I have been lurking on this forum for a long time, and thanks to it, I have had quite a lot of experience with p4p and many of the deriheru/soap land that Tokyo offers to foreigner.
However, I am starting to want to delve deeper into nampa and casual FWB or ONS territory. (FWB preferred, I want a good friend too) I started exploring this site called PCMax, and damn it's full of Sakura and freelancer that I could have got better result with usual deliheru.
So I read more and more, and it seemed like most deai sites in Japan are now full of Sakura or freelancer (I'm all ears for any better suggestions), so I am quite loss at the moment.
I do plan to go to bar or club for offline hunting, perhaps this weekends, but I am definitely noob at this whole thing. I don't know where to go. I don't know what to do, and I've played this game very poorly (never got laid from trying to pick up girls) last two years.
My current situation is as follows.
I am studying in college, and my Japanese are quite "okay" and passable for a Japanese person so long as it is kept at casual small chit chat. I am 20 years old, South East Asian, but I look Chinese and some mistook me for Japanese (which can be easily seen through after a few sentence of my Japanese) which meant all the disadvantage of gaijin in Japan, and no advantage of having that western appeal. Also, I am not looking for a serious relationship, as I am already in a long distance one, and it sucks.
tl;dr
-Recommend me a good place to pick up FWB or ONS.
-Recommend me a good deai-site that isn't as ridden by freelancer as PCMax
-Do South East Asian men have a chance? Sure gaijins are all the rage in Japan, but I feel like that's just for western people.
However, I am starting to want to delve deeper into nampa and casual FWB or ONS territory. (FWB preferred, I want a good friend too) I started exploring this site called PCMax, and damn it's full of Sakura and freelancer that I could have got better result with usual deliheru.
So I read more and more, and it seemed like most deai sites in Japan are now full of Sakura or freelancer (I'm all ears for any better suggestions), so I am quite loss at the moment.
I do plan to go to bar or club for offline hunting, perhaps this weekends, but I am definitely noob at this whole thing. I don't know where to go. I don't know what to do, and I've played this game very poorly (never got laid from trying to pick up girls) last two years.
My current situation is as follows.
I am studying in college, and my Japanese are quite "okay" and passable for a Japanese person so long as it is kept at casual small chit chat. I am 20 years old, South East Asian, but I look Chinese and some mistook me for Japanese (which can be easily seen through after a few sentence of my Japanese) which meant all the disadvantage of gaijin in Japan, and no advantage of having that western appeal. Also, I am not looking for a serious relationship, as I am already in a long distance one, and it sucks.
tl;dr
-Recommend me a good place to pick up FWB or ONS.
-Recommend me a good deai-site that isn't as ridden by freelancer as PCMax
-Do South East Asian men have a chance? Sure gaijins are all the rage in Japan, but I feel like that's just for western people.