I'm going back to Japan next year and will most likely give hiring an escort another try. However, getting a hotel and meeting up there, or meeting at a train station and walking to the place, just doesn't sit well with me. It feels very clinical, like going to a doctor's appointment and having your checkup.
I feel like getting some form of connection to the person before going at it, even if it's a token effort or pure play-acting. I'm from a culture that doesn't encourage casual conversation in general, especially not while walking, which is why it'd be nice to have at least ten-fifteen minutes to sit down and treat the escort to a coffee shop/tea house, maybe a pastry, exchange pleasantries, make each other at ease and perhaps even get the session payment over with so there's nothing about that to occupy our minds.
I am fully aware that a session isn't a date and the escort isn't a girlfriend, which coincidentally isn't what I'm after, but just having *some* human connection to the other person is important to me. Being able to talk for a little while, seeing them and having them see me in a neutral environment does go a long way to make the entire session feel a lot more natural and enjoyable.
So, this is my question: is this a pipe dream? I mean, is the escorting paradigm to treat a session like how a hospital treats patient appointments, or is there either time or desire to get a feel for the customer beforehand? What considerations, planning and perspectives does an escort have before, during and after a session like this?
Thanks!
I feel like getting some form of connection to the person before going at it, even if it's a token effort or pure play-acting. I'm from a culture that doesn't encourage casual conversation in general, especially not while walking, which is why it'd be nice to have at least ten-fifteen minutes to sit down and treat the escort to a coffee shop/tea house, maybe a pastry, exchange pleasantries, make each other at ease and perhaps even get the session payment over with so there's nothing about that to occupy our minds.
I am fully aware that a session isn't a date and the escort isn't a girlfriend, which coincidentally isn't what I'm after, but just having *some* human connection to the other person is important to me. Being able to talk for a little while, seeing them and having them see me in a neutral environment does go a long way to make the entire session feel a lot more natural and enjoyable.
So, this is my question: is this a pipe dream? I mean, is the escorting paradigm to treat a session like how a hospital treats patient appointments, or is there either time or desire to get a feel for the customer beforehand? What considerations, planning and perspectives does an escort have before, during and after a session like this?
Thanks!
