TLDR: SeekingArrangement is a cesspit, mostly spammers and professionals. Be prepared for a few months of shoveling shit, but it does work.
A few months ago I began searching for a new sugar babe and rejoined SA after several years absence. There aren't that many female members in Tokyo to begin with, but I was surprised to see so many familiar faces.
I didn't conduct a scientific study but would guess more than 50% are professional or amateur prostitutes. A good percentage of the ones who aren't look nothing like their pictures, and quite a few have emotional or mental problems.
Searching for women who are either students or have full-time jobs is an excellent filter for many of those problems, as is sorting by join date.
Unfortunately SA is full of Chinese scammers constantly creating new accounts to lure men into chat apps that require buying credits. However they aren't particularly intelligent and generally use Chinese names.
A few genuine unicorns do sign up, maybe one per week, and I assume they must get some pretty terrible behavior from the male members because they delete their accounts very quickly.
Once you've established communication and done some basic screening I recommend making the first meeting a brief coffee or drink and having a good excuse to leave. That prevents wasting anyone's time, particularly yours if they flake, look nothing like their photos, or are completely dishonest.
Anyway it is a massive hassle and time sink, but there are some attractive young women who genuinely like successful older men and are not just looking to be paid for sex.
A few months ago I began searching for a new sugar babe and rejoined SA after several years absence. There aren't that many female members in Tokyo to begin with, but I was surprised to see so many familiar faces.
I didn't conduct a scientific study but would guess more than 50% are professional or amateur prostitutes. A good percentage of the ones who aren't look nothing like their pictures, and quite a few have emotional or mental problems.
Searching for women who are either students or have full-time jobs is an excellent filter for many of those problems, as is sorting by join date.
Unfortunately SA is full of Chinese scammers constantly creating new accounts to lure men into chat apps that require buying credits. However they aren't particularly intelligent and generally use Chinese names.
A few genuine unicorns do sign up, maybe one per week, and I assume they must get some pretty terrible behavior from the male members because they delete their accounts very quickly.
Once you've established communication and done some basic screening I recommend making the first meeting a brief coffee or drink and having a good excuse to leave. That prevents wasting anyone's time, particularly yours if they flake, look nothing like their photos, or are completely dishonest.
Anyway it is a massive hassle and time sink, but there are some attractive young women who genuinely like successful older men and are not just looking to be paid for sex.