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I have been using my shitty Japanese skills to try to set up some dates on sugardaddy.jp recently. Here is an initial report.

At first I wrote something very generic and copy / pasted into google translate and then just spammed the first 30 girls available and online right now. This was actually pretty effective at getting a reaction of some kind. Maybe 10-30% expressed some level of interest in hanging out, but only a couple were available for and adult relationship (otona no kankei) or they wouldn't do otona on the first date or they wanted something long term, or they wanted 4 times what a soap charges, etc. Unfortunately, this resulted in a lot of discussions and wasted energy and no success in lining up a date. In hindsight I wish I had just gone out and had a beer / dinner with a couple chicks and I could have hit the soaps afterwards...

Strategy 2, I changed my spam to include mention of Otona no Kankei directly. I knew that this would turn off a lot of girls, so I increased the number of girls that I spammed. I also tried targeting girls whose profiles indicated that they were "positive" - which I assumed to mean more sexually liberal. As expected the reaction rate was lower, with a lot of "I don't do adult relationship" or even something like "read my fucking profile you prick where I specifically say 'no otona no kankei' ", perhaps slightly more diplomatically.

Well I tweaked strategy 2 a few times and eventually I found that just spamming all profile types was the most effective and I have a total of 6 dates sheduled, of which 2 -3 have been completed.

1) We were supposed to meet a starbucks and chatted up to 1 hour before. Well, she never showed and never responded to later inquiries.

2) The girl who showed up looked nothing like her original image, so I declined

3) A freaking typhoon cock-blocked my date for tonight (F you typhoon)

4) ... I will report later if folks are interested.

Thanks for the read :)
 
I have been using my shitty Japanese skills to try to set up some dates on sugardaddy.jp recently. Here is an initial report.

At first I wrote something very generic and copy / pasted into google translate and then just spammed the first 30 girls available and online right now. This was actually pretty effective at getting a reaction of some kind. Maybe 10-30% expressed some level of interest in hanging out, but only a couple were available for and adult relationship (otona no kankei) or they wouldn't do otona on the first date or they wanted something long term, or they wanted 4 times what a soap charges, etc. Unfortunately, this resulted in a lot of discussions and wasted energy and no success in lining up a date. In hindsight I wish I had just gone out and had a beer / dinner with a couple chicks and I could have hit the soaps afterwards...

Strategy 2, I changed my spam to include mention of Otona no Kankei directly. I knew that this would turn off a lot of girls, so I increased the number of girls that I spammed. I also tried targeting girls whose profiles indicated that they were "positive" - which I assumed to mean more sexually liberal. As expected the reaction rate was lower, with a lot of "I don't do adult relationship" or even something like "read my fucking profile you prick where I specifically say 'no otona no kankei' ", perhaps slightly more diplomatically.

Well I tweaked strategy 2 a few times and eventually I found that just spamming all profile types was the most effective and I have a total of 6 dates sheduled, of which 2 -3 have been completed.

1) We were supposed to meet a starbucks and chatted up to 1 hour before. Well, she never showed and never responded to later inquiries.

2) The girl who showed up looked nothing like her original image, so I declined

3) A freaking typhoon cock-blocked my date for tonight (F you typhoon)

4) ... I will report later if folks are interested.

Thanks for the read :)

Looks even less fruitful than SA (so far at least). :D
But thanks for sharing
 
I never had luck from SA or even from here.
All guys contact me to meet and later say want non transactional relationship cuz fell bed pay for girl.
So I went agency and after 2 month introduced me the SD and he always be on time and very educated.
Maybe better go to kousai club or some event?
Im sure is plenty of girls at coffe shop, bar, etc
 
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SA has a much smaller number of people in Tokyo, and is (in my experience) relatively useless for what I am looking for (young, Japanese).

SugarDaddy has many more users, but a large portion are “casual” in that they are just looking for platonic.

I re-registered on both sites in July. Since then, I’ve met one girl off SA who was a dud, and about 8 from SD, of whom I met 5 more than once. But I messaged many, many more people, so in terms of “batting average” SA is actually higher. That being said, for me the biggest bottleneck is not having enough time to meet new people - between my regular roster and work, I might have only one free night a week.

Neither are perfect for sure, but I guess it depends at least partially on what you’re after.
 
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I initially set up a few dates through SA and then I bailed on all of them a few days in advance (sorry). The gals were a little harsh (e.g. one cussed me out for using romaji) , and given the rarity of my time in Japan I swapped to sugardaddy.jp exclusively for a variety of reasons. SA seemed fairly typical for a big city; I tend to find dates easily in big cities in the USA...

5)easy setup, but there was a clue I should have noticed that this would be a lousy date. She was already discussing the length of the date in msg #1. When we met the girl was attractive (ooh man) skinny waste, wide hips, long neck and nice natural breasts BUT it was all business. Show up, accept 5, get clothes off, lay there like a dead fish. Complain about large size, switch to bj. Quick bj, complains about duration.

Fuck me, it was awful. I would pay 5 to not have that experience in my memory... I washed up in shower and off I went. I complained to her a little bit about the unpleasantness of the social aspect (stupid move) as she bitched me out and she blocked me on the website. I understand poor physical compatibility of any kind, but not having a bad attitude .

Takeaway: for a sugar date I will henceforth insist on dinner or a beer before sealing the deal.

6) same day appt, she was a little far but agreed to come to my station. I rescheduled like 3 times, and she was still amenable. Super beautiful super friendly super intelligent. Wife type material in my book. Unfortunately after dinner it was "too late" to proceed, possibly as a result of my 3x delay, or possibly due to her lack of interest? Guess I will never know :-( we never discussed an "allowance"

7) another friendly woman who agreed to come pretty far to my station. Pretty cute, and all hospitality. We had dinner and chatted and had a totally good time. I felt a real connection, she seemed like she was having fun and wasn't forcing it. Afterwards we headed to my place arm in arm and she looked wonderful in my room. We rolled around and played for hours. Still a bright spot in my recollection. Hopefully we can meet again next year

Owari
 
I initially set up a few dates through SA and then I bailed on all of them a few days in advance (sorry). The gals were a little harsh (e.g. one cussed me out for using romaji) , and given the rarity of my time in Japan I swapped to sugardaddy.jp exclusively for a variety of reasons. SA seemed fairly typical for a big city; I tend to find dates easily in big cities in the USA...

5)easy setup, but there was a clue I should have noticed that this would be a lousy date. She was already discussing the length of the date in msg #1. When we met the girl was attractive (ooh man) skinny waste, wide hips, long neck and nice natural breasts BUT it was all business. Show up, accept 5, get clothes off, lay there like a dead fish. Complain about large size, switch to bj. Quick bj, complains about duration.

Fuck me, it was awful. I would pay 5 to not have that experience in my memory... I washed up in shower and off I went. I complained to her a little bit about the unpleasantness of the social aspect (stupid move) as she bitched me out and she blocked me on the website. I understand poor physical compatibility of any kind, but not having a bad attitude .

Takeaway: for a sugar date I will henceforth insist on dinner or a beer before sealing the deal.

6) same day appt, she was a little far but agreed to come to my station. I rescheduled like 3 times, and she was still amenable. Super beautiful super friendly super intelligent. Wife type material in my book. Unfortunately after dinner it was "too late" to proceed, possibly as a result of my 3x delay, or possibly due to her lack of interest? Guess I will never know :-( we never discussed an "allowance"

7) another friendly woman who agreed to come pretty far to my station. Pretty cute, and all hospitality. We had dinner and chatted and had a totally good time. I felt a real connection, she seemed like she was having fun and wasn't forcing it. Afterwards we headed to my place arm in arm and she looked wonderful in my room. We rolled around and played for hours. Still a bright spot in my recollection. Hopefully we can meet again next year

Owari
I still online on SA. But no luck.
Sugar daddy.com I got a lot text from Asian man ( I guess they have fetish’s to caucasian ?) but the allowance or ppm is low.
To me go to many date for free or 1 man ( only dinner) it’s does not worth anymore.
Since must of online man I met give me a lot of disappointing.
I know that happen because is a lot lady accept that price and if work for then that fine.
I am looking for long term , it is less exhausting then go to many dates.
Although I open exception to those live over sea.

My best advice is when find good partner keep ad long possible.
 
This thread is a bit outdated, so apologies to the angry gods here.

sugardaddy.jp is a gold find, at least for me. You need a good grasp of written Japanese. If you have a good level of Japanse, you can meet models to gravure girls to hot milfs to young college girls very easily. The "price to meet" is also much better than seeking.
 
Nice,Yeah I think Suggatrdaddy is the place to be for right now,
You would think that with an influx of foriegn women from SEA on SA the price range would be lower.
This does not seem to be the case though as ponted out above !

Side note with COVID still all going etc etc what is the price you should expect to pay. I assume that 30,000 yen for dinner and hotel fun after is about right. Pre COVID I would have had it closer to 40,000 but
times are tough and a lot of people have had there salaries bonus etc reduced or removed so I would thin prices for women should also reflect the market.
 
Nice,Yeah I think Suggatrdaddy is the place to be for right now,
You would think that with an influx of foriegn women from SEA on SA the price range would be lower.
This does not seem to be the case though as ponted out above !

Let me jump in here. sugardaddy.jp (SD.jp) is my go-to site. Better than Paters.jp, and Paddy67 or the other sites. You need a good grasp of Japanese and some common sense (don't just think with the little head).

I have met lots of girls off of SD.jp and the hit ratio is best. I will post another thread here to give my "johnny on the spot" analysis on the sugar girls.

My suggestion is to stay away from seeking.com here in Japan. Filipina's need to be vetted and scrutinized at a whole other level. I just ejected a black and white heart shaped ass'd filipina who wanted $4K for her auntie with COVID in the Philippines. Whether it was true or not, she went from $4K, to $2K to whatever I could pay. All without meeting her in person. For that dumb Korean guy here, I saved you some serious cash, I heard she was on you for $10K. You have kids idiot, act as such.
 
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Thank you so much for the info and winsdom Shammy. Now back to my work remote work cube, COVID had made my work life a living hell
 
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After meeting 3 girls on SugarDaddy this week my experience so far:
1st girl posted age 27 She was amazing! Very hot , and does part time modeling with a (10/10 body/face) great in bed as well damage done for a 4 hour date was 40,000 yen (Seeing her again Tonight)
2nd girl posted age 25 Very cute wants to move slower but worth it. Plan on seeing her on 9/3 (7/10 body/face). Damadge done 2000 yen for coffee (She did not even expect me to pay maybe a keeper)
3rd girl posted age 22 Horible experience. changed the time last min, Would not do a quick line video call should be a red flag ! when we meet she did not match the photo at all. 10 years older and 50 lbs heavier than her profile photo.
Also very money hungry asking for money constantly oustide the meet and greet amount. Could not wait to run away from this one.
 
On a side note I have been able to get girls interested in 大人の関係 for 30,000 yen Have not meet any of them.
As a price point. Not many girls turn down 40,000 highest a girl asked has been 60,0000
 
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I live in the U.S. now, but would be happy to meet SBs in Tokyo when I visit. Does this site have any restrictions regarding non-residents?
 
I wish there were some reports of actual meeting of some of these girls and who's real and who's not.
 
I live in the U.S. now, but would be happy to meet SBs in Tokyo when I visit. Does this site have any restrictions regarding non-residents?
Non-resident foreigners may have difficulty with the documentation requirements for age verification.
 
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I wish there were some reports of actual meeting of some of these girls and who's real and who's not.
Pretty tough to actually do - not only is there a bunch of turnover, most of the girls worth seeing aren’t meeting tons of people. There are definitely people on there in the volume business, but I would be surprised if those are the ones you want to be meeting...
 
Pretty tough to actually do - not only is there a bunch of turnover, most of the girls worth seeing aren’t meeting tons of people. There are definitely people on there in the volume business, but I would be surprised if those are the ones you want to be meeting...
Well, who's worth meeting that is turning over a lot? Most of the girls I look at there are pretty good. That kinda info.
 
On a side note I have been able to get girls interested in 大人の関係 for 30,000 yen Have not meet any of them.
As a price point. Not many girls turn down 40,000 highest a girl asked has been 60,0000

My 2 yen here out on the streets, 60K can be high. For a sub 20 year old who is in college, then that is normal. You can probably get her down to 40K JPY but the feeling will be mechanical and not fun. I can tell you that a sub 20 year old above what she quotes digitally can be the most amazing sexual experience in your life because you can mold and train her. Let me stay this again because most mongers will love this control. That is a fun experience all in itself.

In general, I put my important things (wallet, personal cell phone, car keys, etc) in the station's coin locker before meeting. I cannot tell you how many times I was sweating in the shower thinking what happens if she steals my stuff and info. The seasoned monger shows up with enough CASH (don't be too drunk to bring your SUICA or pasmo card, those are no-no's) to cover the hotel and the fun. Maybe a little extra if she is the "next time girl". That is like 5K for your cheapies.

Condoms are an absolute necessity on the first meeting. Those who raw dog on the first meeting risk many things, above and beyond COVID. Be careful because I uncovered girls who have some very nasty cheeses down there.

Have fun out there and use your thinking head, it eventually pays itself forward and helps me (others?). LOL.
 
I wish there were some reports of actual meeting of some of these girls and who's real and who's not.
I would If I could but for privacy reasons I dont think it would fly well. Jut my 2 cents
 
I would If I could but for privacy reasons I dont think it would fly well. Jut my 2 cents
Based on your experience, how many of them tend to be real?
There are a lot of girls without pictures. Are they worth pursuing or should one just stick to girls with pictures?
 
I'm thinking about this as I just received an unexpected subtainial bonus. I offered an arrangement to an acquaintance who I know is in financial trouble, she thought about it but didn't want to "ruin our friendship".