Sure you could say that. And it would be the case that most guys interested in nanpa, often being in their 20s, are going to be less well off than the average monger who are often married/older... But I have taught many guys with big wallets.. some perhaps bigger than yours? Not sure, never met you so don't know but would be surprised. Either way money is not the only or even main deciding factor when it comes to who wants to organically meet women and succeed more with the ones they like.
I guess you haven't seen Japanese porn then....
We live in an age where people are very quick to virtually lynch someone over a tweet (sometimes years old) or implications based on one (often distorted) part of a larger whole and everybody is out to play "gotcha" and corner someone and shame them for having the wrong position or force them to apologize.
By and large I think guys are good and operate with good intentions and for the most part listen to and have girls' best interests at heart. In my experience, guys who tend to find my information are usually farther on the side of inaction rather than going too far and crossing the boundaries (though both exist and I try to address both issues... the latter is far less common though). They decide in their head that this subtle movement of the girls' legs means she's not interested, or the fact that she isn't touching his arm means X or what she is or isn't doing with her hair means Y.
The point I was making was, rather than try to be psychic, simply assume that if she has entered a private space with you, especially your house or a hotel, that she is generally interested in you, and you should try to make a move. In other words, if she's in isolation with you, make the move! Then you listen to her. Listen to her words, but also, listen to her body. Is she slightly opening her legs as she says "dame"? Is she making no effort to leave despite telling her she's perfectly free to at any time?
I think there's a kind of casual sexism that men like to apply to women via attacks on nanpa guys (some of whom I don't agree with the methods of anyway!) and it goes like this:
You slobby pickup artists are MANIPULATING women and NOT LISTENING to them and it's because you're SOCIALLY AWKWARD and uncalibrated and have no success with women the "normal" way and that's why you have to do all this weird creepy stuff that is PULLING A FAST ONE over them and otherwise TRICKING them.
Which of course implies that women are stupid, easily manipulated, easily deceived, and incapable of defending themselves and incapable of expressing themselves.
And... I don't know what women you've been meeting but in my experience they are none of these things. As long as you have the ability to listen to her on a DEEP level, there are no issues and women by and large are fairly good at simply leaving if they are uncomfortable. ANY physical restraint or use of force is ABSOLUTELY WRONG. I go as far to regularly and actively tell girls they can leave at any time, and to tell me if they feel uncomfortable. Give them the safety valve, the escape route (and respect it of course). Then proceed!
Self professed usually means the person themselves has professed that.
