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This is from years of being in Japan and can help foreigners decipher odd Japanese behavior. In many cases, the foreigner will realize there is something going on, but not be sure what it is.
Here is a list of common verbal and physical passive-aggressive or racist behaviors in Japan. Use it only as a guide, and look for other indicators (if possible), before making a final decision about the person.
1) Odd Coughing
This is a weird cough, that foreigners may notice is odd, because of how fake it sounds or the person doesn't seem actually sick.
It is done when a foreigner is present, and once understood, is very passive-aggressive. It's like, "You make me sick." It can also be like an alert. "A foreigner is present."
2) Loudly saying "Atsui, Atsui!" (it's hot) oddly or excessively.
Now, it could actually be they are very hot or sweaty or the location, so keep this mind and gauge how true this is. To include smell your arm pits or see if people are sweating around you. However, something might be up if they look at you or side-glance at you, and it's NOT really hot or sweaty.
The word can be used as a substitute for "you stink". Be also aware if they keep saying it excessively when it's NOT hot (like in an Air Conditioned room), exaggerate too much, or make a big show out of it.
This can be directed at foreigners, and NOT based on or just smell, but as a kind of protest of you even being in their area or near them. "I don't like foreigners around me."
3) Fanning Themselves Excessively, Particularly Towards You
The same as above, and they can be doing both at the same time, or towards you. If they are directly their "sensu" (Japanese folded fan) at you and fanning, it can possibly be an insult. As in "Get away from me." or "You stink."
Be mindful of your actual hygiene, smell, or if they are actually sweating. Look for if the behavior is out of place or odd.
4) Sucking their teeth in your presence.
Usually it will be a male that does this (but wannabe gangster women can occasionally use it), and it's often very passive-aggressive or at times overtly aggressive. It can mean "You are nothing!" In this meaning, they are often walking away from you after say bumping into you aggressively, or turn their back on you. It can also be confrontational, and mean any other move by you, punches are next. This is when they are looking straight at you.
5) Turning their back on you
This is often done more by Japanese women to foreigners, versus men doing it. It's an old Japanese insult, that appears to be taught and used by young women, to ostracize people from the group or express you are unwanted. It's like giving you the middle finger and saying "Fuck off!" in Western cultures.
6) Acting way too surprised for no reason
"Bikkuri Shita!" and OVER acting as if they will have a heart attack.
This is usually done by Japanese women, and can be a kind of show to other Japanese around, that they have NEVER been with or near foreigners. Like you, the foreigner are an alien from another planet, or Japan is part of planet Earth, and you scare the living shit out of them.
A foreigner can recognize this behavior as weird, because the circumstances will not call for such an exaggerated overreaction to saying "Hello", asking directions, or even you work in the same office or go to the same school.
7) Cutting you off on line or walking straight into you
This can possibly be passive-aggressive behavior, like saying you don't exist. You will know it's odd and not so accidental, when it's obvious they should know better. Like you are standing in a convenience store line or in front of the cashier, and they blatantly try to cut in front of you or are weirdly too close behind you.
It's different from accidental, because the other person wasn't watching where they were going, playing on their phone, etc... This behavior is more intentional, where they see you or are looking right at you, but proceed to obstruct or cut you off anyway.
It's a form of disrespect, like "You shouldn't be here!" or "Get the fuck out my way!"
Here is a list of common verbal and physical passive-aggressive or racist behaviors in Japan. Use it only as a guide, and look for other indicators (if possible), before making a final decision about the person.
1) Odd Coughing
This is a weird cough, that foreigners may notice is odd, because of how fake it sounds or the person doesn't seem actually sick.
It is done when a foreigner is present, and once understood, is very passive-aggressive. It's like, "You make me sick." It can also be like an alert. "A foreigner is present."
2) Loudly saying "Atsui, Atsui!" (it's hot) oddly or excessively.
Now, it could actually be they are very hot or sweaty or the location, so keep this mind and gauge how true this is. To include smell your arm pits or see if people are sweating around you. However, something might be up if they look at you or side-glance at you, and it's NOT really hot or sweaty.
The word can be used as a substitute for "you stink". Be also aware if they keep saying it excessively when it's NOT hot (like in an Air Conditioned room), exaggerate too much, or make a big show out of it.
This can be directed at foreigners, and NOT based on or just smell, but as a kind of protest of you even being in their area or near them. "I don't like foreigners around me."
3) Fanning Themselves Excessively, Particularly Towards You
The same as above, and they can be doing both at the same time, or towards you. If they are directly their "sensu" (Japanese folded fan) at you and fanning, it can possibly be an insult. As in "Get away from me." or "You stink."
Be mindful of your actual hygiene, smell, or if they are actually sweating. Look for if the behavior is out of place or odd.
4) Sucking their teeth in your presence.
Usually it will be a male that does this (but wannabe gangster women can occasionally use it), and it's often very passive-aggressive or at times overtly aggressive. It can mean "You are nothing!" In this meaning, they are often walking away from you after say bumping into you aggressively, or turn their back on you. It can also be confrontational, and mean any other move by you, punches are next. This is when they are looking straight at you.
5) Turning their back on you
This is often done more by Japanese women to foreigners, versus men doing it. It's an old Japanese insult, that appears to be taught and used by young women, to ostracize people from the group or express you are unwanted. It's like giving you the middle finger and saying "Fuck off!" in Western cultures.
6) Acting way too surprised for no reason
"Bikkuri Shita!" and OVER acting as if they will have a heart attack.
This is usually done by Japanese women, and can be a kind of show to other Japanese around, that they have NEVER been with or near foreigners. Like you, the foreigner are an alien from another planet, or Japan is part of planet Earth, and you scare the living shit out of them.
A foreigner can recognize this behavior as weird, because the circumstances will not call for such an exaggerated overreaction to saying "Hello", asking directions, or even you work in the same office or go to the same school.
7) Cutting you off on line or walking straight into you
This can possibly be passive-aggressive behavior, like saying you don't exist. You will know it's odd and not so accidental, when it's obvious they should know better. Like you are standing in a convenience store line or in front of the cashier, and they blatantly try to cut in front of you or are weirdly too close behind you.
It's different from accidental, because the other person wasn't watching where they were going, playing on their phone, etc... This behavior is more intentional, where they see you or are looking right at you, but proceed to obstruct or cut you off anyway.
It's a form of disrespect, like "You shouldn't be here!" or "Get the fuck out my way!"