Following on from my post regarding a potential exposure from BBFS (
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/thai-mild-with-mona-chan.13548/#post-94308), I am happy to inform that I finally got tested and the results came out negative.
A valuable learning experience, going through the motions, anxiety, the research, and the tests themselves. I paid a price for it (two prices actually, as I took tests at two different clinics), but at least, I didn't pay the price in terms of catching anything.
I echo the advice by some posters to read up on respectable medical websites regarding STD testing, but hope the details below of my experience can give you some hints to start (a bit like what Wikipedia does for homework!)
- 3 days after the potential exposure, I went to a skin clinic for a non-STD related ailment. At the same time, I asked the doctor if I should test for STDs since the clinic offered the service. The truth is a lot of Japanese clinics offer STD testing, though at different price points and not all may offer rapid testing. The doctor said since I wasn't showing any symptoms (itchiness, painful urinating, lesions, etc.) and due to the window period for different STDs, he said for me to test in 3 weeks time from potential exposure, earlier if I start showing any symptoms.
- As I was busy with a few overseas business trips, abstaining from sex for 3 weeks wasn't too bad (plus there's always the hand!).
- As 3 weeks point approached, I read not only about window periods for different STDs, but also window periods for different HIV tests. I learned that there is a quick viral load HIV test that can be taken 1 week after the potential exposure. The accuracy rate is lower than other tests, such as the 4th generation Ag/Ab test that can be taken 4 weeks after (which is 95% accurate). The 3rd generation test which is usually a confirmatory test can be taken at 3 months after.
- Since I wasn't showing any symptoms at 3 weeks, I decided to wait till 4 weeks, and finally tested at two different clinics. One clinic may have been enough but I was a bit curious to try a clinic that can gave me a results on the spot and another 3 days later (sending the samples to an external lab).
- At Clinic A, I got a panel of tests for HIV, syphilis, chlamydia and gonorrhea, with the results coming 3 days later via email. Cost - 12960yen. I asked the doctor if I should take a mycoplasma test as well, but he said that usually people test for mycoplasma if they are showing symptoms, which I'm not. They took my blood and urine. The doctor emailed me 2 working days later, informing me that all results were negative.
- At Clinic B, I got a panel of tests for HIV, syphilis, Hep B and Hep C, with the results given in 15 minutes. Cost - 21600yen. After a 15 min wait, the doctor showed me the results, explaining the one line for each means negative (two lines would be positive, no lines would mean faulty test). Yey, all results were negative.
- A confirmatory HIV test in 2 more months time, and I should be 100% sure.
The 1 month of abstaining has somewhat helped calm down my seemingly growing addiction to P4P (started only in Nov, but have had probably >20 sessions). With knowledge and experience comes more self-control, I guess. Gonna be a bit more selective now. Of course, CFS