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Some thoughts that stuck with me today:

I'm under the impression that a lot of Japanese women choose foreigners not because they like them but because they have no other choice actually.

They think that foreigners have lower standards than the Japanese guys which are quite picky.

They think that being fat and ugly doesn't bother the gaijins which they think are in for any pussy.

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I think that being a white foreigner in Japan I can get girls that are not fat nor ugly. Which with my looks and wealth is totally not the situation if I was back in Europe.

All hail racial discrimination!
 
In my experience... you can get any kind of girl you want in Japan... super hot, average, ugly, fat, young, old... it doesn't matter.. only your level of pickiness is the limiting factor.... I see nice looking dudes with butt ugly girls and I see super hot J-girls with ugly dudes... it's about your level of confidence, income earning capability, and less we forget ability to please the woman (in many ways)...
I tend to go after the average to better looking because, if I am not attracted to her then what's the point... and they usually know they are not top pic for Japanese dudes... so they show more appreciation... if ya know what I mean... just don't marry them, cuz they will stop all the stuff you like :D... you know the phrase... why buy the cow if you get the milk for free... very true in Japan... :p just ask all the married dudes here on TAG that are in sexless marriages...:D
 
also dont forget that what japanese perceive as fat and ugly isnt what you
may perceive as fat and ugly... probably not even the next dude, no matter what nationality...

i agree with you on the no choice problem... if they really got no choice, i dont know... heard from enough women that they would date a foreigner, because no japanese dude would ever take them (the common age issue)... i just dont know if that is a bad thing, or it isnt...
complaining about that sounds like all the dudes that complain about asian women dating them because they are foreigners, while having severe yellow fever themselves (and often denying that maybe the asian mindset isnt the best choice for them, hence several breakups, divorces and so on)...

a friends wife even told him that when she was younger she wouldnt have thought about dating a foreigner, but when she hit 40, she thought different, because for years, the only japanese who were willing to date her have been at least 50... they are married and very happy at that (believe it, or not)... and literally all of my direct female friends here say after 40, forget it... which of course they dont, but they act like it...

i also dont think that they see white men as players... they more or less see it as anyone else, you come across as one, they think you are one, regardless nationality... of course it doesnt help mich that a lot actually do chase every skirt they see (except fat and/or old^^)...
 
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I'm under the impression that a lot of Japanese women choose foreigners not because they like them but because they have no other choice actually.
Replace the word foreigner with normal/plain/ugly guy and it’s really just the common issue of someone settling for less than they desire. At least they have that option else be forever alone, which some folks may not want.
They think that foreigners have lower standards than the Japanese guys which are quite picky.
Well, take a look around. Just like you see some asian girls with average or less than average foreign guys, I see a lot of foreign guys with average or less than average asian girls. Not just limited to Japanese either.
They think that being fat and ugly doesn't bother the gaijins which they think are in for any pussy.
Western standards for beauty are just different. The size that is considered ‘fat’ is just so different. Because of where I’m from, I have asian standards and sometimes I mention someone is too chunky for my tastes and then the other party will look at me confused and ask “wtf, you think she’s fat??!!!”

And as far as the gaijins in it for all the pussy. I blame the nampa gaijins. ;);)
 
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There's certainly an exotic foreigner bonus that gives a few extra points in perceived attractiveness. I'd say most Caucasian women in Japan are below average looking but they get a ton of attention, same goes for the guys. And it's true women can make some crazy decisions when they're desperate for marriage :ROFLMAO:

But you're probably just ranting because of your shitty results on OK Cupid ;) fact is 99% of beautiful girls have a line of men a mile long waiting to date them and will never be found online. Online dating is like panning for gold, massive effort for mediocre results but sometimes you can get lucky.
 
My Japanese girlfriends that date gaijins do so because they aren’t as attracted to
Japanese men. Honestly speaking Japanese guys aren’t known as being some of the best lovers in the world.
 
If I may, allow me to offer my honest insight as an American of Japanese ancestry who has lived just about everywhere and cares not about offending people with this broad generalization: White men have lower standards than East Asian men. White women in America have higher standards than their male counterparts, and Japanese women have much lower standards than white American women.

Every single day, I'll see some extremely handsome white guy here stateside--be it the GQ type, or rugged sun-tanned surfer type, or just plain good looking collegiate type--with a white woman I wouldn't fuck if you paid me. In that respect, it is extremely difficult to pick up a very attractive white woman stateside because they can basically have their pick of the litter. When I see a gorgeous blonde strolling through the mall, her arm is around fucking Brad Pitt or a guy with the equivalent bankroll and his car and watch definitely suggest it. Granted, in my youth on the west coast I scored with a number of fairly attractive white girls, but that's not because they found me physically attractive. Rather, their liberal white guilt made them relish chances to let minorities stick their cocks in them because they can therefore feel cultured and morally superior. Hey, I'm not above preying on people's need for social redemption.

Conversely, and every one one of us who has lived or traveled extensively in East Asia knows this: every single day you can walk down the street and see the most gorgeous Japanese woman walking with the most motherfucking-ugly Japanese sonofabitch ever. You see Japanese girls who could model with fat, disgusting, Kim Jong Un-looking turds, or weirdos, or creepy serial rapist queers in women's clothes and women's makeup. Yeah, I know a lot of those guys are simply wealthy...but that's not always the case.

Flip-side to that, I remember working in Japan when a new employee arrived at my office...tall, white, handsome, cornfed Brett Favre-looking American kid. Within a week in Japan he was banging two or three different girls a week, and he absolutely marveled at the fact that he could score such exquisite Japanese beauties. I mean, he was pulling consistent grade-A model quality girls, and he just couldn't believe it was possible. I also worked with some of the ugliest, douchebaggy-est white guys (usually Americans) and they, too, were stunned at the fact that they could actually get borderline pretty Japanese girls to date them. Back home I suspect many of them were virgins.

Most of the guys I worked and hung out with in Japan were white guys, be it American, British or Aussie. A couple of those guys were decent looking, a couple far better looking than myself and most, and yet they would settle for (and marry, in a few cases) some seriously mediocre to borderline gross Japanese women and they thought they'd hit the jackpot. And don't give me that shit about winning personalities. This is Japan.

Now, I come at this from the perspective of a Japanese AMERICAN who generally despises most of Japanese culture and finds Japanese men to be some of the most disgusting, effeminate, awkward, stunted, dickless queers I've ever encountered and it pains me to share genetics with them. I've met a few Japanese men who I genuinely respect and even defer to but they're very, very few and even farther between. But like all of you white guys out there, I discovered that Japan is a Never Never Land for deviants and degenerates where I can score way above my class, although not for the same reasons as most of you. You white boys get to clean up ass from the girls who either 1) also find Japanese men disgusting and want white cock, and/or 2) think that they've no more chance to marry a Japanese man and/or 3) want a green card. I'm an option for similar girls who want out of the country and a green card in the states but are still too racist to sleep with white men.

We all have roles to play. When opportunity knocks, pull your pants down and go with it.
 
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My Japanese girlfriends that date gaijins do so because they aren’t as attracted to
Japanese men. Honestly speaking Japanese guys aren’t known as being some of the best lovers in the world.

My other half is Japanese, prior to me she'd never dated a foreigner and, at our age, we're pretty honest with each other about our past--we've been around the block before. But I remember the first time I went down on her, when she was done howling and hyperventilating and stopped panting, the first thing she asked was: "WHERE DID YOU LEARN TO DO THAT?? HOW CAN YOU BE SO GOOD???"

Now, I know I'm not a world-class pussy eater. I'm ok, but I'm realistic about it.

My answer: "I'm not a real Japanese."
 
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My other half is Japanese, prior to me she'd never dated a foreigner and, at our age, we're pretty honest with each other about our past--we've been around the block before. But I remember the first time I went down on her, when she was done howling and hyperventilating and stopped panting, the first thing she asked was: "WHERE DID YOU LEARN TO DO THAT?? HOW CAN YOU BE SO GOOD???"

Now, I know I'm not a world-class pussy eater. I'm ok, but I'm realistic about it.

My answer: "I'm not a real Japanese."

LOL :ROFLMAO: well most of us here on TAG probably have a far higher sex drive and desire to improve our skills in bed than your average guy Japanese or otherwise ;) I've certainly heard my fair share of American girls bitching about guys doing 5 minutes of pumping then done. On the other hand Japanese condoms really are small, and size does matter :LOL:
 
You white boys get to clean up ass from the girls who either 1) also find Japanese men disgusting and want white cock

I think this must be a big part of the reason as I know several foreign guys here in Japan who are as ugly as I am and still have managed to score and marry Japanese girls several leagues above their own. The fact that almost all of them now after couple of kids are twice as beautiful as before, or at least double in weight, and have stopped having sex with their hubbies altogether is another thing.

But there is one more group of girls who date us white boys and it's girls who have lived abroad a couple of years and now are too straight talking for the Japanese guys. They have gotten a glimpse of the equality thing and won't silently take shit from anyone. And still to the Western eye they are quiet, well spoken and demure. But then again us Western guys do compare them with our own man-hating vegan social sciences studying feminists our universities are full of.
 
Don’t really buy into this punching above your weight shit.

With the SB market I can get a great chick who is hot, because I have money.

But I’ve also pulled kyaba girls half my age, hot girls bar lasses etc .

A lot of them just like being treated with respect and valued for who they are.

I ran my numbers for this year. Only had 1 p4p experience, 3sb, a couple of late night Chinese rub and tugs, but half have been freebees.

The thing with the freebies is , IME, you don’t score on the first night. You need to invest a little time.
 
since everyone goes off topic, my personal experience: by no means can you score
just because you are white... and i also dont really get what is above ones league...
i can tell you honestly i didnt score once and that wasnt for the lack of trying... with japanese women who speak english, been living abroad, blabla, its even worse...
no rant at all, i just dont know where those opinions are coming from...
 
I've certainly heard my fair share of American girls bitching about guys doing 5 minutes of pumping then done.
Ah, yes, hypocrisy is quite common among American white girls.

I remember a broadcast news piece that featured persons-on-the-street interviews after Viagra was approved.

I remember one grumpy feminist-looking white girl whining: “I’m not a piece of gym equipment.”
 
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Some thoughts that stuck with me today:

I'm under the impression that a lot of Japanese women choose foreigners not because they like them but because they have no other choice actually.

How did you form that impression? Is it based on the women you have met?

A woman with "no other choice" sounds extremely desperate. By "choose foreigners" I assume you mean "marry" them. I have met many JPN women who have lots going for them, and still chose to marry a foreigner. I can't think of anyone I have met who falls into the "no other choice" bracket.
 
im under the impression that a lot of Japanese women choose foreigners not because they like them but because they have no other choice actually.

That's old news. Especially the ones on western datingsites.

When I msg a 30-40 y/o they often surprised I'm interested in them. Because they know they are old (expired in japanese men eyes)

They either want a visa to escape Japan or want a foreigner because jpn guys are not interested in them.

As with any asian country a foreigner is always second choice.

Remember there is not only stigma on being old there is also negative stigma on women who are divorced so you cant really blame jwomen.
 
The thing with the freebies is , IME, you don’t score on the first night. You need to invest a little time.

So when you say freebie you actually mean only you did not give them money directly. Money was still involved somehow and you had to use other resources, like time too.

This year I have had two or three p4p sessions, maybe a dozen rub and tug and "a freebie" sessions with three different girls around 40 times total.

The freebie sessions have been the most expensive both money and effort wise. Also they have been much longer and way more fun than the other sessions but every time the girls have had more fun, at least numerically. :D

So these freebie sessions have been free only to the girls, and the p4p and other sessions have been cash flow positive to the girls involved in them. ;)
 
So when you say freebie you actually mean only you did not give them money directly. Money was still involved somehow and you had to use other resources, like time too.

This year I have had two or three p4p sessions, maybe a dozen rub and tug and "a freebie" sessions with three different girls around 40 times total.

The freebie sessions have been the most expensive both money and effort wise. Also they have been much longer and way more fun than the other sessions but every time the girls have had more fun, at least numerically. :D

So these freebie sessions have been free only to the girls, and the p4p and other sessions have been cash flow positive to the girls involved in them. ;)

In short, you get screwed. Literally and metaphorically :)
 
LOL :ROFLMAO: well most of us here on TAG probably have a far higher sex drive and desire to improve our skills in bed than your average guy Japanese or otherwise ;) I've certainly heard my fair share of American girls bitching about guys doing 5 minutes of pumping then done. On the other hand Japanese condoms really are small, and size does matter :LOL:

I tell you it's a sad state of affairs for the nation of Japan if even I find their condoms tight. Not too tight, mind you--I haven't strayed that far from my ancestral endowment parameters--but tight enough that after a night of dick-softening drinking I have to resort to the old Trojan Golds of my heyday.

Are you speaking of American girls who sleep with Japanese men and complain about the experience? I can't speak to the speed with which a true cousin-of-Tojo blows his load (I actually haven't had the experience of getting a Japanese guy off) but there is something I definitely noticed while living in Japan.

When I first arrived in-country I was most excited about two things: For the first time, I would be considered tall (I'm 5'8) and decently endowed. An hour after stepping off the plane I realized that NO, I'm not tall in this country. A good number of the girls around me were my height or even a little taller. And then after joining Konami Sports Club and the experiencing the locker and bath, I realized something even more unpleasant: I was still nowhere near impressively endowed. Far from it.

I mean, like everyone else I grew up watching Japanese porn and even the ubiquitous mosaic couldn't mask the fact that these men had 3-inch hard-ons. And most of the old timers in the gym, if not for their foreskins dropping out they'd probably have vaginas. But after going to the more popular onsens with a younger crowd, I noticed a horrifying pattern--a lot of the young guys had fucking DONGS, particularly the taller, lanky types. Obviously, I have no idea how they measure up when erect (again, never got a Japanese guy off), but a lot of these young guys are like 5-inches limp. That's Caucasian territory. That's not supposed to happen anywhere in Asia, particularly Japan. How the hell does that happen? Maybe they grew up next to a reactor in Fukushima, or in downtown Hiroshima?

On the bright side, lots of Korean tourists at the onsen now and it's great to see the men are all still armed with the legendary kimchee pindick. No wonder the therapists in Gotanda never laugh at me.
 
@Keihan Chikan you have a good turn of phrase. I’m sure you could get something published if you were that way inclined.

I've actually had articles published before, but they've been for my other "job" and as civilized as can be in that profession. Even if I could find someone stupid enough to publish even a tenth of what I've written here, I'd likely find myself single, unemployed and ostracized (and with one less friend when he finds out what I did with his sister's panties back in 1994) before the week was over. And not just for the stuff about having girls stick things up my ass, drunkenly masturbating to streaming shemale porn or watching old Chinese women urinate and them paying them for sex.

I simply lack the talent, creativity and resolve to try becoming the slant-eyed Hunter Thompson.
 
I simply lack the talent, creativity and resolve to try becoming the slant-eyed Hunter Thompson.

And even he would have a hard time making money writing books nowadays. It's the globalisation bitches, only very few people make money in anything now (and boy do they make money) but everyone else gets nothing.
 
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...but a lot of these young guys are like 5-inches limp. That's Caucasian territory. ....

I wouldn't judge someone's endowment at limp state.

Some guys are big but not that big when erected and others (like me for instance) are quite small but quite big when erected so ....
 
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Going back to the topic of dating Japanese girls.... I put the girls I meet in two categories: 1. Rough looking. 2. Decent looking.

The strange thing is that the creatures from the the ‘rough’ category have in the past been much more likely to have rejected, ghosted or blanked me in someway. The ratio of getting action with the attractive ones is much higher.

It should be the opposite case. As the rough looking ones should be begging for male attrention. And the good looking ones can be more picky.

Anyway, it works out well for me. As I wouldn’t even stick @Frenchy ’s dick in some of the horror stories I have met, let alone my own.