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I'm 5'7 in my early 20s, Singaporean and recently moved to Tokyo for an office job. I am not too inexperienced and uncomfortable around girls, have had my fair share of ONS, fwbs and relationships.
Due to my personal situation, I generally cannot go out before 12.30AM so the only place where I usually go to to try to pick up J-girls is in the clubs (mainly Roppongi).I look decent, and can dance fairly well, but due to my limited height and not having the non-Asian appearance, I don't really stand out in the club. I also tried to dress well and accordingly to the clubs that I visited. I usually approach girls on the dance floor by dancing in front of them a bit then extending my hand towards them. This works 30% for me, not a very impressive number but I'm working on improving it. My question is, what should I do to improve my chance of making the girls more interested?
Note: My Japanese skills are non-existent since I just moved here and English is the only language I use at work. So talking to girls in Japanese is a big challenge at the moment.
Due to my personal situation, I generally cannot go out before 12.30AM so the only place where I usually go to to try to pick up J-girls is in the clubs (mainly Roppongi).I look decent, and can dance fairly well, but due to my limited height and not having the non-Asian appearance, I don't really stand out in the club. I also tried to dress well and accordingly to the clubs that I visited. I usually approach girls on the dance floor by dancing in front of them a bit then extending my hand towards them. This works 30% for me, not a very impressive number but I'm working on improving it. My question is, what should I do to improve my chance of making the girls more interested?
Note: My Japanese skills are non-existent since I just moved here and English is the only language I use at work. So talking to girls in Japanese is a big challenge at the moment.