sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

Alice said:
just feel like selecting under a certain number is kinda creepy and predatory. Age is not what makes someone attractive.
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I just prefer to stay within my generation, I'd have very little in common with GenZ/Zoomers. Maybe GenX because I enjoy learning history.

Younger people these days have very different set of values and are too consumed by social media and influencer culture.
 
Alice said:
If they have been sugaring / doing fuuzoku for a while, their body count would be high either way even in their early 20s.
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That's what even makes it more intimidating for these creeps. An 18-20 year old working in fuzoku would at most have a body count of a hundred, but someone who's in her mid to late 20s would have a body count of at least a thousand, assuming she started in her early 20s. And for these creeps, their ego or pride wouldn't allow them.🤣
 
Airnest said:
I think guys who are fixated on young girls show their insecurities or are intimated by older women. It's either the mindset that I gotta be in control and more experienced or being over 22-25 equals, higher body count and they can't control or manipulate them anymore. Either way it intimidates these kind of men and ironically exposes their immaturity. 🤣
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Or they just prefer younger looking girls. If you're a papa you are kinda automatically in control in the relationship regardless of age. There are a lot of reasons people could prefer younger girls, like wanting to feel young themselves, interested in current youth culture, make up for that time in their life when they couldn't score a hot girl like that, pure biological attraction, being with someone free without restrictions, mentoring etc. People are free to pick whoever they want and the girls are free to accept or reject who they want too, so i dont think its really a problem, but tastes differ after all.
 
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thatguythere said:
Or they just prefer younger looking girls. If you're a papa you are kinda automatically in control in the relationship regardless of age. There are a lot of reasons people could prefer younger girls, like wanting to feel young themselves, interested in current youth culture, make up for that time in their life when they couldn't score a hot girl like that, pure biological attraction, being with someone free without restrictions, mentoring etc. People are free to pick whoever they want and the girls are free to accept or reject who they want too, so i dont think its really a problem, but tastes differ after all.
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Tell it to the Marines. Did I strike a nerve for you to quote me and reply specifically to me? Did you feel attacked in a way? 🤣 Anyway, I'm merely stating my opinion and it's not in any way a fact. In Leo, we trust! 😉
 
Airnest said:
Tell it to the Marines. Did I strike a nerve for you to quote me and reply specifically to me? Did you feel attacked in a way? 🤣 Anyway, I'm merely stating my opinion and it's not in any way a fact. In Leo, we trust! 😉
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You were giving examples and your opinion about the topic so i just replied with mine, thats how its supposed to go on a forum lol. Ive been on the internet long enough to not feel attacked by any opinion dont worry. I just wanted to provide a counter argument for this case, on why people might have a preference for younger girls. I personally prefer girls younger than me, but ive been with older soapgirls too and both have their merits.
 
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thatguythere said:
You were giving examples and your opinion about the topic so i just replied with mine, thats how its supposed to go on a forum lol. Ive been on the internet long enough to not feel attacked by any opinion dont worry. I just wanted to provide a counter argument for this case, on why people might have a preference for younger girls. I personally prefer girls younger than me, but ive been with older soapgirls too and both have their merits.
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Ok, Leo! 👍
 
Alice said:
I just feel like selecting under a certain number is kinda creepy and predatory. Age is not what makes someone attractive.
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Yet I'm sure you can find countless reviews just on this forum where guys do comment on the age of their provider, and how she looks it with the implied meaning of her not being as attractive as expected and that being connected to age. I'd wager nine times out of ten, a woman is more attractive when she's younger than when she's older. Then you get situations where you have a mid younger girl and being compared to a gorgeous older girl and people go "See! Older women can be more attractive!" Exception does not make the rule. Just because Gadot is twice as attractive as Zegler despite being twice her age does not discount anything. Sorry, I was catching up on all the Snow White drama earlier today and couldn't resist. :p

I too used to set my preferences to 24 and under when I was sugaring, and even if I were vanilla dating again, I'd do the same. With the girls I've been with throughout my life, I've almost always had a better time with younger girls. Couple standouts from the older crowd, sure, but overall I've had far better experiences in the <24 crowd. But in sugar if I'm going to be dropping tens of thousands of yen to find out, or giving up my limited nights to go on a vanilla date, I'd hedge my bets and go with the higher chance of it being someone I like being with. Sure, I'd miss out on an amazing date with you, regretable seeing as how there's a myriad of testamonials to how amazing dates are with you. However, that's risk I'm willing to take, since the other 9 times out of 10, experience has taught me that I'd probably end up wasting my time and money.

Some (I'd wager most🤷‍♂️) guys prefer younger girls for a whole bunch of reasons (@thatguythere just outlined a bunch, I could write a whole dissertation on the topic). Some guys prefer more experience for a lot of reasons (@gaschdee and @MikeH outlined a bunch too) . The preference of either does not indicate predatory, manipulative, controlling, intimidated by, insecurity (including Airnest's adjectives too). More often than not, I've found that to be cope some women tell themselves when they get rejected for dates, compared to actual guys like that out there in the wild. But, your mileage may vary obviously. We've all had different kinds of encounters and different biases. Hell, I'm certainly biased seeing as how my girl is early 20's and we met when she was 18. She'd blow pretty much every single one of those adjectives out of the water lol
 
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static said:
Then you get situations where you have a mid younger girl and being compared to a gorgeous older girl and people go "See! Older women can be more attractive!" Exception does not make the rule.
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Well yes but that's kind of my point. Why would you bother going for a mid younger guy while you could look for a really beautiful older woman? It's hardly more search work just going through more profile pictures. And 9 times out of 10 they are actually more interesting to talk to as well.
 
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I'm currently in the Dating Pool, although I also enjoy Our Hobby and the occasional Sugar experiences.

One of the benefits of dating younger J-Girls is that, in general, they are less constrained. University girls have more periodic scheduling flexibility. Some have more hedonistic flexibility.

For me, a lot of it comes down to mutual interests. It's not a matter of control. The allure of a 19-year-old J-Girl in a bikini can be strong. Would I date an intelligent charismatic 19-year-old J-Girl? Yes. However, as time marches on, I'm less likely to find one who shares mutual interests.

Post Pandemic, I seem to have better chemistry with girls in their 30s and early 40s both in Japan and the U.S.

My current dating prospects in Japan are in their 30s.
 
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To stay more on topic, how accurate do you usually find the pictures to be? How trustworthy are accounts without a profile picture? Is it worth the risk? I've seen a lot where they dont have a profile picture, but do have a single picture on their account. Do you personally judge based on the picture, the profile, the time constraints?
 
thatguythere said:
To stay more on topic, how accurate do you usually find the pictures to be? How trustworthy are accounts without a profile picture? Is it worth the risk? I've seen a lot where they dont have a profile picture, but do have a single picture on their account. Do you personally judge based on the picture, the profile, the time constraints?
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Assume basically all girls are using some kind of a filter and drop her a point or two on your 1 - 10 scale. If she isn't, then be pleasantly surprised when you meet her. Some very attractive girls won't use filters because they don't need to, have confidence, etc.

I like the whole spec system some girls have, Height - Weight = Spec. If you're at 100, you're reasonably average. If you're over 110 you're skinny, if you're 120 you're model skinny. Obviously a very broad generality, (muscular girls can have sub 100 spec, taller girls can be a little thicker while being around 110, etc). I've seen some girls actually list their spec on their profiles.

Basically I'd just assume your risk tolerance. Some very attractive girls will not have a profile picture, privacy, want to filter their results, etc. Sometimes you can get some really good hits, sometimes you'll regret going. Unforunately, there's no real magic way to know the truth unless you see her in person.
 
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Seems really fun and thrilling to try the no profile picture lottery, if i was there for a longer period of time. Sadly im usually only there for a couple of weeks so not really worth the risk for that time only.
 
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Any idea about the identification verification process? I've submitted my passport 3 times by now but every time it got rejected and they dont give a single clue what it might be specifically, aside from broad "maybe these common causes" which dont apply.
 
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thatguythere said:
Any idea about the identification verification process? I've submitted my passport 3 times by now but every time it got rejected and they dont give a single clue what it might be specifically, aside from broad "maybe these common causes" which dont apply.
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Doesn't sugardaddy.jp require a Japanese ID for foreigners?
 
gaschdee said:
Doesn't sugardaddy.jp require a Japanese ID for foreigners?
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I have no idea, it doesn't say that anywhere but i wouldnt be surprised i guess. Getting a jp ID is almost impossible so if thats the case ill have to wing it sadly.
 
Is "working in the beauty industry" just code for working in the "industry"? I've seen this one an awfull lot.
 
fireman said:
If you like fat and/or ugly, then maybe.
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It was incredible luck, but I met a 180 cm jaw dropper in Tokyo. I didn't see a photo beforehand.
 
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