That’s actually something I totally understand and long for ...
When you get to a certain age (cough cough) the « boom boom » sex is not really what you want/need. For me (or, to be clear, for my neurotic dick) it even came to the point where I can have full-on FS sex only with ladies who are not necessarily the younger, sexy ones but the ones who truely WANT it with me. Like there is some kind of weirdo P4P fluid in my dick now telling to my brain (or vice-versa) « This one wants to get paid but also truely wants to get and give a good fuck irrespective of your wallet size ».
So this is how I got to get better sex and orgasms with 40+ MILFs than 20+ hotties.
But bear with me...
I still like to meet the 20+ hotties though, but I don´t need (or, to be honest, can’t) get the full-on Olympic sex with them.
So my advice would be to find girls on SA or even indies here who are ok for the « light » option but at a discounted price. After all why should we pay the same as young studs with rock-hard dicks pumping for 2 hours with multiple pops? Its not fair, right?
There are oppai bars or HE massage places that can provide this for a fraction of the FS price and that’s OK (and thats what I love about Japan P4P by the way... the variety of prices and experiences)