Agreed. I had the occasion to hear back about various gossips on me , and in most cases they helped do what you mentioned. Or made me laugh, or both. :)
 
ShowaJidai said:
I would suggest there be some strict rules about photos - selfies or otherwise. That's one of the reasons why many of us only meet here in the anonymity of the internet.

Either a 10,000 Yen fine for every infraction - or I would be tempted to "borrow" the violator's phone and return it in pieces.
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Why the fine?

And they wouldn't get their phone back from me at all, information can still be recovered from it in pieces.
 
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Yes, but how much OTHER information is in your phone?

It's not like any picture you took at a public place would have anything much happening in it.

Go ahead, put out there that so and so was at such and such location and there was an escort there!

Next question, how do you know this person, and how, exactly, did you know the young lady was an escort?

Went to Shot Show, stayed at Hard Rock because that is where I stay when in Vegas. Porn awards were at the same time, there were plenty of times I could have been photographed in the same room as porn stars and escorts. Hell at one point a girl came over to talk to me about guns and some things going on at Shot, she worked for Vivid.
 
DJnLJ said:
Yes, but how much OTHER information is in your phone?

It's not like any picture you took at a public place would have anything much happening in it.

Go ahead, put out there that so and so was at such and such location and there was an escort there!

Next question, how do you know this person, and how, exactly, did you know the young lady was an escort?

Went to Shot Show, stayed at Hard Rock because that is where I stay when in Vegas. Porn awards were at the same time, there were plenty of times I could have been photographed in the same room as porn stars and escorts. Hell at one point a girl came over to talk to me about guns and some things going on at Shot, she worked for Vivid.
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You forget that not everyone wants to be photographed..... gotta respect someone’s wishes and privacy. It has nothing to do that this may be a big event or whatsoever.
It’s just not ok to take pictures of someone who obviously doesn’t want it.
Oh the other hand... this is Tokyo. And we all know how small Tokyo can be.
 
Oh, I agree that taking the pictures without OK is wrong. We are simply discussing the picture that gets taken before the phone gets taken from the photographer.
 
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