MFM first-contact a bust... advice please!

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  1. MarkLast

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    So I replied to an ad (not here) for my first MFM.
    I'm aiming for MFF actually, but I got the notion that MFM is "the price of the ticket".

    I got a response a month later (not complaints about that). The M was doing the negotiating.
    "Still keen?".
    I replied "yes, let's talk."
    nothing. I sent my pic (face).
    "She's keen, when are you free?" along with nudie pics of her, (no face but nice bod)
    I asked for a little more info about them & what was expected.
    "looks like it's not going to work out, we need someone less apprehensive".

    I understand no-one wants to deal with time-wasters, but I needed a little more interaction first.
    Thoughts? Should I just have arranged a meet?
     
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    You may have dodged a bullet. Anyone that presses a meeting that quickly without some sort of 'get to know you' time could be trouble.
    Probably true that some are just looking for a quick and dirty contact and meeting, but is that really ideal? No. Lots of risk there or at least the potential risk factor for something bad is really high.
     
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    I wouldn't read too much into his response.

    Maybe he was the time waster? Who knows.....maybe he didn't have a partner, or maybe his partner was not aware of his plan, or maybe he was just trying to get pics of you? Just another deadbeat on the internet.
     
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    Thanks! You live & learn...
     
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    It's not ideal as far as I am concerned! Thanks!
     

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