Request for Dirty Talk

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I have a question for both the escorts and clients out there. I feel like I am missing something with my escort experiences...dirty talk. I always think it might happen on its own, but it never does. I want to initiate it, but not sure at what point is best to start? Should I just try it without requesting? How can I ask without saying “can you please do some dirty talk?”

What are your thoughts on when and how to do it, and is it different for Japanese ladies? Also...what is too far? I imagine someone screaming “fuck me” isn’t too bad, but what about “does my cock taste good?” or “you are such a dirty little slut!” might make some feel uncomfortable. I’d like to hear your stories and experiences...from the professional world (I mostly use [Redacted]). Thanks!
 
This will sound funny, but I actually did some research on dirty talking.

Some of my younger clients caught me unguarded by requesting dirty talk. When someone says “talk dirty to me” I just freeze and my brain goes completely blank :D It’s like you have all those creative names for your future pet in mind but when you finally get a cat you name him “Meow” or something :)

So nowadays I initiate the dirty talking most of the time, but like you said I *try* not to say anything offensive. Another thing you might want to watch is not sounding too scripted and make sure to include your partner so it doesn’t sound like a monologue. If you ask me improvising during the appointment is best.

I always liked some dirty talking during play but on the earlier days of my escorting I wasn’t sure if clients would like it. I’ll try to watch the reactions and move from there. So this is just my opinion and I am not a Japanese girl, but maybe initiate the dirty talking without requesting it? Requests make me feel like a vending machine tbh and that’s not what I offer.
 
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This will sound funny, but I actually did some research on dirty talking.

Some of my younger clients caught me unguarded by requesting dirty talk. When someone says “talk dirty to me” I just freeze and my brain goes completely blank :D It’s like you have all those creative names for your future pet in mind but when you finally get a cat you name him “Meow” or something :)

So nowadays I initiate the dirty talking most of the time, but like you said I *try* not to say anything offensive. I’ll try to watch the reactions and move from there. So this is just my opinion and I am not a Japanese girl, but maybe initiate the dirty talking without requesting it? Requests make me feel like a vending machine tbh and that’s not what I offer.

Whzt ?! You dont accept requests? Hey are you an escort or a wife? :ROFLMAO:
 
So this is just my opinion and I am not a Japanese girl, but maybe initiate the dirty talking without requesting it? Requests make me feel like a vending machine tbh and that’s not what I offer.

This was great to hear, thanks! I also feel uncomfortable with the “vending machine” requests. Although, often times I have to request specific things, it definately takes away from the mood.
 
I love dirty talks!!! It's so natural for me to spk out my thoughts.

"You always want to suck my cock, whenever I ask you to"

"You were born to suck cocks, make mem cum and that"s your job"

"If I ask you to suck your office colleagues cock and make them CIM, would you do that as you are a naughty Japanese secretary!?"

You want to make your master happy, taking his cock into your mouth, you naughty Japanese secretary!!

Ahhh,,

Can't sleep, makes me excited...

It's good to find out when you send an escort an inquiry, simply ask her if she accepts it or not.
 
I want to initiate it, but not sure at what point is best to start?

[Redacted] seems to be changing ... some of the girls *look* more hardcore ... whips, latex, etc but they probably are still too meek to talk dirty to you. lack the English vocab to satisfy you.

get a real S&M service for your dirty talk (no don't get femdom, since you mostly can't touch the girls on those services if that's what you want tp do) if you understand Japanese

a previous girl that talked dirty to me was a girl from a femdom service (JFF) ... i was the one crying "fuck me", the strap-on was quite small (in girth) though.
 
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To me, dirty talk is easily too awkward unless you’re exactly on the same frequency. And i feel very fake when doing it myself. If there is anything I don’t wanna sound like its those women in western porn.

Some people are naturally skilled at it, others aren't.

My sefuré from a long time ago was really good at it :love:
My wife on the other hand, sucks at it (but in a bad way) ;):LOL:
 
Thinking about it, I like dirty talk when it isn't dirty--when normal phrases get used, like 'do you like how that tastes?' or 'do you want some more?' or 'aren't you going to clean up after yourself?'

Christ, that sounds positively Freudian...
 
Not a problem for me. I’ve never been with a girl who knows more languages (albeit poorly) than I do, so I can say whatever I want. This is why I can’t ever be with Alice.
 
Not a problem for me. I’ve never been with a girl who knows more languages (albeit poorly) than I do, so I can say whatever I want. This is why I can’t ever be with Alice.
True. I love to talk dirty in french to a lady who has no clue. And then after the fact, I translate what I said :D
 
The older i get, the more ridiculous being called a slut sounds to me.
Not a problem for me. I’ve never been with a girl who knows more languages (albeit poorly) than I do, so I can say whatever I want. This is why I can’t ever be with Alice.
I know about 4, is it too much? :)
Appearantly dirty talk isn’t one of them either.
 
The older i get, the more ridiculous being called a slut sounds to me.
Yep, I prefer the more sensual and tender dirty talking. The word slut just makes the telenovela slap intensify.
 
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The older I get the more I enjoy being called a slut... :D
 
Shut up you french slut
Aaah thanks!
I give you the french equivalent : “ta gueule salope de francaise” ... shout that to a french lady while going at it, then write your feedback here! :D
 
Honestly i used to roll with insulting things but less and less so. Having someone call you an animal word (except for bitch because that has been distanced from real dogs a lot already) is a real moodkiller to me although very hilarious.

Something that could possibly excite me is going to a happening bar or something and having the guy i’m with order me to do certain things with certain people in detail. That could be pretty hot is played out well and everyone is on the same line.
 
Having someone call you an animal word

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Sorry I had to post this
 
Having someone call you an animal word (except for bitch because that has been distanced from real dogs a lot already) is a real moodkiller to me

So we shouldn't call you foxy?