SA account suspension

[Karaoke Duke]

so I was trying to find SB on SA. But I was too direct and didn’t some inderect words like “allowance” “compensation”. And I was like “how much for dinner and s*x? But some replied and had an appointment already but I didn’t ask for their line or wasap coz I heard that girls don’t like it. Then the next morning my account got suspended. And my account is 12hrs old. Lol. On my defense I just don’t wanna waste time and I’m a dating noob.

 

[TAG Manager]

so I was trying to find SB on SA. But I was too direct and didn’t some inderect words like “allowance” “compensation”. And I was like “how much for dinner and s*x? But some replied and had an appointment already but I didn’t ask for their line or wasap coz I heard that girls don’t like it. Then the next morning my account got suspended. And my account is 12hrs old. Lol. On my defense I just don’t wanna waste time and I’m a dating noob.

You are treating SA like a escort site, which will get you banned. All of that discussion should be done offline or off SA.

You likely got flagged for the message content which violates the rules you agreed to when you joined.

 

[TAG Manager]

If you want a sure thing, book an escort.

 

[Karaoke Duke]

You are treating SA like a escort site, which will get you banned. All of that discussion should be done offline or off SA.

You likely got flagged for the message content which violates the rules you agreed to when you joined.

So is it ok to use indirect words? Or should I just ask for line? And is there a chance for my account? It says if first offense there’s a chance but I haven’t got a reply yet.

 

[oLUXo]

So is it ok to use indirect words? Or should I just ask for line? And is there a chance for my account? It says if first offense there’s a chance but I haven’t got a reply yet.

Not all SB are guaranteed sex. I've had to delete many. Also, SB can be expensive so escorts do come out cheaper and you are guaranteed sex.

 

[Karaoke Duke]

Not all SB are guaranteed sex. I've had to delete many. Also, SB can be expensive so escorts do come out cheaper and you are guaranteed sex.

I guess I’ll do that. Thanks for the reply

 

[ur19877]

agreed with the points above, but you should both should be clear if intimacy is part of the arrangement. words like intimacy & playtime can be used instead of sex.

 

[Lukes]

SA is not a great place to get sex. At least not if you want uncomplicated sex where you pay a set amount of money and get actual sex instead of a negotiation and several expensive dates before *potentially* getting some action. I still say go the escort route on this one unless you're looking to spend serious money and invest lots of time.

 

[ur19877]

SA is not a great place to get sex. At least not if you want uncomplicated sex where you pay a set amount of money and get actual sex instead of a negotiation and several expensive dates before *potentially* getting some action. I still say go the escort route on this one unless you're looking to spend serious money and invest lots of time.

I am sure you have more experience than I do with SA, but from my recent experience last month, there are definitely girls who don't mind playing on the first date. Maybe it was the different age group I was targeting (young 20's), but they were comfortable enough to discuss allowance amount/range during initial Line/What's App and even SA conversations about what the allowance would be for first date with playtime.

That being said, I agree that the escort route is the better way to go. I wanted try something different, that is why I went back to SA.

 

[Lukes]

I am sure you have more experience than I do with SA, but from my recent experience last month, there are definitely girls who don't mind playing on the first date. Maybe it was the different age group I was targeting (young 20's), but they were comfortable enough to discuss allowance amount/range during initial Line/What's App and even SA conversations about what the allowance would be for first date with playtime.

That being said, I agree that the escort route is the better way to go. I wanted try something different, that is why I went back to SA.

If you look hard enough (or happen to get lucky) it's definitely possible to make some workable arrangements on SA with decent girls. I dabbled in sugar dating for a while because I was hoping to find something a bit more meaningful and different (which probably is what draws most of us to SA). I think if I was a man if greater financial means I would have stuck with it longer and maybe gotten a better experience out of it but it just was too costly to sustain in the long run for me. I never got to play on the first date but I wasn't expecting it. Maybe I was being a bit too reserved. More power to you if you're able to.

 

[ur19877]

If you look hard enough (or happen to get lucky) it's definitely possible to make some workable arrangements on SA with decent girls. I dabbled in sugar dating for a while because I was hoping to find something a bit more meaningful and different (which probably is what draws most of us to SA). I think if I was a man if greater financial means I would have stuck with it longer and maybe gotten a better experience out of it but it just was too costly to sustain in the long run for me. I never got to play on the first date but I wasn't expecting it. Maybe I was being a bit too reserved. More power to you if you're able to.

I think we are in the same boat regarding why we went to sugar dating, and if we had more $$....

This past trip I met two two girls I would like to see...one girl was smoking hot and sex was great, but at $800, I don't know if I can justify it... we'll see..

 

[Frenchy]

I think we are in the same boat regarding why we went to sugar dating, and if we had more $$....

This past trip I met two two girls I would like to see...one girl was smoking hot and sex was great, but at $800, I don't know if I can justify it... we'll see..

You mean, a trip to the US or Japan?

 

[ur19877]

You mean, a trip to the US or Japan?

Japan.

 

[Sjohnson20]

I signed up for SA and 2 days later they banned my account. I contacted them and they said I violated their terms and I need to read the FAQ. And now I'm permanently banned. All I did was make a profile and upload 4 pictures lol.

I really didn't even fill much out in the profile, I was planning to go back later and make it better. I only put that I was kind and loyal, liked to travel etc. I never contacted anyone on the site either. I'm really confused. Seems pretty harsh to ban someone permanently for filling out a profile
and uploading 4 pics.

 

[TAG Manager]

I signed up for SA and 2 days later they banned my account. I contacted them and they said I violated their terms and I need to read the FAQ. And now I'm permanently banned. All I did was make a profile and upload 4 pictures lol.

I really didn't even fill much out in the profile, I was planning to go back later and make it better. I only put that I was kind and loyal, liked to travel etc. I never contacted anyone on the site either. I'm really confused. Seems pretty harsh to ban someone permanently for filling out a profile
and uploading 4 pics.

You didn’t do anything that would remotely trigger that? Nothing you wrote in your profile or the type of picture you uploaded?

 

[Sjohnson20]

You didn’t do anything that would remotely trigger that? Nothing you wrote in your profile or the type of picture you uploaded?

I don't see how. I uploaded 4 pics. One of me at the Gold temple in Kyoto, one at the Gundam statue, a pic drinking a margarita, and another pic at the Golden Gate Bridge.

I put the headline as "are you the one?". Also, I did select friends with benefits but it was part of their profile builder. That's the only thing I could see causing this. But that is part of their site. It really sucks cause I was hoping to meet some locals but they banned me.

 

[DireWolf98]

You didn’t do anything that would remotely trigger that? Nothing you wrote in your profile or the type of picture you uploaded?

I had similar thoughts. Profiles and pics can be NSFW or borderline NSFW.

 

[TAG Manager]

I had similar thoughts. Profiles and pics can be NSFW or borderline NSFW.

SA has to approve the profile pics - they could just not approve it.

I don't see how. I uploaded 4 pics. One of me at the Gold temple in Kyoto, one at the Gundam statue, a pic drinking a margarita, and another pic at the Golden Gate Bridge.

I put the headline as "are you the one?". Also, I did select friends with benefits but it was part of their profile builder. That's the only thing I could see causing this. But that is part of their site. It really sucks cause I was hoping to meet some locals but they banned me.

That’s interesting... people that I know that got banned, definitely violated one of the points.... hmmm...

 

[Sjohnson20]

I had similar thoughts. Profiles and pics can be NSFW or borderline NSFW.

I just used 4 normal pics fully clothed and outside lol They are the same pics I posted on Facebook before. Also, they sent emails saying the pics were approved and the profile was approved. After that I went to the site but it was not loading so I thought there was technical issues so I came back the next day and tried to log in and it said account deleted.

 

[Frenchy]

I signed up for SA and 2 days later they banned my account. I contacted them and they said I violated their terms and I need to read the FAQ. And now I'm permanently banned. All I did was make a profile and upload 4 pictures lol.

I really didn't even fill much out in the profile, I was planning to go back later and make it better. I only put that I was kind and loyal, liked to travel etc. I never contacted anyone on the site either. I'm really confused. Seems pretty harsh to ban someone permanently for filling out a profile
and uploading 4 pics.

Was it really your first time there?

 

[Sjohnson20]

Was it really your first time there?

Yeah I never knew about the site until I read about it here and then decided to sign up.

 

[Frenchy]

Yeah I never knew about the site until I read about it here and then decided to sign up.

Maybe they confused you with someone else (similar username) who was already banned?

 

[Sjohnson20]

This is what they wrote in the email to me after I asked why I couldn't log into the account:

I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use.

 

[TAG Manager]

Meh.... sounds like they think you were someone else.

Nonetheless, thanks for the report!

 

[Sudsy]

If the information you provided is accurate, either they have made a mistake, or someone who had a previous negative interaction with you or someone who looks a lot like you recognized your pictures. Given the firmness of that email you quoted, I suspect the latter.