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Service and/or Provider's Name:
Kayo

Date of Encounter:
May 2018

Contact Method:
Email: kayointokyo@gmail.com (she responds very fast)

Appointment Length & Costs:
1 hour - 25000 yen

Type/Location:
At her place

Language Notes:
English

Details of the Encounter:
Where do I even begin. This is my first time doing this kind of thing, as the title said, I was a virgin untill a couple of hours ago.

I guess I'll start with her look. I would say she have that ''kind onee-san" kind of look, if that make any sense (I'm younger than her so I can say that right?). Anyway, look wise she was really my type.

We first start off with having a shower. Being my first time with a girl, it really help ease the tension as I get used to seeing her body. Its also where I got my first kiss. Yes i wasn't just a virgin but also a KISSLESS virgin. Looking back, I wish I asked if I could have washed her too.

Then it's off to bed. She was considerate and ask if the room was a little too cold, to which I said yes. Now it's down to business. She start off with a blowjob. Mixing a variety of techniques. Her face was very sexy (a bit of a fetish of mine). Then I asked if we could move on the main event. To be honest, I was a bit worry about the time.

A bit of a segway, I had done a bit of ''image training" before. I couldn't last more than 10 minute everytime I "trained". But being a virgin with too much time on his hand, jerking off 2-4 times a day for the last 10 years, I had a game plan. I was able to get it up again fairly quickly, and my second round usually last much longer. So I tried to cum fast so I can go for the second round with more time left on the clock. A bit like eating the veggies first so I can enjoy the rest of the meal.

And so we move on to the actual sex. The way she put on the condom with her mouth was my favorite part. It felt very good and the way she looked was just too sexy. I might have a face fetish or something. First off we did cowgirl. Being my first time, I wanted to her to take the lead for a bit. She certainly moved like a pro. Since I'm not experienced in this department I have nothing to compare to. We tried different position after, doggy, missionary. With lots of kisses in between. I was a sucker for kissing, and she didn't mind everytime I wanted to kiss.

The way her body feel was unbelievable. She was very soft to hug, and just make you feel good by just holding her. She was also attentive. Since I was inexperienced, she match her pace to mine to make it a little easier on me.

When I took the lead, boy was my inexperience showing. I felt like a fish flapping out of the water, haha. Maybe it's the way my penis is shaped too, but some of the position felt like I was crushing my dick.

At this point, it was more than half the allotted time and I was getting a bit desperate to come. Long story short, I couldn't come untill the very end and she had to finish me off with her hand since it was getting close to the time limit and she had another client waiting. It's too bad that I didn't get to finish inside of her. But handjob while kissing and fingering her was the next best thing. So in the end I felt a bit unsatisfied, but I can tell that she was trying hard to service me. It broke my heart a little hearing her telling me sorry. None of it was her fault, it was just my problems.

Which lead me to my next point, I hope this isnt too off topic. If you're in a similiar situation like me i'd like to give a bit of advice ( if it can even be called that). First off, a bit about me, so you know if the following will apply to you. I'm a 22 y/o college student. Never had a girlfriend, never kissed before. I'm usually a bit shy, not really have the balls to speak out what I want, probably why the number of years I'm single is the same number as my age. I'm a bit lost, in term that I don't really know who I am or what I want to do. That was the reason why I came to Japan in the first place, to find myself(cheesy, I know). I've only stumbled across this forum a week before I left japan by pure coincidence. With my personality, this would be the last thing I'd do ( Which is probably why I did it).

Sorry for the side track, but I felt it was necessary so that my fellow virgins understand the level to which the advices apply to them. I've seen some losers when given a bit of power/control, tend to go power-crazy. I just don't want to any harm coming to Kayo-san or anyone else.

First of all, know your kink/fetish/whatever turn you on. If you're like me and been beating the meat several times a day for more than half your life, you tend to be a bit less sensitive to the 'normal stuff'. For me, my fetish was her body. I want to explore evey inch of it. Which I sadly didn't do. That's why I'm so turned on by kissing and feeling her body. It's really too bad, I think I would cum in seconds if I had ate her out.

Secondly, closely related to the first. Don't be afraid to ask her to do anything you want to. ( But respect her reply though, don't push any boundaries). I was a bit shy, and didnt want to be pushy. Also as it was my first time I wasn't confident in taking the lead. Don't make the same mistake like me. You're already in bed with get, so don't be afraid to ask. If you don't tell her, she won't know, she's not a psychic. So don't cuck yourself.

And lastly, make you have the energy and is horny enough. I think that's part of the reason why I couldn't cum. Watch porn or something before meeting her. Don't do what I do and go to the Edo Tokyo museum. You can't get horny from the history of Edo japan. Also, I felt a bit tired. So rest up, and down those energy drink if you have to. Don't worry if you shoot fast, if you been jacking it like me, you'll get it up in no time flat. And I guess don't get too stressed out about the time and just enjoy the experiences.

Sorry if that's a bit too off topic. Admin feel free to move it somewhere else if you wish. I just had to get it off my chest. I hope you enjoy my little sorry, maybe laugh at my foolishness.

Final Thoughts:
Recommended, Will Repeat.

Closing Comments:
From a guy with totally no experience, I'm glad I that I've met Kayo.

And to Kayo-san, if you're reading. ( I'm not sure if she visit the forums since I'm also new here).
Thanks you for the experience. It may not have been the 'mind melting, my hips are moving on their own ' kind of first time that I've always fantasize. But it was a also a valuable learning experience to me. I may not have found myself after an hour with you. The hour that never seem to end, yet also passed by the blink of the eyes. I think I've gained a little bit more courage to face what lies ahead of me. To me, you'll always be the senpai that's out of my league that I'll never stop chasing. Not untill I make you fall for me. ( Not that I've fallen for you or anything, even I know falling in love in this kind of business is nothing but a one way ticket to the bottom of Tokyo Bay). I hope that next time I meet you, i can be a bit better. (Although, not anytime soon since I'm a broke ass college student, haha).

I don't know if everyone else's first time was filled with bittersweet memories, wishing for all the things that they could have done differently. But I guess that's the way life is. If you're a weeb like me and seen the Garden of Words (Kotonoha no Niwa), the ending probably sum up how I'm feeling right now.

Sincerely,
From a stupid naive college kid from Canada atop of Tokyo tower.
 
Service and/or Provider's Name:
Kayo

Date of Encounter:
May 2018

Contact Method:
Email: kayointokyo@gmail.com (she responds very fast)

Appointment Length & Costs:
1 hour - 25000 yen

Type/Location:
At her place

Language Notes:
English

Details of the Encounter:
Where do I even begin. This is my first time doing this kind of thing, as the title said, I was a virgin untill a couple of hours ago.

I guess I'll start with her look. I would say she have that ''kind onee-san" kind of look, if that make any sense (I'm younger than her so I can say that right?). Anyway, look wise she was really my type.

We first start off with having a shower. Being my first time with a girl, it really help ease the tension as I get used to seeing her body. Its also where I got my first kiss. Yes i wasn't just a virgin but also a KISSLESS virgin. Looking back, I wish I asked if I could have washed her too.

Then it's off to bed. She was considerate and ask if the room was a little too cold, to which I said yes. Now it's down to business. She start off with a blowjob. Mixing a variety of techniques. Her face was very sexy (a bit of a fetish of mine). Then I asked if we could move on the main event. To be honest, I was a bit worry about the time.

A bit of a segway, I had done a bit of ''image training" before. I couldn't last more than 10 minute everytime I "trained". But being a virgin with too much time on his hand, jerking off 2-4 times a day for the last 10 years, I had a game plan. I was able to get it up again fairly quickly, and my second round usually last much longer. So I tried to cum fast so I can go for the second round with more time left on the clock. A bit like eating the veggies first so I can enjoy the rest of the meal.

And so we move on to the actual sex. The way she put on the condom with her mouth was my favorite part. It felt very good and the way she looked was just too sexy. I might have a face fetish or something. First off we did cowgirl. Being my first time, I wanted to her to take the lead for a bit. She certainly moved like a pro. Since I'm not experienced in this department I have nothing to compare to. We tried different position after, doggy, missionary. With lots of kisses in between. I was a sucker for kissing, and she didn't mind everytime I wanted to kiss.

The way her body feel was unbelievable. She was very soft to hug, and just make you feel good by just holding her. She was also attentive. Since I was inexperienced, she match her pace to mine to make it a little easier on me.

When I took the lead, boy was my inexperience showing. I felt like a fish flapping out of the water, haha. Maybe it's the way my penis is shaped too, but some of the position felt like I was crushing my dick.

At this point, it was more than half the allotted time and I was getting a bit desperate to come. Long story short, I couldn't come untill the very end and she had to finish me off with her hand since it was getting close to the time limit and she had another client waiting. It's too bad that I didn't get to finish inside of her. But handjob while kissing and fingering her was the next best thing. So in the end I felt a bit unsatisfied, but I can tell that she was trying hard to service me. It broke my heart a little hearing her telling me sorry. None of it was her fault, it was just my problems.

Which lead me to my next point, I hope this isnt too off topic. If you're in a similiar situation like me i'd like to give a bit of advice ( if it can even be called that). First off, a bit about me, so you know if the following will apply to you. I'm a 22 y/o college student. Never had a girlfriend, never kissed before. I'm usually a bit shy, not really have the balls to speak out what I want, probably why the number of years I'm single is the same number as my age. I'm a bit lost, in term that I don't really know who I am or what I want to do. That was the reason why I came to Japan in the first place, to find myself(cheesy, I know). I've only stumbled across this forum a week before I left japan by pure coincidence. With my personality, this would be the last thing I'd do ( Which is probably why I did it).

Sorry for the side track, but I felt it was necessary so that my fellow virgins understand the level to which the advices apply to them. I've seen some losers when given a bit of power/control, tend to go power-crazy. I just don't want to any harm coming to Kayo-san or anyone else.

First of all, know your kink/fetish/whatever turn you on. If you're like me and been beating the meat several times a day for more than half your life, you tend to be a bit less sensitive to the 'normal stuff'. For me, my fetish was her body. I want to explore evey inch of it. Which I sadly didn't do. That's why I'm so turned on by kissing and feeling her body. It's really too bad, I think I would cum in seconds if I had ate her out.

Secondly, closely related to the first. Don't be afraid to ask her to do anything you want to. ( But respect her reply though, don't push any boundaries). I was a bit shy, and didnt want to be pushy. Also as it was my first time I wasn't confident in taking the lead. Don't make the same mistake like me. You're already in bed with get, so don't be afraid to ask. If you don't tell her, she won't know, she's not a psychic. So don't cuck yourself.

And lastly, make you have the energy and is horny enough. I think that's part of the reason why I couldn't cum. Watch porn or something before meeting her. Don't do what I do and go to the Edo Tokyo museum. You can't get horny from the history of Edo japan. Also, I felt a bit tired. So rest up, and down those energy drink if you have to. Don't worry if you shoot fast, if you been jacking it like me, you'll get it up in no time flat. And I guess don't get too stressed out about the time and just enjoy the experiences.

Sorry if that's a bit too off topic. Admin feel free to move it somewhere else if you wish. I just had to get it off my chest. I hope you enjoy my little sorry, maybe laugh at my foolishness.

Final Thoughts:
Recommended, Will Repeat.

Closing Comments:
From a guy with totally no experience, I'm glad I that I've met Kayo.

And to Kayo-san, if you're reading. ( I'm not sure if she visit the forums since I'm also new here).
Thanks you for the experience. It may not have been the 'mind melting, my hips are moving on their own ' kind of first time that I've always fantasize. But it was a also a valuable learning experience to me. I may not have found myself after an hour with you. The hour that never seem to end, yet also passed by the blink of the eyes. I think I've gained a little bit more courage to face what lies ahead of me. To me, you'll always be the senpai that's out of my league that I'll never stop chasing. Not untill I make you fall for me. ( Not that I've fallen for you or anything, even I know falling in love in this kind of business is nothing but a one way ticket to the bottom of Tokyo Bay). I hope that next time I meet you, i can be a bit better. (Although, not anytime soon since I'm a broke ass college student, haha).

I don't know if everyone else's first time was filled with bittersweet memories, wishing for all the things that they could have done differently. But I guess that's the way life is. If you're a weeb like me and seen the Garden of Words (Kotonoha no Niwa), the ending probably sum up how I'm feeling right now.

Sincerely,
From a stupid naive college kid from Canada atop of Tokyo tower.

Glad your first was a good experience. Thanks for sharing.
 
Glad to hear you had good time! And don't worry too much, with that experience you are already way above the bell curve as far as first times go.

Next time try to be more relaxed and don't spend time thinking when to come or not. If you come you come, if you don't you don't; anyway things can be amazing.
 
I don't think it's a matter of sensitiveness due to jacking off, you couldn't cum fast because you got used to be alone when you cum, it takes time to not be bothered by the witnesses of you cumming. it's all in the head.
 
Your review really spoke to me. I too was in a similar situation to you. I didn't get my first girlfriend until I was 21 and she was also my first kiss as well as first date. I do wish I had your courage, but sadly I believed the lie of paying a woman for sex was wrong, won't feel right, and the kind of woman who did that sort of thing are dirty. So instead of stressed about trying to find a girlfriend since the age of 16. I am glad to hear you had a good time and hopefully your review will help others like us be more open minded.
 
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