Regretting first time, what should I do now? Take PrEP?

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Hi all so first off I know I'm really really stupid and I realized that p4p is not for me and I'm regretting it a lot (wish I can turn back time)

So long story short is I been reading up on this forum and I went over to Juso and I went into the massage parlour where I'm pretty sure that I went into triad papa's place and I really only asked for a handjob, but I think there was a miscommunication and he thought I wanted a blowjob. (He also kept trying to upsell one of the girl and wanted me to get the 10000 for 60 mins, and always doing the motion of like humping air/doggystyle so I assume that he's triad papa with shaved sides and kind of had fauxhawk) in the end I took the 5000 for 30 min

Anyaays, he brought me into one of the room and then shortly after one of the girl that I picked appeared and she told me to take off my pants. She only kept speaking japanese to me and always tried to upsell me the whole time for more stuff.

I took off my pants and immediately she just put my dick in her mouth and started sucking it for like 1-2 minutes. I was so shocked she did that as I did not want a blowjob because I was scared of all the risks and stuff.

Anyways right after that she just gave me a hand job and I came like 3 minutes after that. Pretty much right after that I put my pants back on and just left.

This happened all today and now I'm scared shirtless, I've been panicking all day and I'm literally loss for words. I really regret doing this and I know I'm not cut for it

I've read online that it should be a very low chance that I would get anything from the blowjob, but theres still a chance.

I'm wondering what should my next steps be? I read online and found out that I'll need to wait about a week before I should do any kind of STI and herpes tests?

But what about HIV? I read online that I have a 72 hour window to take PreP. Should I do this? If so can someone guide me as to how I can get PrEP? I'm currently in Osaka.

Thank you all for reading
 
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Your next step is to chill the fuck out. Forgive the bluntness.
You're going to make yourself ill worrying about nothing... your risks are extremely low.

I can't see any reason that you'd need to take any sort of PEP and I'm betting a clinic will tell you the same.
(It's PEP you'd be looking for, not PrEP)

You probably carry some form of herpes since nearly 50% of the world carries it anyway, it's not going to end your life.
There is nothing you can do except wait to see if anything comes up because it will take a few days for any infection to appear or make itself known.

And yes, don't ever go near this business again. 10's of thousands of people get BJ's every day here and there is no major alarm going off about HIV and BJ's.
Please don't ever have sex without a condom because syphilis is real and more of a threat than HIV.
 
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osakafinder said:
Hi all so first off I know I'm really really stupid and I realized that p4p is not for me and I'm regretting it a lot (wish I can turn back time)

So long story short is I been reading up on this forum and I went over to Juso and I went into the massage parlour where I'm pretty sure that I went into triad papa's place and I really only asked for a handjob, but I think there was a miscommunication and he thought I wanted a blowjob. (He also kept trying to upsell one of the girl and wanted me to get the 10000 for 60 mins, and always doing the motion of like humping air/doggystyle so I assume that he's triad papa with shaved sides and kind of had fauxhawk) in the end I took the 5000 for 30 min

Anyaays, he brought me into one of the room and then shortly after one of the girl that I picked appeared and she told me to take off my pants. She only kept speaking japanese to me and always tried to upsell me the whole time for more stuff.

I took off my pants and immediately she just put my dick in her mouth and started sucking it for like 1-2 minutes. I was so shocked she did that as I did not want a blowjob because I was scared of all the risks and stuff.

Anyways right after that she just gave me a hand job and I came like 3 minutes after that. Pretty much right after that I put my pants back on and just left.

This happened all today and now I'm scared shirtless, I've been panicking all day and I'm literally loss for words. I really regret doing this and I know I'm not cut for it

I've read online that it should be a very low chance that I would get anything from the blowjob, but theres still a chance.

I'm wondering what should my next steps be? I read online and found out that I'll need to wait about a week before I should do any kind of STI and herpes tests?

But what about HIV? I read online that I have a 72 hour window to take PreP. Should I do this? If so can someone guide me as to how I can get PrEP? I'm currently in Osaka.

Thank you all for reading
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Looking forward to the review

You'll be fine

Prep is for avoiding hiv, was it dracula giving the bj? If not then you will not need to worry about that.
 
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OsmanthusFragrans said:
There is no recorded instance of HIV transmission to a male receiving oral sex. So you don't need to be worried at all about HIV.
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And even if OP gets it from BJ he will be making every medical study book from now on! Instant world fame!

As everyone has already said OP, chill the fuck out. If getting STD was that easy then we all would have been dead a very long time ago and the whole forum would have nobody writing.
 
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There's no recorded case of someone going into Jan Jan in Sugamo and coming out with HIV either, despite all odds. If this fact doesn't calm you down I don't know what else would
 
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CockFighter said:
There's no recorded case of someone going into Jan Jan in Sugamo and coming out with HIV either, despite all odds. If this fact doesn't calm you down I don't know what else would
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Though it was possible to go to the old Mermaid in Yokohama and come out as a gay.
 
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CockFighter said:
There's no recorded case of someone going into Jan Jan in Sugamo and coming out with HIV either, despite all odds. If this fact doesn't calm you down I don't know what else would
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For what its worth my very first P4P sessions started at Jan Jan 🤣. Have done wayyyyy dirtier stuff since then and I'm as clean as a whistle (so far 😅).
 
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MongerInAStrLnd said:
It's less common, but PreP with doxycycline for bacterial STDs is actually a thing.
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I have it DoxyPEP (not PreP, taking it all the time will mess with your gut) on hand and it's not a bad idea for after BBBJ for the paranoid among us. Nothing fun about the clap and the evidence for it working is strong. Just don't lie down after taking it or you'll get pill esophagitis.
 
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You had a 3 second blowie and we're talking seriously about pep and prep? No offense but actually just stop. No amount of sexual pleasure is worth the mental anguish you are torturing yourself with.
 
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Maxblack said:
You had a 3 second blowie and we're talking seriously about pep and prep? No offense but actually just stop. No amount of sexual pleasure is worth the mental anguish you are torturing yourself with.
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I dunno. In terms of physical pleasure in the moment, the bbfs i had with a girl at akihabara ace was pretty amazing.
 
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Durg50 said:
I dunno. In terms of physical pleasure in the moment, the bbfs i had with a girl at akihabara ace was pretty amazing.
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And then a couple years back my favourite indy (does not and has never advertised on here) slipped me in without wrapping.

Both pretty cool at the time.

Still on the fence if they were worth the stress and visits to yushima, but its a close call either way
 
Thanks all. I appreciate each one of your replies.

I know I've been over thinking this but it's just I get paranoid easily.

I will try to calm down and once I go back to the states within the next 2 weeks I will go do some tests just to be sure.
 
just reminder for others,

dont go to FS place asking for HJ without sufficient language ability. first you are paying more for less, and they are not that good with it

there are plenty HJ finish type of stores. and they are usually expert in that department.

some cases when provider kind of slip it in or give extra without asked, well consider yourself lucky then.
 
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Durg50 said:
And then a couple years back my favourite indy (does not and has never advertised on here) slipped me in without wrapping.

Both pretty cool at the time.
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Key thing was you didn't freak out in in the moment and enjoyed it just like the rest of us degenerates 😅
 
As said above, your risk are pretty low. Worrying will make it worse.

This make me remember to tell people to stay out of that f****** grey zone place in Juso and that so called triad-papa or whatever you want to call him.

They are plenty of safe place to play, especially as a first timer.
 
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just to keep this topic barely alive before it gets buried:


The only time I became a little suspicious and a bit nervous was after my avant premiere with Kaoru, as when I arrived to the hotel my meat was a mess with a lot of red dots on the tip.

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Then I recall the very hard beat it took less than a hour ago from that piercing during a straight 20 min BJ. Holy mother of god what a blow it was!
 
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locoloco3 said:
just to keep this topic barely alive before it gets buried:


The only time I became a little suspicious and a bit nervous was after my avant premiere with Kaoru, as when I arrived to the hotel my meat was a mess with a lot of red dots on the tip.

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Then I recall the very hard beat it took less than a hour ago from that piercing during a straight 20 min BJ. Holy mother of god what a blow it was!
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Yeah, and even if you did get something from that encounter somehow, it won't show up until days/weeks later anyway.
 
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Azrael88 said:
Yeah, and even if you did get something from that encounter somehow, it won't show up until days/weeks later anyway.
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Nah man, got nothing. It all disappear after a few hours, after all the beat it took I know that should happen. I just wanted to tell about the magic of that piercing! (dont know to write a review about since Kaoru is so well known here).
 
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locoloco3 said:
Nah man, got nothing. It all disappear after a few hours, after all the beat it took I know that should happen. I just wanted to tell about the magic of that piercing! (dont know to write a review about since Kaoru is so well known here).
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Don't scare me I have an appointment with Kaoru in a few weeks 🫣
 
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