The meaning of "cum", when you produce with a provider

What does that make it? Salty?
No, the opposite - tasteless. I think because a lot the salt has already been excreted through sweat.

I thought that the stomach doesn't digest semen though, so all that protein would be pretty useless
Where did you hear that?? I dont think that's true. After all, semen is just another organic substance, so unless there's something which makes it impervious to stomach acid (almost certain there isn't) , it's gonna get broken down and absorbed like food.
 
No, the opposite - tasteless. I think because a lot the salt has already been excreted through sweat.


Where did you hear that?? I dont think that's true. After all, semen is just another organic substance, so unless there's something which makes it impervious to stomach acid (almost certain there isn't) , it's gonna get broken down and absorbed like food.
Interesting.
This was what i heard about, i think:
 

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To be honest I don't care too much. It's not like I am going to put it in a zipper bag and take it home with me anyway so I don't care if girls spit or swallow.

Just don't spit it out like it is toxic acid, discreetly disposing it in a napkin is totally fine with me.


Haha, Thanks for sharing this. Noted!

Interesting question! Now we all know that sperm is the ultimate facial product. It goes on your face not your legs. So don’t spit it anywhere but lit it run down your chin and rub it back onto your face. And you are right sperm has energy so says medical journals. You should ask your John to drink fruit juice for a month and do no fapping. That sperm will be sweet nectar. $wallow at your own risk.

I also read sperm can be some kind of beauty extract. But tbh, it's my job to catch it in my mouth, but I do not like the taste nor smell...so it wouldn't work for me to put all over on me, afterwards..that I want to get rid, but I thought of, it's such of mens work, to produce it for me, for the completion of my service. I don't mind, when they couldn't. But, I thought I should pay more respect...
As a guy, having your semen swallowed makes you feel loved Lol. Also might be a sign that the provider is not completely grossed out by you.
But I don't really mind if a provider spits or swallows - her choice. Tissue, tits, body I dont mind. The running to the bathroom and gargling antiseptic mouthwash is a bit of a turn-off.

check out this interesting website: :D
http://www.dontspitswallow.com/why_swallow.shtml

an excerpt from their cum nutritional facts:
"Healthy semen (that is, cum produced by a well-nourished, disease-free male) may in fact be not only safe to eat, but actually good for you. Seminal fluid, the base of cum, is a veritable nutrient-rich soup. Semen is a source of highly concentrated, high-quality protein. In dietary terms, it's comparable to egg whites or gelatin.

Besides protein, semen contains high concentrations of some minerals, such as zinc, and trace amounts of other important nutrients, like calcium and magnesium. While you shouldn't depend on a shot of cum to get your recommended daily allowances of vitamins and minerals, swallowing semen on a regular basis can't hurt as a dietary supplement."

It's known in Japane, too. But, I.think it may have an affect, swallowing multiple men's sperm, though. Wonder if I get multiple charactor!??? lol.

Yep you must have. But you never know, out at sea you might have millions of children swimming around. But yeah sperm is good for the face so they say.

No, I never let guys COF in my performance. I find almost the same feeling like piss on face...
 
Interesting.
This was what i heard about, i think:
I'm not sure what that site is trying to say , since that's true for all foods - the stomach denatures/ 'destroys'/breaks them down into basic components, before being absorbed by body (proteins into amino acids, complex carbs into simple sugars, fats into fatty acid chains) .

Like other foods, the digestive system might not fully absorb everything in semen (like trace minerals), but it will probably absorb close to 100% of the good stuff (carbs, protein etc...).
 
If you are worried about any diseases then swallowing or spitting are both equally good but letting it linger in your mouth is the only bad option.
 
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If topless let it run down your chin onto your breasts and rub it in, if not topless smear it on your lower face and neck, easier to wash off as well.

Otherwise discretely into a napkin or tissue would probably be best IMHO
 
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Well, Yuriko the first time I saw you release it from your mouth onto the source I was already levitating off the bed..at that point I was incapable of rational thought and fine with wherever it went
 
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I think for most guys, the ultimate satisfaction comes from a women allowing COF or swallowing or at very least CIM. I think as someone mentioned here, it makes a guy feel "loved" when a women allows it, but for other guys it may be a thing of domination or the fact that the women is totally giving in or being submissive. Personally, my former girlfriends (3 yrs & 4 yrs relationships at separate times) would allow me to do as I pleased with them. For example, bj, public sex in theater, park, etc., fooling around while she's on the phone and even fooling around right in front of parents under blanket not even 3 ft away. BUT, Yuriko -chan, you shouldn't feel bad about not swallowing or allow COF cause 3 things my girlfriends would not allow were COF, swallowing and anal. You must do what you are comfortable with. At the very least, if you are not clothed while performing bj, let guys "cum" on body, either stomach or breasts, they would be just as happy.
 
Sperm isn’t for the mouth anyway. And since you don’t like the smell or taste, you don’t have to swallow it or let it linger in your mouth. If you spit it out, I doubt it matters.
 
I never considered cumming hard work or bring chore. In most cases it seems the provider is doing the hard work. My first pop is usually easier than I would like. The second pop takes a lot longer but it’s a job I’m willing to do.

As long as the girl seems like she enjoys the cum, swallow or spitting is fine. I do think it’s sexy to see a woman swallow though.
 
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Outside the world of porn, swallowing doesn't seem to be a common practice. As hot as it is to watch a girl show you the cum in her mouth and then make it disappear, most men don't expect that.

So polite spitting into a towel or whatever else is fine. For me the fact that I got to cum in the girl's mouth was the main important point. What happens afterwards I don't really care. Doing some COB would be nice but again, not a must have in my book.
 
Outside the world of porn, swallowing doesn't seem to be a common practice. As hot as it is to watch a girl show you the cum in her mouth and then make it disappear, most men don't expect that.

So polite spitting into a towel or whatever else is fine. For me the fact that I got to cum in the girl's mouth was the main important point. What happens afterwards I don't really care. Doing some COB would be nice but again, not a must have in my book.
I've read a similar forum based out of Singapore, and it seems most girls swallow and use mouth to clean the cock... But again this could all be wishes and not fact... I'm of the opinion that if some women swallow and they talk about it to thier friends and how much the guys like it then a %of girls will also try or do to "fit in". Again, just my opinion... Personal experience in S'pore was she spit it out...
 
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I've read a similar forum based out of Singapore, and it seems most girls swallow and use mouth to clean the cock... But again this could all be wishes and not fact... I'm of the opinion that if some women swallow and they talk about it to thier friends and how much the guys like it then a %of girls will also try or do to "fit in". Again, just my opinion... Personal experience in S'pore was she spit it out...
Wow didn't realise that.
I thought this is something most girlfriends would do regularly.
That all definitely seems wishful thinking.
Personally, in a relationship i would absolutely agree on letting a guy try CIM or swallow with me, but the focus in out relationship would not be on blowjob finish so it wouldn't happen a lot at all. I can probably count the times i have done blowjob finishes in relationships on my hands, blowjob is just foreplay usually.
Of course a guy can pull out and finish somewhere else with intercourse, and thats ok once in a while but i think that should not be thg standard because it feels kind of abrubt and cold.

As for p4p, i really doubt the majority of providers anywhere do swallow and clean up fera. Its good service and you can probably expect it from some top providers, especially if you request it, but i dont think many girls would go that extra mile if you already came and like most guys mentioned, maybe dont really care that much anymore. Also some guys dont like cleanup fera because its too sensitive.
 
That all definitely seems wishful thinking.
Personally, in a relationship i would absolutely agree on letting a guy try CIM or swallow with me, but the focus in out relationship would not be on blowjob finish so it wouldn't happen a lot at all. I can probably count the times i have done blowjob finishes in relationships on my hands, blowjob is just foreplay usually.
Of course a guy can pull out and finish somewhere else with intercourse, and thats ok once in a while but i think that should not be thg standard because it feels kind of abrubt and cold.

As for p4p, i really doubt the majority of providers anywhere do swallow and clean up fera. Its good service and you can probably expect it from some top providers, especially if you request it, but i dont think many girls would go that extra mile if you already came and like most guys mentioned, maybe dont really care that much anymore. Also some guys dont like cleanup fera because its too sensitive.
Thanks for providing the female perspective :)

What's a clean-up fera? Is it a girl continuing to suck and cleanup the cum with her mouth?
 
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Yeah, i meant (gently) blowing the guy after he cums and removing the cum from that area.

It is something that I appreciate but only if we are going for the next round. If we are finished the girl should not be waking the monster again. :eek::p
 
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I've read a similar forum based out of Singapore, and it seems most girls swallow and use mouth to clean the cock... But again this could all be wishes and not fact... I'm of the opinion that if some women swallow and they talk about it to thier friends and how much the guys like it then a %of girls will also try or do to "fit in". Again, just my opinion... Personal experience in S'pore was she spit it out...

I'm not savvy on Singaporean culture so I can't really say whether that's a common thing over there or not. It could be popular in a particular group of the population. Maybe some of us that have traveled there a lot could say more.

Wow didn't realise that.
I thought this is something most girlfriends would do regularly.

Not in my experience or that of the guys I know. I don't hear of that a lot in the other forums I used to frequent either. I'm sure some girls do swallow but that's a very perverse thing to do. Maybe some others have been in relationships where this happens?
 
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I'm sure some girls do swallow but that's a very perverse thing to do
Why so?

I agree that a lot of prude girls wouldn't do it.
But whats gross about your boyfriend's cum?
The only thing thats off to me, like i mentioned before, is a guy willing to finish by blowjob or by moving his lowerbody all the way to your face instead of a more intimate way (finish inside/finish inside in condom/pull out last minute and finish on stomach) that seems more appropriate in a relationship.
 
Why so?

I agree that a lot of prude girls wouldn't do it.
But whats gross about your boyfriend's cum?
The only thing thats off to me, like i mentioned before, is a guy willing to finish by blowjob or by moving his lowerbody all the way to your face instead of a more intimate way (finish inside/finish inside in condom/pull out last minute and finish on stomach) that seems more appropriate in a relationship.

I don't see it as a natural act since really cum isn't meant to be consumed. But i get your point about intentionally finishing in a girls mouth after sex instead of finishing more naturally. A prude wouldn't suck a dick period if she had a choice but I think the average chick would also be on the fence about swallowing. I concede that I could be totally wrong since I'm a dude and really don't understand a woman's feelings on this. I'm in favor of it for those that are into swallowing so I have no issues with it.
 
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I don't see it as a natural act since really cum isn't meant to be consumed.
Yeah I agree with that. It makes me a little sad knowing my tadpoles are going to suffer a horrible death by gastric acid.

Unfortunately doing everything fully 'natural' can lead to unwanted babies :(
 
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I'm going to agree with Alice, in a relationship BJ to completion is fairly rare in my experience. While we are swingers and BJs happen a lot they are more foreplay with the act finishing elsewhere.
Although among soft swap, oral only, swallowing seems to be pretty common. And I know on those occasions where the BJ IS the act, swallowing seems to be the norm when the cum isn't sprayed someplace. But that may be because the women in question are swingers.
 
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I don't think that BJ to completion in a relationship is all that unusual. Not too much different from me going down on her until she has an orgasm. What's unusual about that? I know that outside a relationship women don't accept oral from a man as easily as men would accept oral from a woman - but that's one thing about the universe I would change if I had that power (I would love to have a 90% success rate in offering random women oral sex! Even if that was the only thing that would probably happen.)

I agree that swallowing feels very intimate for the male to see. But I guess that if spitting is the only option I prefer to see her spit into her hand like it meant something rather than spit into a tissue like it was something to be disposed of as quickly as possible. I also don't care to see her play with it or rub it on somewhere unless she really seems to enjoy doing it for her own reasons.
 
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