IND The end of summer - sharing notes about Japan with Ms. Summer

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  1. Dethyl

    Dethyl TAG Member

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    Service and/or Provider's Name:
    Independent / Anna Summer

    Date of Encounter:
    September 2017

    Contact Method:
    e-mail

    Appointment Length & Costs:
    2 hours - 50,000 yen

    Type/Location:
    Love Hotel / Ikebukuro

    Language Notes:
    English / Japanese

    Details of the Encounter:
    I'm relatively inexperienced and my previous sexual encounter was with my ex-girlfriend five years ago. Although I'm fluent enough in Japanese, I never felt a strong urge to seek out soaplands or other pay-for-play options due to certain things about Japanese culture(more on this later).

    Being a long time lurker on TAG (although only recently registered), I decided why not try one of the independent service providers on the forums. I read about Anna and felt drawn to her after viewing her website and considering previous reviews.

    It started with minor blunder where it was close to the time of meeting, I checked the other entrance of the love hotel, when Anna was checking at the front desk area. Then I came back to the front desk area while she went out to the street to check again. In retrospect it felt like one of those old-fashion cartoons with two characters trying to meet and the audience could see how ridiculous it was. Already uncertain, this made me downright nervous.

    She was very observant and picked up on my nervousness and subtly tried to ease the anxiety by spending the first half hour talking about what I knew of Japan, my travels, and a general discussion about culture. Knowing that she is German, I spoke of the craftsmanship of wooden figurines and miniature furniture from Erzgebirge. We proceed to the shower almost seamlessly from there, where she initiated some light kissing while we began to explore each other during the washing. It felt different but in a nice way to hold someone close again - yet I was still gripped by a sense of apprehension. Again, she sensed it and guided my hands to her waist and and let my explore her entire back. It was electrifying, the gentle curves - she seems so fragile but caressing her allows you to feel her supple strength that belies that appearance.

    After the shower, we proceeded to the bed where I received a BJ that gradually pushed away all of my remaining anxiety. The texture of her tongue, the slight probing of her teeth gently against the shaft. Then, she climbed on top for CFS. I couldn't resist and released soon after. We spent the rest of the session chatting as I felt more intrigued by her than wanting to get off again.

    I would say it felt like a true GFE. The same way you could talk to your partner about anything under the sun. The topics included allergies and their side effects as well as Japanese attitudes toward allergies (i.e. they won't really believe you until they see it), Japanese lacquerware and the posion oak sap used in it, the Meiji restoration, stereotypes around the world, and most importantly the inside-outside circles of Japanese contact.

    To elaborate more on the last point - the Japanese are unusual even among Asians (I'm ethnic Chinese from Southeast Asia), when they initially realise you're a foreigner able to speak Japanese, they warm up to you and treat you like an interesting novelty. Gradually they get closer to you as you get to intermediate proficiency. However, when you reach advanced proficiency(able to read newspapers and magazines without help, locals don't need to slow down when talking to you) - they will abruptly push you back out. You are treated as a spy of sorts, and with great suspicion. The feeling you will get is "this foreigner understands what we are saying, be careful with your words around him/her".

    Anna and I discussed how both of us have received this treatment. I related how my former Japanese teacher and I are on a first name basis, but she created a kind of intermediate ring where I was placed - neither in the inner, nor outer circle. A similar notion would be "uncanny valley" in robotics and artificial intelligence.

    For those who have studied Japanese and regularly used it with native speakers - recall the facade you show to outsiders (tatemae 建前) and your true self for your inner group (honne 本音). Imagine, getting closer to someone, they drop the facade and you almost see the entirety of their true self, then suddenly it is blocked from you again - up comes the facade and it is never deliberately dropped in your presence again. Of course there are exceptions to this, but in general that is how traditional Japanese will behave. I just though it is relevant to mention this point as this forum mostly discusses the Japanese adult entertainment scene

    The intellectual exchange and sexual encounter left me refreshed after the two hours. If i'm in Japan again, this is something I would like to experience once more. May not be the kind of escort for everyone - to each his own / 十人十色 / Jedem das Seine.

    Final Thoughts:
    Recommended, May Repeat.

    Closing Comments:
    Anna is sensual and intelligent, don't just be smitten by her girl-next-door appearance. Can be direct and to-the-point, able to hold great conversation.
     
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    Don't want to hijack the thread, cause this is a review, but what you say about Japanese rings true, but I think you are looking at it as if openness is a binary quality. This gives the impression that you really nicely identify as feeling neither here or there. I don't think you ever see the "entirety of their true selves", but I wonder if it is more of a fiction that we Westerners think they are able to show the entirety of their true selves whereas Japanese realize they can't, so partition it off. I realize that this is already is a huge overgeneralization (that the world is divided into westerners and Japanese or whatever), so apologies for anyone who feels upset getting put in a particular box.
     
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    Very interesting points you made. I'm also in a similar situation as you, but my Japanese language ability is far worse.

    And I'll give you the words infamous @Frenchy gave me: "By the way welcome to TAG, we all hope this won't be your only message ... so many first timers just post an excellent review then suddenly disappear, that's a pity ! :D"

    I'm a newbie here too but I've found this place to have a surprisingly friendly and civilised atmosphere compared to other places on the internet.
     
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    Thank you! :)

    @Dethyl - Thanks for your review of Anna... please don't be a stranger! ;)
     
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    Good review, I enjoyed the humor at the beginning and the well-phrased cultural notes as well.
     
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    Manami TMKManami TMK is a Verified Member Tokyo Escort

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    I too recently had another opportunity to play with her. She is always so so good on girl-on-girl play.
    This young lady never turn you down in any ways. Model looking fit body, very pretty face, youth, intelligence. Strongly recommended.
     
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  7. Frenchy

    FrenchyFrenchy is a Verified Member Peace, Love and Camembert

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    Thanks for this review. Never met Anna but wish I did (the reciprocal is probably not so true now that I'm , as Jhingy mentioned, "infamous";))
    Maybe just one thing which sounds a bit odd, to me at least: "don't be smiten by her girl-next-door appearance"... usually you are not "smitten" by girls next doors... they are not supposed to be the stunners , but if I didnt understand correctly that expression feel free to stone me to death... that would not change the very very un-fuckable appearance of my own "girl next door" (who is probably nuts, on top of that: barely speaking, and hugging a cuddy toy like it was her dog or baby... creeeeepy!)

    I especially liked the last part about the dangers of being "too good" at Japanese. I know it sounds like bragging but after so many years here I think I am 80% fluent and clearly some locals seem to resent that. Not that I care much, but it's interesting indeed.
     
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    MikeHMikeH is a Verified Member Presumably Male

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    OK, cannot resist the bait anymore. Maybe we should take this discussion elsewhere, or rather nowhere, but I have never understood that "being too good in Japanese" part.

    Maybe you guys just need to start hanging out with nicer people as I have never had that problem. And it has been a couple of decades already when I was first thought to be fluent in Japanese.
     
  9. Frenchy

    FrenchyFrenchy is a Verified Member Peace, Love and Camembert

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    Well either you are lucky or you are not just that fluent :D
     
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  10. Dethyl

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    Many thanks to all who replied. Did not expect any.
     
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