Providers personality preference, sugar sweet VS Intelligent

[Yuriko]

I'm a mature Japanese provider, that sadly, I think I'm not that "sugar sweet" type. I tend to be cheerful, gigling, more praising how manly you are, have chat even about country's current affairs, politics for sometimes, after giving blowjob,,,etc.

I find deep down, men want in woman to be sugar sweet. Not just ordinary intelligence. Makes you melt. That's also you might look for provider's personality. You want more of thatosugar cream!!

I've grown watching Japanese drama when a soapland girls appear, they kind of overdo of sweet, sweet lady
action, and made me think,

that's not ....they only do that for money...

kind of, not natural "sweet " action with their client.

I'm more of a woman you might find at your office, that I thought, maybe I'm not being sweet enough. technically sweet, yes! to make your cock work!

But, what kind of sweetness do you expect, when P4P, what makes it uncomfortable, what makes it you want to spend even longer???

Any thoughts? Much appreciated. (^^)

 

[Frenchy]

In escorts or sugar-babes?
Its a bit different , I would expect a SB to be more « sweet » , an escort not necessarily over-sweet but very good at her job (without being cold or rude, of course)

 

[Yuriko]

In escorts or sugar-babes?
Its a bit different , I would expect a SB to be more « sweet » , an escort not necessarily over-sweet but very good at her job (without being cold or rude, of course)

Well explained.

 

[jhingy567]

For a quick, one-off fuck/bj, then it's mainly about looks. So being "sweet" is more important imo. But for a longer session/social time/dinner date, it's about more than just looks.

But, what kind of sweetness do you expect

sweet enough to make my dick stand up.

what makes it uncomfortable,

when it looks like she could be my daughter.

 

[Frenchy]

For a short, one-off fuck/bj, then it's mainly about looks. So being "sweet" is more important imo. But for a longer session/social time/dinner date, it's about more than just looks.
sweet enough to make my dick stand up.

when it looks like she could be my daughter.

Maybe Yuriko should define more precisely what she meant by « sweet » .
For me it meant more than looks: being kind, appreciative, attentive, cuddly , eager to please etc... a guy likes his ego to be stroken, not just his dick!

 

[Yuriko]

For a quick, one-off fuck/bj, then it's mainly about looks. So being "sweet" is more important imo. But for a longer session/social time/dinner date, it's about more than just looks.
sweet enough to make my dick stand up.

when it looks like she could be my daughter.

Well explained...

 

[Yuriko]

Maybe Yuriko should define more precisely what she meant by « sweet » .
For me it meant more than looks: being kind, appreciative, attentive, cuddly , eager to please etc... a guy likes his ego to be stroken, not just his dick!

Well, I meant sweet as 甘えるkind of sweet. I realised that's not in Yuriko, as well as my real life, I'm more of "しっかりする" type... be confident...

Sugar has been missing out in my life...

You can't make chocolate, you can even bake cakes without sugar...

Sugar can make life more fun and fullfilling...

 

[AMcguyver]

I've grown watching Japanese drama when a soapland girls appear, they kind of overdo of sweet, sweet lady
action, and made me think,

I've watched a lot of Japanese dramas over the years and can't remember any where a soapland girl appeared.
(Maybe I've been watching the wrong ones )

But, what kind of sweetness do you expect, when P4P, what makes it uncomfortable, what makes it you want to spend even longer???

Maybe Yuriko should define more precisely what she meant by « sweet » .

Agree with @Frenchy on this one. "Sweet" can mean different things to different people.
For me it's snuggeability, kindness, eager to please and be pleased (not only concerned with a client's orgasm, but also their own)

 

[jhingy567]

For me it meant more than looks: being kind, appreciative, attentive, cuddly , eager to please etc... a guy likes his ego to be stroken, not just his dick!

Didn't understand Yuriko's explanation above, but i think you're right. Then i would say being sweet is more important. Though it does take some degree of intelligence to successfully pull off the "sweet", if it's not being done naturally.

 

[Frenchy]

Didn't understand Yuriko's explanation above, but i think you're right. Then i would say being sweet is more important. Though it does take some degree of intelligence to successfully pull off the "sweet", if it's not being done naturally.

Well the Japanese terms Yuriko used confirmed she meant sthg similar to what I wrote. Not easy at all to pull off the sweet, for sure. And a smart SD would see right through the fakery. I like naturally sweet sugar! Honey, even better

 

[User#8628]

I think i like going for a sweet personality in general, because i want to make people care about me when we are together. Realistically i know, once we’re out of the door they will have other priorities but mongers can be surprisingly caring during a session.

If i’d play with a provider, i think i want them to be generally confident, tough and put together, but to have a vulnerable side that they choose to expose to me (probably an act but i like it).

I definitely do like the young Japanese girls with the ditzy sweet act as well, they’re just adorably squeezy.

 

[jhingy567]

I think i like going for a sweet personality in general, because i want to make

Whaaatt?!
Are you sayin it was all an act?

 

[User#8628]

Whaaatt?!
Are you sayin it was all an act?

No, its what i’m going for in daily life also. So i guess everything is an act then. Whats its called again, honey and tatami?

 

[MikeH]

Whats its called again, honey and tatami?

Honey in tatami? I have done that. The honey told next time she wants a mattress too.

 

[Yuriko]

Honey in tatami? I have done that. The honey told next time she wants a mattress too.

Don't forget an extra towels, please!!! lol. I tend to forget honey part...!!!

 

[Yuriko]

I've watched a lot of Japanese dramas over the years and can't remember any where a soapland girl appeared.
(Maybe I've been watching the wrong ones )




Agree with @Frenchy on this one. "Sweet" can mean different things to different people.
For me it's snuggeability, kindness, eager to please and be pleased (not only concerned with a client's orgasm, but also their own)

Japanese drama I meant it had in the 90's, forgot the title

But it seem I'm pretty much sweet to your statement. (^^)

Didn't understand Yuriko's explanation above, but i think you're right. Then i would say being sweet is more important. Though it does take some degree of intelligence to successfully pull off the "sweet", if it's not being done naturally.

That's my concern... I want to be someone intelligent, like a woman from your office, that I tend to be listening your stories, as well as bringing up my thoughts over. But, I guess for P4P scenes, they want girls more just to curl them up to you? Like a sweet cat. Fall into you on the bed or...making a sweet action like taking your arms, holding hands, look into your eyes... kissing lots from time to time...

I'm more bj + cim provider, that I work hard on my skills, then I tend to forget sweet honey...I'm sorry..,

 

[Yuriko]

I think i like going for a sweet personality in general, because i want to make people care about me when we are together. Realistically i know, once we’re out of the door they will have other priorities but mongers can be surprisingly caring during a session.

If i’d play with a provider, i think i want them to be generally confident, tough and put together, but to have a vulnerable side that they choose to expose to me (probably an act but i like it).

I definitely do like the young Japanese girls with the ditzy sweet act as well, they’re just adorably squeezy.

I think that sweetness can be something out of reality for clients, some sparkling spice part they want also, not just to feel good by the intimacy, more connection of sweetness... maybe I should learn from you, Alice! (^^)

Whaaatt?!
Are you sayin it was all an act?

Well, you got to bring them cloud 9, or 10 or 11... if you didn't act,,, dala dala you then,,, it wouldn't work! I'm definately Yuriko, when I meet clients, not real me... a reserved, mysterious majime woman.

 

[Frenchy]

Japanese drama I meant it had in the 90's, forgot the title

But it seem I'm pretty much sweet to your statement. (^^)



That's my concern... I want to be someone intelligent, like a woman from your office, that I tend to be listening your stories, as well as bringing up my thoughts over. But, I guess for P4P scenes, they want girls more just to curl them up to you? Like a sweet cat. Fall into you on the bed or...making a sweet action like taking your arms, holding hands, look into your eyes... kissing lots from time to time...

I'm more bj + cim provider, that I work hard on my skills, then I tend to forget sweet honey...I'm sorry..,

Why sorry? You do what you do and you do it usually well, apparently (given the feedback here and money you make).
In my opinion that’s more respectable than trying to be a sugar babe and failing because , well, there is no real sugar (affection, attentiveness, cuddling after sex, kind words etc etc)

 

[Yuriko]

Why sorry? You do what you do and you do it usually well, apparently (given the feedback here and money you make).
In my opinion that’s more respectable than trying to be a sugar babe and failing because , well, there is no real sugar (affection, attentiveness, cuddling after sex, kind words etc etc)

I see. That's disappointing... Maybe girls should be aware, not just to provide fun, but sugar part is also important...

OK, I focus on more sugar when I'm with a man in my life and less intelligence and see how my life leads. (^^)Also, my service, sugar will be added, without an extra option!!! lol.

 

[Frenchy]

I see. That's disappointing... Maybe girls should be aware, not just to provide fun, but sugar part is also important...

OK, I focus on more sugar when I'm with a man in my life and less intelligence and see how my life leads. (^^)Also, my service, sugar will be added, without an extra option!!! lol.

Depends on guys, what they want, in which circumstances. Some men may even be annoyed if you get all « sugary » and they just expect a porn-movie level BJ.

Not sure what you mean by « intelligence » either. Being sweet and smart are not necessarily incompatible. I know the traditional image of a 甘える girl in Japan implies being a bit stupid and a lot naive.
But its just a sterotype.
Can speak only for myself but the sweetest girlfriends (even SBs) I had the chance to meet are also the smartest.

 

[Yuriko]

Depends on guys, what they want, in which circumstances. Some men may even be annoyed if you get all « sugary » and they just expect a porn-movie level BJ.

Not sure what you mean by « intelligence » either. Being sweet and smart are not necessarily incompatible. I know the traditional image of a 甘える girl in Japan implies being a bit stupid and a lot naive.
But its just a sterotype.
Can speak only for myself but the sweetest girlfriends (even SBs) I had the chance to meet are also the smartest.

Thanks for sharing your experiences!
Intelligence I meant as understanding their pillow talks by numerous different topics, but not let them spk too much, but sweet 甘え can be more relaxing?

Well, it's difficult to explain...

But SB also they play with the very smart level, that's cool!

 

[TAG Manager]

I've watched a lot of Japanese dramas over the years and can't remember any where a soapland girl appeared.
(Maybe I've been watching the wrong ones )

Late evening programs on TV in Japan, 12-20 years ago were much more “free” in expression.

 

[Ken1988]

Late evening programs on TV in Japan, 12-20 years ago were much more “free” in expression.

嫌われ松子の一生? The film version was known as "Memories of Matsuko". I haven't watched the TV version though.



Fuzoku scenes were indeed rare in TV dramas even in the 80s because sponsors didn't like them.

 

[TAG Manager]

Fuzoku scenes were indeed rare in TV dramas even in the 80s because sponsors didn't like them.

Aye.... I didn't get to experience that far back, but I remember seeing bouncing breasts on open TV on some dramas. Love hotels, affairs and some shows featuring idols or AV stars as guest characters.

 

[Frenchy]

Late evening programs on TV in Japan, 12-20 years ago were much more “free” in expression.

Agreed!