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Shrewd Sugar: Sugar Dating vs Relationships for me

Afaik, the difference in this context is that this specific type of suit (against the paramour of one’s spouse) is rare to non-existent in the US and probably wouldn’t succeed, but it happens frequently and successfully enough in Japan that there is even a sort of informal standard award to the plantiff for the “damages”. Just my understanding. I’d be happy to learn more from those better informed though.

-Ww

You are right. Probably no states except for North Carolina recognize the torts of “alienation of affections.” Japan recognizes them. However, it is not because there is specific law on it, but because there is no definition of “alienation of affections” in the torts in the Japanese civil code. There is no such law in Japan that is equivalent to NC General Statues 52-13.
 
I just got all caught up on this and find it terribly amusing

Guys that frequently calculate unconsciously how much to spend for a ladies’ time are displeased about being assessed on a quantitative basis! I’m enjoying this immensely!

For my first reasonably successful SB, her proposal was that dates were “free” other than me picking up the tab as she enjoyed my company and only intimate dates would be charged. I declined and suggested a modest monthly allowance instead as it balances out the power dichotomy and helped things feel more natural. We would sneak out for business lunches frequently and did one long trip abroad together but I ultimately got way too busy and we mutually faded
 
You are right. Probably no states except for North Carolina recognize the torts of “alienation of affections.” Japan recognizes them. However, it is not because there is specific law on it, but because there is no definition of “alienation of affections” in the torts in the Japanese civil code. There is no such law in Japan that is equivalent to NC General Statues 52-13.

Thanks for the further explanation. I did understand from your previous posts that there is no specific relevant law in the Japanese code.

Interesting about North Carolina. I'm not going to be having affairs with married women in NC any more! :eek::whistle::cautious:

-Ww
 
Afaik, the difference in this context is that this specific type of suit (against the paramour of one’s spouse) is rare to non-existent in the US and probably wouldn’t succeed, but it happens frequently and successfully enough in Japan that there is even a sort of informal standard award to the plantiff for the “damages”. Just my understanding. I’d be happy to learn more from those better informed though.

-Ww
That is what I thought too, only that, although money changes hands, it is not court ordered, but an out of court ‘settlement’ orchestrated by a lawyer or a ‘komon’ of some sort who acts like he is a lawyer.
 
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Guys that frequently calculate unconsciously how much to spend for a ladies’ time are displeased about being assessed on a quantitative basis!
Exactly. These are men who write things like “the girls there are of high quality” and look at our body assets like we’re cattle on a market. But god forbid we judge them on now much their money vs pleasant or unpleasant traits mean to us.
 
Exactly. These are men who write things like “the girls there are of high quality” and look at our body assets like we’re cattle on a market. But god forbid we judge them on now much their money vs pleasant or unpleasant traits mean to us.

But most escorts advertise themselves like cattle on a market. They quote body measurements, eye and hair color etc. They also call themselves high class and high quality. They justify their rates based on these attributes. Some mention their education and conversational skills too, but most escorts don’t lead with this. Why can’t men then discuss escorts using the same language? As far as escorts judging men on how much they spend and how pleasant or unpleasant they are to be with, have at it! Just don’t disclose any info that could identify them. I think it would be great if you charged more for, fat, rude and smelly people. And please give deep discounts to sweet smelling, kind and gentle, if slightly chubby guys like me. But I find it strange to complain about the fundamental reality of the job.
 
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