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Sugaring vs Escorting : what do you prefer?

Is it? Isn't it rather like buying a newspaper from a stand or having a subscription?

Which one is cheaper depends how much you actually read. :D

I think it also depends on where you play. I understand that in the US escorts command outrageous rates and Japan surely has it's fair share of pricey to expensive options as well, but in Europe you can actually meet very attractive ladies at very decent prices. SB on the contrary oftentimes expect a very luxurious lifestyle.
 
One of the best and worst things about sugaring. It’s like a box of chocolates — u never know what u will get. This week I lined up three girls -all agreed $400 pay per meet and “a complete date”. And what a wide variation. All three were a nice Italian dinner and head to the room. From 3 hrs to overnight in duration (see below).

First one was the middle of the road. I am her second SD ever and the other was long term regular. So she’s shy and nervous in the room. But she knows where this is going and after drinking heavily we have a whale of a time including the second round being bareback (whoops!) and her sleeping over spontaneously. I can pretty much guarantee this won’t happen with a paid escort!

Second girl had never done SB before and was a tender 20 years old. Even tho she dresses quite slutty, in the room she got cold feet and was like “I can’t have sex with a guy I just met”. Well having just recently learned some great wisdom from our Nanpa friends (push pull, persistence, etc) I was able to make her comfortable and after about 20 minutes of foreplay she says “OK we can have sex now!” Hahaha. And it was fun but clearly a highly inexperienced girl.

And the final one was what I call my confident bubbly wildcat. She was totally down for sex from minute 1 — emerging from the bathroom in a teddy! Two rounds of full on pornstar action including CIM and swallow on round 2. Wow!

So yeah SB is like a box of chocolates! And I love that. But it’s a bit exhausting too. I am looking forward to some straight up paid escorting soon (next trip to Japan).
 
One of the best and worst things about sugaring. It’s like a box of chocolates — u never know what u will get. This week I lined up three girls -all agreed $400 pay per meet and “a complete date”. And what a wide variation. All three were a nice Italian dinner and head to the room. From 3 hrs to overnight in duration (see below).

First one was the middle of the road. I am her second SD ever and the other was long term regular. So she’s shy and nervous in the room. But she knows where this is going and after drinking heavily we have a whale of a time including the second round being bareback (whoops!) and her sleeping over spontaneously. I can pretty much guarantee this won’t happen with a paid escort!

Second girl had never done SB before and was a tender 20 years old. Even tho she dresses quite slutty, in the room she got cold feet and was like “I can’t have sex with a guy I just met”. Well having just recently learned some great wisdom from our Nanpa friends (push pull, persistence, etc) I was able to make her comfortable and after about 20 minutes of foreplay she says “OK we can have sex now!” Hahaha. And it was fun but clearly a highly inexperienced girl.

And the final one was what I call my confident bubbly wildcat. She was totally down for sex from minute 1 — emerging from the bathroom in a teddy! Two rounds of full on pornstar action including CIM and swallow on round 2. Wow!

So yeah SB is like a box of chocolates! And I love that. But it’s a bit exhausting too. I am looking forward to some straight up paid escorting soon (next trip to Japan).
I have a funny feeling I know which one #2 was.....
 
Just to close out my recent visit. And for reference this was in Las Vegas USA.

I ended up repeating with the first girl and it was nice but not noteworthy. Did not repeat with the second one (the one I had to seduce). And repeated with my bubbly sex kitten.

I kinda went full Daddy mode with her since I had just received a big bonus and really dig this girl. So I told her I wanted to up her allowance to $600 but was more specific about how I wanted the date to go and was clear it should be Unrushed. And in full on SD mode after round 1 steered her to the Swarovski store and bought her a lovely crystal necklace — that was a first.

Well the date was the best in recent history and after round 2 she ended up sleeping over. This was really nice and how SBSD is different — I gave her more $ and the necklace cuz I WANTED to. And she gave me more of herself and stayed over cuz she wanted to. We both surprised each other in a non transactional way.

So I am rather smitten and will work to see her again.

Ps she loves to talk dirty and during sex our last night she yells out “Fuck me Daddy”. LOL.
 
THAT is the kind of message I would not get from an escort and it makes me want to take a cab and do the deed...
(My real name is not Lou in case you wondered.... just a Lou Reed fan)

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THAT is the kind of message I would not get from an escort and it makes me want to take a cab and do the deed...
(My real name is not Lou in case you wondered.... just a Lou Reed fan)

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Lou Reed? Seriously?
 
Is your pic a photo of Lou Reed too?
Which pic? Obviously the one above is a lady who is also alive , while, afaik Lour Reed is a dude who is also dead...
Or you meant my avatar on TAG? Its SuperDupont. Like Superman but French version. With a beret and baguette :)
 
Escorting.

Lack of complications is important to me, and sugaring carries a much higher risk of complication.
I agree. I haven’t done escorting, but have been walking the sb line working college girls. Tell them I’m here for a 2 week business trip, then cut it.
Many ads here, but are there any top rated escorts among you lads?
 
I agree. I haven’t done escorting, but have been walking the sb line working college girls. Tell them I’m here for a 2 week business trip, then cut it.
Many ads here, but are there any top rated escorts among you lads?
Im confused .. top rated escorts among us lads? You mean male escorts?
 
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I've been called selfish during that conversation......
 
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Agreed 100%. Researching options now. Work is also absolutely shite right now, so it might be time for a massive change up.
 
Im confused .. top rated escorts among us lads? You mean male escorts?

You can’t expect anyone to be celibate. None of us are. It’s human nature. When we pay a women for her time, we already tell her that it’s a transaction. For women, it’s the same thing.

When you get married, you are saying I’ll provide for you. But then we fuk around. I think Martin Sheen said, ‘I don’t pay them for sex, I pay them to leave afterwards’.

Don’t expect to be exclusive with someone you pay. If anything, by paying, you set her earning potential.
 
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THAT is the kind of message I would not get from an escort and it makes me want to take a cab and do the deed...
(My real name is not Lou in case you wondered.... just a Lou Reed fan)

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If only a month ago, I wouldn't even understand. But I now couldn't agree with you more. This level of interactions I doubt you can get from an escort. I still new to sugaring, but it's been amazing so far.

I will however still continue both sugaring and escorting. Because they are really just for different things and different needs.
 
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If only a month ago, I wouldn't even understand. But I now couldn't agree with you more. This level of interactions I doubt you can get from an escort. I still new to sugaring, but it's been amazing so far.

I will however still continue both sugaring and escorting. Because they are really just for different things and different needs.

yes. Actually I would NOT want an escort to text me with sexy pics and messages. Its creepy. Unless I’ve met her dozens times before , then she would be a de facto SB in my book
 
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One of the great things about SB for me is that u sometimes have to seduce them a bit. There is this bit of “is it really on?” With some girls. During a recent trip to London I scored an SB date very last minute. I was hitting SA hard with a very aggressive “I’m going dancing in Soho Thursday. Wanna come.” type message and getting a surprising number of responses.

A Viet hottie hit me up last minute and it was on. She wanted to meet at my hotel room which seems very pro, but I got a very non pro vibe from her. We literally talked for two hours and drank wine before I even pushed for the kiss. There was some push/pull and eventually it was on.

But even when I took down her pants and panties, she pulled her panties back up. Undeterred I worked them to the side and dove in. She got worked up and from there it really WAS on. Great time. 4.5 hrs.

Love this about SB!!!!
 
Oh and the other great thing is u can often extend a single meeting into more. After our great room experience in London we made plans for a weekend in Zurich. Till the Coronavirus killed it dead. But definitely with SBs u can set up some longer term travel meetups and they are often down with that.
 
Oh and the other great thing is u can often extend a single meeting into more. After our great room experience in London we made plans for a weekend in Zurich. Till the Coronavirus killed it dead. But definitely with SBs u can set up some longer term travel meetups and they are often down with that.
Well, I found the frontier between SBs and escorts more porous than what both «sides » care to admit. Could get longer dates including travel with an escort too, and dated a SB who for all practical considerations was more an escort in disguise. But overall yes, I see what you mean. Especially with newbies on SA. Be careful however , SB or escort or civilian... a No is still a No: your first post sounded a bit like you had to force her