Nana From Am

[Minato Namikaze]

Getting a bf just for revenge sake is , to me , not a good idea. I believe in KARMA. Karma will take care of that.

I want a happy life , so if I get into a relationship, I'll make sure that I love him.

Very noble and right of you to say so. Revenge is a tough road to tread. You gotta dig two graves for that, too. Why bother? Let whoever God you worship deal with your situation and just focus on being happy and content. Remember, life is short for you to worry about things like that. There are plenty more opportunities to meet someone who will exceed your previous love. Life is full of both wonderful and painful surprises. It's your own book. Your grand adventure. Focus on the things that will make you happy in the long run. Your memories with him might be tough to forget at first, but time heals all things and you'll soon come out of that miserable feeling of sadness and betrayal and transform into a much better and stronger person. It's not your fault, it's his. He wasn't content and sought more. He failed to appreciate what he had and will soon come to the realization and regret of what he will lose. You loved him and fought for it, tooth and nail, and yet, it was all in vain. You did what you could. It's not your fault. He didn't deserve you. Don't let your feeling of anger and betrayal fester and rot inside you. It will make you even worse in the end. Trust me.

I felt that he is really hentai because he keeps buying DVDs of harem ( one man with a lot of young women doing him the service )

I have been separated from my ex-hubby for 17 years now. 3 yrs. ago I met him

Every man dreams of a harem. Powerful men from ancient times were often depicted in images where they are always surrounded by beautiful women. It's a symbol of male pride and power. Virility and strength. It's not a crime to fantasize about it but acting on it is a totally different question. Also, men are mostly hentai(perverted). Some are obvious, some are discreet and others are not very fond of showing it but it is the one thing that most men share. It's a natural response for men. Like I said, being perverted and fantasizing about certain things like harems and all that are pretty much harmless and purely fantasy. They are there to entertain the male mind. Why do you think sports was invented? Other than to promote nationalism? As a famous country singer once said, sports was invented to keep a man from thinking dirty thoughts all day.

A man can be perverted. He can fantasize about anything all he wants, but if he is extremely loyal to his lover, then his love for her will always triumph above everything.

 

[MossBoss]

It's really painful. I fought for my love for him. I felt that he is really hentai because he keeps buying DVDs of harem ( one man with a lot of young women doing him the service )

I have been separated from my ex-hubby for 17 years now. 3 yrs. ago I met this Japanese guy who became my bf.

I understand that you have high standards but sometimes it is difficult to find a perfect guy. Today when I walked past the pachinko parlour it was FULL despite it being New Years Day. Would you prefer to date a guy who spends all his family's spare cash gambling than your current bf (whose habit is watching pourno) for example?

 

[ken kumanomido]

That was so perfectly said. I like the way you think, Kyrose . But oftentimes,men act differently from the way he thinks. I mean , we all know what's right and good, yet, we oftentimes end up doing what's pleasurable / animalistic in nature even if doin' such could hurt another person's feelings.

It is for this reason - understanding his being a man - that has kept me fighting for my love. But too much of it , I guess , is no longer good for my health. Ended up drained!

Very noble and right of you to say so. Revenge is a tough road to tread. You gotta dig two graves for that, too. Why bother? Let whoever God you worship deal with your situation and just focus on being happy and content. Remember, life is short for you to worry about things like that. There are plenty more opportunities to meet someone who will exceed your previous love. Life is full of both wonderful and painful surprises. It's your own book. Your grand adventure. Focus on the things that will make you happy in the long run. Your memories with him might be tough to forget at first, but time heals all things and you'll soon come out of that miserable feeling of sadness and betrayal and transform into a much better and stronger person. It's not your fault, it's his. He wasn't content and sought more. He failed to appreciate what he had and will soon come to the realization and regret of what he will lose. You loved him and fought for it, tooth and nail, and yet, it was all in vain. You did what you could. It's not your fault. He didn't deserve you. Don't let your feeling of anger and betrayal fester and rot inside you. It will make you even worse in the end. Trust me.





Every man dreams of a harem. Powerful men from ancient times were often depicted in images where they are always surrounded by beautiful women. It's a symbol of male pride and power. Virility and strength. It's not a crime to fantasize about it but acting on it is a totally different question. Also, men are mostly hentai(perverted). Some are obvious, some are discreet and others are not very fond of showing it but it is the one thing that most men share. It's a natural response for men. Like I said, being perverted and fantasizing about certain things like harems and all that are pretty much harmless and purely fantasy. They are there to entertain the male mind. Why do you think sports was invented? Other than to promote nationalism? As a famous country singer once said, sports was invented to keep a man from thinking dirty thoughts all day.

A man can be perverted. He can fantasize about anything all he wants, but if he is extremely loyal to his lover, then his love for her will always triumph above everything.

 

[Minato Namikaze]

That was so perfectly said. I like the way you think, Kyrose . But oftentimes,men act differently from the way he thinks. I mean , we all know what's right and good, yet, we oftentimes end up doing what's pleasurable / animalistic in nature even if doin' such could hurt another person's feelings.

It is for this reason - understanding his being a man - that has kept me fighting for my love. But too much of it , I guess , is no longer good for my health. Ended up drained!

Men will ALWAYS act upon its nature. Same goes for women, too! That is the reason why men find ways to contain these animalistic behaviors and urges. Sports, masturbation, porn and other activities WITHOUT violating your trust and committing adultery (Cheating). Testosterone and Estrogen are beautiful but deadly beings, dear. They're pretty powerful. That is what separates man and woman. That is what defines them and gender difference. Have you ever tried taking testosterone supplements as a woman? Try some and you'll might get an idea how men operate most of their daily lives. Same goes for women as well. Estrogen is one hell of a problem for women as well, it's the cause of all the emotion and mood swings.

Women play a role in a man's life during the entire course of your relationship. Men do as well. Women desire emotional(loyalty) and financial security. Men desire emotional and sexual security above all else. Both parties require each other's needs to be kept in check. In your everyday life, as long as you provide a man with sexual gratification every once in a while, he'll stay with you forever. However, be stingy to a man with sex and that dog will come a barking somewhere else no matter how loyal that dog is to you. You think menstrual cramps are painful? Being cockblocked for months, even years is a nightmare. All that restlessness will eat away at a man. Masturbation sometimes won't cut it anymore. That is why sex plays a vital role for men. It is their biggest form of expression of physical and emotional contact.

To be perfectly honest, I don't blame your boyfriend for living his dream of making his own harem or whatever the hell he's doing right now. Although I believe he should have just done it before meeting someone as committed as you. Apparently, he isn't ready to be committed to a relationship and because of that, he hurt your feelings badly. As I have mentioned before, it's his fault/loss, not yours.

You know what's good for your health?

Go outdoors. Meet new people. Laugh! Live! Ignore that son of a bitch and enjoy the things life has to offer you! It's a perfect opportunity, too! It's 2015! This may be a brand new year full of wonderful and exciting surprises/adventures for you! Go seek it!

 

[ken kumanomido]

Men will ALWAYS act upon its nature. Same goes for women, too! That is the reason why men find ways to contain these animalistic behaviors and urges. Sports, masturbation, porn and other activities WITHOUT violating your trust and committing adultery (Cheating). Testosterone and Estrogen are beautiful but deadly beings, dear. They're pretty powerful. That is what separates man and woman. That is what defines them and gender difference. Have you ever tried taking testosterone supplements as a woman? Try some and you'll might get an idea how men operate most of their daily lives. Same goes for women as well. Estrogen is one hell of a problem for women as well, it's the cause of all the emotion and mood swings.

Women play a role in a man's life during the entire course of your relationship. Men do as well. Women desire emotional(loyalty) and financial security. Men desire emotional and sexual security above all else. Both parties require each other's needs to be kept in check. In your everyday life, as long as you provide a man with sexual gratification every once in a while, he'll stay with you forever. However, be stingy to a man with sex and that dog will come a barking somewhere else no matter how loyal that dog is to you. You think menstrual cramps are painful? Being cockblocked for months, even years is a nightmare. All that restlessness will eat away at a man. Masturbation sometimes won't cut it anymore. That is why sex plays a vital role for men. It is their biggest form of expression of physical and emotional contact.

To be perfectly honest, I don't blame your boyfriend for living his dream of making his own harem or whatever the hell he's doing right now. Although I believe he should have just done it before meeting someone as committed as you. Apparently, he isn't ready to be committed to a relationship and because of that, he hurt your feelings badly. As I have mentioned before, it's his fault/loss, not yours.

You know what's good for your health?

Go outdoors. Meet new people. Laugh! Live! Ignore that son of a bitch and enjoy the things life has to offer you! It's a perfect opportunity, too! It's 2015! This may be a brand new year full of wonderful and exciting surprises/adventures for you! Go seek it!