New Here - Advice PLEASE

[Sudsy]

So ... selling (or taking) SMALL amounts of illegal drugs is fine then
Cool coz I must admit I tried ecstasy first time in Japan . Hated it and made me act like an asshole which frankly was not worth a few months in jail

Serious answer: still very illegal, still gets you jail time, but you don’t need to worry about it being an undercover cop that busts you.

 

[Frenchy]

Serious answer: still very illegal, still gets you jail time, but you don’t need to worry about it being an undercover cop that busts you.

Well in my defense it was last year at 9259 and K-Pop had brought in a Cali couple who thought it was harmless like candies or something. I shouted « Are you Insane? » then took it. Then I shouted again « are you fucking insane? » and they all went to the sex room except me and the blonde bitch from Moldova supposed to be my companion for the evening (found on SA) . But I threw her out coz she was a bitch. Then the staff told us to leave together coz thats the rule. Awkward silence in the elevator.

 

[Keihan]

Folks who would use/understand those abbreviations come from certain backgrounds. You and I probably ran in similar circles back in our past lives. Isn't it great to be out??

 

[Ken1988]

Simply, what is the likelihood of being set up by Japanese police for taking advantage of the prostitution loophole.

Zero. Consensual sex, even if money changes hands, is not a punishable offence in Japan unless minors are involved. It's not a loophole.

 

[Keihan]

Unfortunately, I never had that specific pleasure. Shortly after I finished school, my uncles all to tried to force me into OCS, promising me I'd thank them when I'm 40. Now I'm almost 40 and after raising hell all over the states and internationally and having not much to show for it, I finally understand. Had I listened, in four years I'd be a retired O-5 kicking back in a throne, using that penson to have bubbly 18yo Filipino girls fanning me, petting my genitals and mixing me cocktails all day long until I finally drink myself to death. Maybe in my next life.

 

[Keihan]

Oh yeah, that's for sure. After high school a whole bunch of my buddies couldn't run fast enough to the recruiter's office because they wanted to "shoot guns and blow shit up." It was all fun and games until the trade center towers came down a few years later and they all ended up sticking around for multiple tours in Asscrackistan. Most of them are out now, and I guess the disability and all is decent enough but certainly not worth the PTSD and broken down bodies most of those guys have. Uncle Sam got his money's worth out of them.

On the flip side...years back I was working with a certain three-letter agency and a whole bunch of young Rangers were trying to get in. At testing, I asked why they wanted to join and they all answered: "Do the four years and get the fuck out and do security consulting for the big bucks!!" I told them they were morons.

Later, I was working in D.C. and working with a lot of those young Hill staffer kids who slave away for $30k/year and I asked why they did it: "Get promoted to LD (Legislative Director) or Chief of Staff then fucking quit and become a lobbyist for the big bucks!!" I told them they were morons.

A decade later, all those kids I called morons probably have cars worth more than my condo and make in a month what I make in a year. Who's the moron now, right?

 

[SoapFTW]

This is enlightening. As much as I like to think myself emotionally aloof, I am thinking GFE is the right service after all.

Yeah mate, I'd say the GFE is what you're after. You mentioned you're married, but are looking for something outside. To me that indicates that you're not satisfied in your marriage, otherwise what would be the point? If I was satisfied in my marriage, I'd have zero thoughts about going out for p4p, but as it is it's my only recourse to maintain sanity. The GFE is great because if it's a really good one (see my review of Ayase or Momo at Darling Harbour here on TAG), you have this momentary flicker of a flame between you and the provider, and even though yes it is pretty much fake and acting, it can feel real enough to satisfy not only your sexual needs, but also emotional ones if they are also lacking at home.

The risk is that you become somewhat addicted and keep going out chasing that connection, but if nothing ever changes in your real personal life and there's no chance of properly escaping that, then what other choice is there, really? Having a full-on affair can be just too damn risky in terms of being found out, and if things lead to divorce it can be used against you to bleed you dry.

If you really are happy at home, but just want a quick one-off one night thing, then don't give it too much thought and just have a go.

One last thing - do you speak good Japanese? If not, then I'd recommend spending the extra yen and going for one of the international escorts here. The local establishments have very few girls who can hold a proper GFE-esque conversation in English.

 

[Keihan]

I know a good chunk of the kids on the Hill come from money--after all, it's usually high-priced political connections that get them the intern or leg-aid gigs. I know one of the LDs I was working with (and they made about $65k/year at that time) used to come to work with a $2k designer briefcase, drove a BMW Z3 and owned his own 2BR condo right in the middle of the capitol district. I was wondering how he kept up that lifestyle until I met his parents: Texas oil people.

I always figured myself for the type to worship money and chase riches. Unfortunately for me, every time a financially-beneficial situation presented itself (Army OCS, position in large brokerage firm, 1811 job offer) I'd run in the other direction chasing after another adventure, and preferably one that involved my pants coming off. I've had fun, but unless I get really lucky in the next decade I'll be paying for it if I live past my 70s.

But damn..$5k on pornstars??? I couldn't even get myself to spend $5k on the Omega SMP I wanted last year. For all my talk about chasing adventures, at the end of the day I'm still a cheap piece of shit.

 

[greenhawk]

I watched many youtube videos and read quite a few posts about the "girlfriend experience" and it seems to vary dramatically. Some include everything but vaginal pentration, others are just wine and dine experiences (almost literally a girlfriend experience) where the customer seeks solely conversation. I want to ask the escort for clarification, but I am again concerned with legalities and I know that no text message can be erased and it can certainly be used against you. So, for my understanding, can someone clarify that intercourse (vaginal) is illegal while everything else is open (if the girl is open to it or that is the service offered)? Are there any other hidden landmines of the legal nature that I should avoid/be cautious of? Or common mishaps that can be easily avoided?

From my experience so far it seems to be based on the provider and what you are looking for. Take me for example. The first time I ever paid for sex was last year and it had been 7 years since I had sex and had only been with 2 women who were both girlfriends. I have always been attracted to Japanese women since high school and having lived in Japan for almost 2 years at that point and still no Japanese girlfriend was getting to me. I finally told myself "Your luck with women isn't getting better and you are going to keep stressing about this. Just pay for it so you can see what it is like to be with a Japanese woman." So I started doing research, found this site, and began looking into what girlfriend experience was. I ended up going with this for a few reasons. 1. They tell you that you get infinite shots if you pay for 90 minutes or more. 2. It was a legit agency with reviews. 3. The price was not too high and I was not sure if I was actually going to really enjoy this either. The plan was to do this once so I could see what it was like to have sex with a Japanese woman. [Redacted] does not offer full service which sucks, but this is where the whole GFE and what you are looking for comes into play. When I went to the office to pay and walk to the room with the girl I was scared as shit. However once we started kissing all of that fear went away and I was having a great time right away. I wanted to know what it was like to have a Japanese girlfriend and that was what I got. The way she touched me, kissed me, sucked me, rode me (sumata) and held my hand and talked to me in bed between pops was everything I imagined. I may have just met that girl 10 minutes ago, but as soon as we started the service it felt like she was a loving girlfriend I had been dating for a year. Yes it sucked there was no full service, but I got exactly what I wanted out of the experience for that first time. I felt so good and happy after we finished too. I was walking through Akihabara afterwards feeling like such a bad ass and thinking I could take on Darkseid all by myself lol. If you can give a little more info on what exactly you are looking for I might be able to help you more.


Yes vaginal intercourse is the one thing that is illegal. If a site says no full service then don't expect it. Don't worry about legalities. I once walked out of a love hotel with an escort and there were police officers near the entrance. It was obvious just by looking at me that I had just paid this woman for sex yet nothing happened lol.

 

[TAG Manager]

Yes vaginal intercourse is the one thing that is illegal. If a site says no full service then don't expect it. Don't worry about legalities. I once walked out of a love hotel with an escort and there were police officers near the entrance. It was obvious just by looking at me that I had just paid this woman for sex yet nothing happened lol.

See below quote...

Zero. Consensual sex, even if money changes hands, is not a punishable offence in Japan unless minors are involved. It's not a loophole.

Despite all the hooplah... you just cannot advertise full-service sex. Shops have to say no sex, because that's the rule on paper. Reality is much different.