Short term relationships

[getjarvis]

Hey all, gaijin here (no conversational Japanese), deep enough pockets, and come to Tokyo often.

Last time I was here, did a couple romps in SJ in Shibuya. Great for the hour or two. This time I'm looking for something a little more intimate and drawn out, something that starts with conversation and drinks. Maybe a day or two later we meet again and have a good time.

I'd prefer a non-professional if possible (or she's ultra-professional and I just don't know it until she asks for money come show time ).

Because of these filters (can't speak Japanese, short schedule), I'm probably left with two types of women: tourists and locals who target gaijin. The research I've done points me to these places to pick up - Hub in Roppongi, Motown, Albatross/Champion in Golden Gai, Hobgoblin, Dubliners, What the Dickens, 300yen.

I've also fired up Tinder and Couchsurfing's Hangout app to get some off-hours leads.

Do you have any suggestions on how to make my search more effective?

 

[User#8628]

Seeking Arrangement!

 

[ShowaJidai]

I'd prefer a non-professional if possible (or she's ultra-professional and I just don't know it until she asks for money come show time ).

no fucking idea how to parse that.

or anything else you wrote.

and I've been here since before most others.

think about that

 

[Desktop]

Why do you believe those are your only options? Meet some friends do activities & get to know both men & women.

 

[getjarvis]

Why do you believe those are your only options? Meet some friends do activities & get to know both men & women.

Great point. I have booked a bunch of those "Airbnb Experiences" as well -- food tour, bike riding, bar hopping (x2), kayaking, Maricar, hiking. Since these are probably mostly tourists, I figure it would be a good place.

 

[getjarvis]

no fucking idea how to parse that.

or anything else you wrote.

No worries, my dude. I can say it a different way. Basically I'm looking for a woman to date two or so times and then have sex with. I'm pridefully hoping that I won't have to pay her in order to be intimate with her, but will happily pay if it comes to it. Hopefully that clears it up.

 

[getjarvis]

Seeking Arrangement!

Wow this looks great! Thank you!

 

[User#8628]

Wow this looks great! Thank you!

Cheers, its a legit website and getting more and more members worldwide i believe.

The girls are mostly true amateurs so they are unpredictable. That can be part of the fun but be prepared for possible awkwardness as well

 

[getjarvis]

The girls are mostly true amateurs so they are unpredictable. That can be part of the fun but be prepared for possible awkwardness as well

Sounds great. A "real" experience like that makes it all the more enticing. Hats off to you.

 

[Wwanderer]

@User#8628 is correct (as usual). It sounds like you are looking for some short term sugar dating, and Seeking Arrangement (SA) is definitely the best place to find it in Tokyo (and most places).

There is a whole TAG forum devoted to sugaring:

https://www.tokyoadultguide.com/forums/sugar-dating.49/

And you might do well to have a look at some of the threads there.

The one word of warning/caveat I'd offer is that people seek and offer a truly vast range of types of connections and arrangements all under the single term of sugar dating, ranging from situations barely distinguishable from escorting to those almost identical to conventional dating...plus many other and odder things...and it is all there mixed together on SA. As a result it can take quite a long time and a lot of effort to find what you are seeking. To have a decent chance of success, I'd strongly suggest that you post an SA profile and start trying to set up some meetings before you arrive, given your rather short planned stay in town.

-Ww

 

[BB0523]

Universe Club Tokyo may also be another option based on your limited time and requirements, however, it's not free... pay a membership fee and a setting fee for the girl based on rank. Dating type "D" usually means that if you treat them properly then you can move on to a love hotel - but she will ask for a "room fee" also you need to give her 5,000 - 10,000JPY for transport - this one is never clear, I just give 10,000JPY to avoid and awkward situation. you can see their profiles and once you meet them if you hit it off then can see each other with no setting fee... however, she will expect the "room fee" for each meeting and you will need to take them to a nice dinner/lunch depending on time of day. Just another option which could be suitable for you if pockets are deep enough.

 

[Jishin]

For SA, I would be super clear about what you want, from as early on as possible. Say that you are here for a short time, want to go on a few dates and have some Love Hotel time after the second date or so. Tell them what you willing to pay, don’t wait for them to suggest. I would guess you need to do 30-60k per date.

Once you get that out of the way early, both you and her can “forget” about the financial element and get back to romance.

And let’s us know how it goes!

 

[Wwanderer]

For SA, I would be super clear about what you want, from as early on as possible. Say that you are here for a short time, want to go on a few dates and have some Love Hotel time after the second date or so. Tell them what you willing to pay, don’t wait for them to suggest. I would guess you need to do 30-60k per date.

Once you get that out of the way early, both you and her can “forget” about the financial element and get back to romance.

And let’s us know how it goes!

This is all good advice imo, and the last sentence is what the OP owes us for all the advice in the thread.

-Ww

 

[User#8628]

It sounds like you are looking for some short term sugar dating, and Seeking Arrangement (SA) is definitely the best place to find it in Tokyo (and most places).

I would hardly say its the best place in Tokyo. Maybe the best place for people who don’t speak Japanese.
Then again, Universe Club is also pretty good as mentioned, but maybe not suited for a very short stay.
I do believe they have a “trial” setting if OP has any interest in looking into them as well.

For Japanese people/speakers there are many other options. Hard to say which is best.

 

[Wwanderer]

I would hardly say its the best place in Tokyo. Maybe the best place for people who don’t speak Japanese.
Then again, Universe Club is also pretty good as mentioned, but maybe not suited for a very short stay.
I do believe they have a “trial” setting if OP has any interest in looking into them as well.

For Japanese people/speakers there are many other options. Hard to say which is best.

Yeah, you're right. I really meant best for @getjarvis's purposes as he described them in the OP (no Japanese ability), but I didn't make that clear. Mea culpa.

Universe Club (UC) could be a good choice too depending on how much time he spends in Tokyo. He says he visits briefly but "often", but that could mean many different things. Getting one's first date via UC can take a few days or more due to the vetting/interview process and the sometimes slow speed at which they set up the dates. UC dates more predictable and reliable than SA dates though, at least ime. So, pros and cons, even aside from cost considerations.

-Ww