Just a question for guys used to it. Here are the 3 patterns I get lately with Street Pick Up:
1) She doesn't seem interested at all from the beginning. There I just say something, she looks at me with a neutral/uninterested face, doesn't really answer (or basic stuff) despite me smiling. Sometimes she will answer because the question/joke was genuinely interesting, but if I try to ask about her, she'll do the "I'm busy" face. These are ok.
2) (Most often) She will listen to me, without warmly welcoming me nor smiling, not saying anything. Kind of a challenging "go on, try to entertain me", and looks with a patronizing face or walk away at any attempt to establish connection (like "too easy"). A few times it picked up when I noticed a truly unique thing about them out of their appearance (though things didn't go any further). No generic or wrong affirmation will work though.
3) (Very rarely, happened 4 times out of 100+ attempts I think, but used to happen almost 1/2 in my 20s) She smiles, seems happy that I talk with her. She picks up on my small conversation and then the actual "game" starts: I'd just have to lead and bring the discussion somewhere better than basic stuff in order to know each other and see whether it's a match. Which until now seems to not have been the case but that's another problem
How do you react to 1) and 2) usually? Do you just dismiss them and try on another one?
1) She doesn't seem interested at all from the beginning. There I just say something, she looks at me with a neutral/uninterested face, doesn't really answer (or basic stuff) despite me smiling. Sometimes she will answer because the question/joke was genuinely interesting, but if I try to ask about her, she'll do the "I'm busy" face. These are ok.
2) (Most often) She will listen to me, without warmly welcoming me nor smiling, not saying anything. Kind of a challenging "go on, try to entertain me", and looks with a patronizing face or walk away at any attempt to establish connection (like "too easy"). A few times it picked up when I noticed a truly unique thing about them out of their appearance (though things didn't go any further). No generic or wrong affirmation will work though.
3) (Very rarely, happened 4 times out of 100+ attempts I think, but used to happen almost 1/2 in my 20s) She smiles, seems happy that I talk with her. She picks up on my small conversation and then the actual "game" starts: I'd just have to lead and bring the discussion somewhere better than basic stuff in order to know each other and see whether it's a match. Which until now seems to not have been the case but that's another problem
How do you react to 1) and 2) usually? Do you just dismiss them and try on another one?
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