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As someone who is very afraid of rejection and failure, I had one of my biggest missteps recently. A Japanese girl who I was seeing recently broke up with me out of the blue right after I told her I had plans to come visit Japan. She had spent money on a plane ticket to see me and we had a great time together. My Japanese isn't too great, but also isn't all basic.
I'm still planning on going to Japan with the goal of putting myself out there to meet more people. Although as with my experience abroad before, it is quite difficult to find people outside of bars and clubs. I'm not too much of a night guy, but I can enjoy it from time to time depending on my mood. I was reading the forums and was impressed by all the advice coming from this community. I would like some advice on dealing with my breakup while also enjoying my trip.
Are there places where I should hang out?
Whats the most comfortable places to meet new people?
And in general, how do you cope with that horrible breakup feeling?
I'm still planning on going to Japan with the goal of putting myself out there to meet more people. Although as with my experience abroad before, it is quite difficult to find people outside of bars and clubs. I'm not too much of a night guy, but I can enjoy it from time to time depending on my mood. I was reading the forums and was impressed by all the advice coming from this community. I would like some advice on dealing with my breakup while also enjoying my trip.
Are there places where I should hang out?
Whats the most comfortable places to meet new people?
And in general, how do you cope with that horrible breakup feeling?