Sugar Dating vs Escorts

[DanniCake]

No, not "now I have to fuck that deer too", but to prepare and eat it. That's my least favourite part of hunting. The problem of course is the older I come the more I enjoy just walking in the forest with a rifle in my hand so I can claim I am hunting and not just wandering around aimlessly. Hopefully that's not the case soon with the girls too.

I gotta say I giggled both at "No not fuck the deer" but also the idea of you wandering around aimlessly in a forrest of women with your rifle in your hand.

 

[MikeH]

I gotta say I giggled both at "No not fuck the deer" but also the idea of you wandering around aimlessly in a forrest of women with your rifle in your hand.

 

[User#8628]

you wandering around aimlessly in a forrest of women with your rifle in your hand.

Sounds like my nightmares

 

[Wwanderer]

I think you hit again my problem in the head. Because it is not natural it's not as much fun for me. Yeah, I know, but people are often way less logical than they claim, right?

It's probably quite similar to some guys not liking man-made boobs. Even if the good one's cannot be distinguished from the natural ones if they know they don't like them. So I guess the only thing I need is an SB who lures me in without me acknowledging it's sugaring. ...

Clearly we're not on the same page here; I prefer sugaring to conventional escort-style p4p. However, I do understand perspective and get why it looks that way to you...with the help of the handy fishing & hunting metaphor. Thanks for the further explanation.

-Ww

 

[Ken1988]

A forest of women, ummm....

 

[Ken1988]

Meeting an escort is like seeking a fantasy for one or two hours. The purpose is obvious, which is agreed upon even before the encounter. Sugar dating is different - probably because what I'm looking for through SA is basically a long-term NSA relationship. Any of my sugar relationships didn't last long but I'm grateful that I could convert one to a vanilla friendship. We just meet occasionally for dinner and talk over something or nothing. Meanwhile, I'm looking for a new SB (and I was just flaked on ...again). I don't think other date apps could make this happen. The sugar bowl where I live (which is way larger than that of Tokyo) provided me exciting opportunities to meet young, attractive (and at times clever) women whom I don't have any chance to meet in my business field or daily routine. I'm happy with that. Yeah, I know it sounds pathetic in the forum for mongers.

 

[Wwanderer]

Yeah, I know it sounds pathetic in the forum for mongers.

Why do you say that? Many, though not me, might consider mongering more pathetic than sugaring afaik.

-Ww

 

[Frenchy]

Meeting an escort is like seeking a fantasy for one or two hours. The purpose is obvious, which is agreed upon even before the encounter. Sugar dating is different - probably because what I'm looking for through SA is basically a long-term NSA relationship. Any of my sugar relationships didn't last long but I'm grateful that I could convert one to a vanilla friendship. We just meet occasionally for dinner and talk over something or nothing. Meanwhile, I'm looking for a new SB (and I was just flaked on ...again). I don't think other date apps could make this happen. The sugar bowl where I live (which is way larger than that of Tokyo) provided me exciting opportunities to meet young, attractive (and at times clever) women whom I don't have any chance to meet in my business field or daily routine. I'm happy with that. Yeah, I know it sounds pathetic in the forum for mongers.

It’s not pathetic at all. It’s a different kind of mongering , that’s all.

 

[Ken1988]

Why do you say that? Many, though not me, might consider mongering more pathetic than sugaring afaik.

-Ww

I just thought many wouldn't agree with the idea of spending time and money for something that could end up with a vanilla friendship, but, yes, as Frenchy put it, this may be just a different kind of mongering perhaps.

 

[Yuriko]

Clients need to get all screening then. It's like allowance you get from your husband. Do you pay tax for that?

Escort is similar.

There is no way to claim. I wonder any majime girls that is doing "kakutei shinkoku" for escort biz?

I let my recruting agent handle my tax for my day time job.

You should stop being like willing to become a "tax collector" on a bible!!! Indeed, it seemed everyone hated "tax collector" on the bible, but and oh,,, I remember prostitutes are set of hated features in the bible...Talking to myself...

 

[User#8628]

remember prostitutes are set of hated features in the bible..

Mah, Jesus dated one. And he also ended up making friends with the tax collector.

Its funny how guys scream they want prostitution to be taxed. Look at cigarettes tax, who pays for that? The seller or the buyer? Cigarettes have become insanely expensive but people still pay up because they feel the need. And all that price hike because the government taxes it more heavily than other items.
So you can see who will lose out here, mongers.

And yes, escorts do in fact pay taxes as “self employed” usually because if you don’t pay taxes you are able to do less (making loans and other things).

 

[Yuriko]

Mah, Jesus dated one. And he also ended up making friends with the tax collector.

Its funny how guys scream they want prostitution to be taxed. Look at cigarettes tax, who pays for that? The seller or the buyer? Cigarettes have become insanely expensive but people still pay up because they feel the need. And all that price hike because the government taxes it more heavily than other items.
So you can see who will lose out here, mongers.

And yes, escorts do in fact pay taxes as “self employed” usually because if you don’t pay taxes you are able to do less (making loans and other things).

Wow,,,but I believe Jesus never received felacio, blowjob from any prostitutes??? gigle!

 

[MikeH]

And yes, escorts do in fact pay taxes as “self employed” usually because if you don’t pay taxes you are able to do less (making loans and other things).

Then again if you don't pay taxes you can buy everything in cash and don't need loans.

 

[Ken1988]

And yes, escorts do in fact pay taxes as “self employed” usually because if you don’t pay taxes you are able to do less (making loans and other things).

Indeed. Googling 風俗嬢 確定申告 returns many links to tax advisory/discussion.

 

[User#8628]

Wow,,,but I believe Jesus never received felacio, blowjob from any prostitutes??? gigle!

Nah but one washed his feet if i’m correct.

 

[MikeH]

Nah but one washed his feet if i’m correct.

So you are saying he had a foot fetish?

 

[Simonka]

So you are saying he had a foot fetish?

I swear I wanted to say it, but then felt horrible about myself and decided to wait until Uncle Mike appears..

 

[MikeH]

I swear I wanted to say it, but then felt horrible about myself and decided to wait until Uncle Mike appears..

Happy to be of service though usually young girls feel horrible about themselves after I've been with them, not before.

 

[Simonka]

Happy to be of service though usually young girls feel horrible about themselves after I've been with them, not before.

Thank God I’m about 50 cm taller than what you usually go for.

 

[DanniCake]

I guess I've been debating if I should stay in Sugaring (Which has been a pretty salt-filled bowl) or just try doing Escorting.
I like being clear with people, for everyone walking in to know what's going on and what expectations are, which I guess in Sugar Dating there are just a lot of winks and nudges that sometimes lead to something, but most of the time just lead to nothing.
At least with escorting people come in knowing my time is worth something and exactly what that worth is, there's no need to beat around the bush, it's more of a direct "From X:00~Y:00 you get XX$ and I'll get XXX provided" and to some that seems crude but for me it's exactly what I want.

I mean I'd like to get to know whomever I'm with and chat and stuff too but that's part of screening I suppose?

And from the sound of things if I were to really click with someone I could then just ask them out on a date after, which I mean takes out the whole worrying about if they're going to be terrible in bed or not.

hmmm how much does it cost to put up an ad here on TAG?

 

[Sudsy]

hmmm how much does it cost to put up an ad here on TAG?

Paging @TAG Manager

 

[User#8628]

I mean I'd like to get to know whomever I'm with and chat and stuff too but that's part of screening I suppose?

You can generally get a sense of what someone is like from their emails although their looks are usually a surprise.

I’ve been a bit more selective about who i meet recently since my nom TAG life has gotten a bit busier than before and i’ve gotten some weird emails.

 

[DanniCake]

You can generally get a sense of what someone is like from their emails although their looks are usually a surprise.

I’ve been a bit more selective about who i meet recently since my nom TAG life has gotten a bit busier than before and i’ve gotten some weird emails.

Do you usually get your appointments through TAG or is there another site you advertise with? Which one do you feel you get the best people with?

 

[User#8628]

Do you usually get your appointments through TAG or is there another site you advertise with? Which one do you feel you get the best people with?

TAG is definitely the major website for the foreign market in Tokyo now. Backpage has shut down and the other sites you get less emails from and more weird emails. I feel like TAG gets the most sensible, well written emails.

 

[Frenchy]

I feel like TAG gets the most sensible, well written emails.

Agreed