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Tinder : The Dating App (short Review)

I too ditched Tinder a month ago and I never gave them my money.
Until the end there were still lots of real girls but all of them sucked anyway.
"I want to have a kids!"
"Teach me English!"
"I'm too afraid to meet anytime soon!"
"Can we meet in 30 days?"
etc...
 
My experience.
1 they want affirmation guys think they are pretty
2 they want date boyfriend or husband
3 they want entertaining clever conversation

4 ok right now for 2 days and i mean almost all day and night there is a girl who claims to be 18 vietnamese. I am not sure if she is a pro but why would someone waste that many hoirs when she could have been making money. I almoat immediately ask for her Line so i can send photos of my dog. Yes that is the strategy. Get them in private like you would in a bar. Now no hesitation in giving me her phone number not even Line id so I could find her even though i gave her my Line ID
Still with me. She is just messaged me after her shower.
She wants to meet me tonight. Just met yesterday on Tinder.
Oh yah im 45. She told me shes reading Lolita and has a fetish for older guys and is a virgin. Red flag? Or just being a tease. The rest of her life seems very ordinary includibg her part time job photos of apartment etc. If shes playing me or he is playing me she is really good at it and her fetish is fucking with old mens heads.
Im having a blast and its extremely etchy talk better than in most bars.

Lines like:
it hasnt open for anyone yet (referring to being a virgin in broken english)
tmr im gonna wear a short skirt bc a old woman in my work place saidim young so dont wear a long skirt like today lol
i will do my hair 2 braids today lol

Ill meet her after work near where she lives but she already told me I cant come to her place.

Thats the ultimate question for me to check if a girl is really into me and wants sex for sure. Getting into her apartment.

Anyway to be continued. Maybe she wont even show. Nothing to loose except train fare and my ego.
 
I finally tried this app,
downloaded it last thursday night,
got some matches
little and short chat with all but one who seemed interested on meeting
was supposed to meet her on friday
met her on Saturday with a friend of mine (a girl) I met in the train
she looked better than her photos
my friend helped breaking the ice
we all went home and had drinks and laughters
when my friend decided to leave the tinder girl decided to stay :D
I didn't use tinder much after that but recommended, may repeat :LOL:
 
I have been using Tinder for a month or so. Not very effective or efficient - though my profile does not contain a pic and discloses I am married

Huh?? You do realize Tinder is 99% based on your photo. You can't really say it's inefficient when you aren't using it correctly.

My new car is rubbish - I don't put any petrol in it though ;-)
 
Tinder is great. After matching a bunch of girls and most of them just wanting a pen pal. One girl who shared a lot of common interests made a dinner date. It was a nice date then we went back to my place and fucked like rabbits. So much better than P4P. The thing I liked about this girl is that I confessed that I was married and she didn't give a shit. She actually liked it cause less chance of me wanting to get serious w her.

Unfortunately, I'm only here temporary and I gotta return to the family life in NY. Can't date in NY so I'll be back to mongering
 
I'm re considering my post above.. I think maybe some of my dates would have been interested in some sexy times but I didn't have the game / mindset to make it happen ... I'm getting a little better in that regard now..
 
I'm re considering my post above.. I think maybe some of my dates would have been interested in some sexy times but I didn't have the game / mindset to make it happen ... I'm getting a little better in that regard now..

There is a NAMPA/PUA section here to get you up to speed and help out.
 
I met lots of nice people with it but none who seemed likely to be interested in a casual sex type thing, more serious women looking for committed relationships

I've only slept with one woman who I met online (skout), she was very nice and cute, but gave me a UTI (she used my member to masturbate with before i put the condom on - doh!) and then stopped contacting me :(.. Its put me off random hook ups tbh..

we were on off chatting for like 6 weeks so kind of surprised we made it happen

A lot of women will hide or lie about their true intentions in regards to sex because they fear being negatively judged by you or other people (sometimes being way too paranoid). Some women (and men) are also way too sexually repressed due to how they are raised, where sexuality or sexual honesty is very difficult for them. Few women are going to scream at a guy and say, "Let's go fuck now!". Often women are subtle and coy about it, some way too much so.

The "art and science" in figuring out if a woman who is playing coy has any sexual interest in you, is the guy creating the situation where sex is possible and intelligently pressing the situation towards a sexual conclusion. If you take her on a date where sex is near impossible and never make any moves or suggestions, then most likely nothing is going to happen. If you take her on a date near a hotel or your apartment, and attempt to slow dance or kiss her (among many methods), it's more likely that it will become clear if she is or isn't sexually interested in you.
 
So... just a 'hypothetical' question....
Let's say if ummm someone didn't want to use tinder for dating and really did want to practice English or help practice English... would it be feasible to find someone there?
 
So... just a 'hypothetical' question....
Let's say if ummm someone didn't want to use tinder for dating and really did want to practice English or help practice English... would it be feasible to find someone there?

Possibly but it's definitely a strange platform for that. There are a lot of Japanese people who don't know what Tinder is for though from my personal experience.
 
I had an interesting Tinder experience. This was a year or so ago. I connected with a girl who did not really look Japanese and we agreed to meet. She told me to meet her at the McDonald's in Roppongi Hills. So I am waiting there and it is pretty quiet. About 10pm. I notice this gaijin there and he is talking to the guy cleaning the tables about this girl he is going to meet. He is being pretty loud about it and kind of obnoxious. He keeps going on about her and mentions she is late but he is sure she is going to show up.
It is getting late and the girl I was meeting was also late. I message her and she says please wait.
I overhear the gaijin say his girl messaged him and told him to wait. I start thinking this is too weird. The gaijin is showing the mise no hito a foto of his girl on his phone saying how he met her online. I mosy over and glance at his phone and its the same girl! She has both of waiting for her at the same spot and time!
I pull up the foto of her on my phone and show it to him. He seems un phased. I say I am meeting her too. She is 45 min late and by this time I am ready to split. I tell him he can have her and good luck. He assures me it is ok to wait together and I figure at least this will be interesting. Apparently he spent the evening with her previously and was sure they had a connection.
She shows up and wants to go to a club. We walk to the club and go downstairs and I have a bad feeling about it and decide to leave. She wants someone to buy her a drink and I am like "no thanks see you later". I say I am leaving and my buddy wants to go too. She is upset that we are leaving and follows us out. My buddy is torn between staying and leaving. She is begging us to stay. I say "I'm leaving" and go. My buddy follows me and she stays at the club. I explain to him as we are walking that this is Roppongi and she is probably not what he thinks she is. We get to the main drag and I go left and he goes right. I say "good luck". He probably made a u-turn back to the club.
BTW I still scan Tinder and she is still there.
 
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I had an interesting Tinder experience. This was a year or so ago. I connected with a girl who did not really look Japanese and we agreed to meet. She told me to meet her at the McDonald's in Roppongi Hills. So I am waiting there and it is pretty quiet. About 10pm. I notice this gaijin there and he is talking to the guy cleaning the tables about this girl he is going to meet. He is being pretty loud about it and kind of obnoxious. He keeps going on about her and mentions she is late but he is sure she is going to show up.
It is getting late and the girl I was meeting was also late. I message her and she says please wait.
I overhear the gaijin say his girl messaged him and told him to wait. I start thinking this is too weird. The gaijin is showing the mise no hito a foto of his girl on his phone saying how he met her online. I mosy over and glance at his phone and its the same girl! She has both of waiting for her at the same spot and time!
I pull up the foto of her on my phone and show it to him. He seems un phased. I say I am meeting her too. She is 45 min late and by this time I am ready to split. I tell him he can have her and good luck. He assures me it is ok to wait together and I figure at least this will be interesting. Apparently he spent the evening with her previously and was sure they had a connection.
She shows up and wants to go to a club. We walk to the club and go downstairs and I have a bad feeling about it and decide to leave. She wants someone to buy her a drink and I am like "no thanks see you later". I say I am leaving and my buddy wants to go too. She is upset that we are leaving and follows us out. My buddy is torn between staying and leaving. She is begging us to stay. I say "I'm leaving" and go. My buddy follows me and she stays at the club. I explain to him as we are walking that this is Roppongi and she is probably not what he thinks she is. We get to the main drag and I go left and he goes right. I say "good luck". He probably made a u-turn back to the club.
BTW I still scan Tinder and she is still there.

Wow.... She went fishing for clients on Tinder to bring to her job.

I really need to turn my Tinder back on and see what's happening in that world, just for kicks.

Thanks for that story! We already knew that escorts were using it, I guess this isn't too far off the same path.
 
I jumped on Tinder a little late in my Japan trip
matched with like 3 girls, all of which I said greetings to, 2 no responses, 1 response and unmatch lol...

back in the states and tinder is back to being boring again
 
How does privacy work with Tinder? I saw that you have to log in with your Facebook account. Does not seem too safe.

And I guess if your SO spotted you on Tinder, you would be in trouble. Of course if he or she had it installed, that would be a story as well. :)
 
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saw that you have to log in with your Facebook account. Does not seem too safe.
It requires your Facebook login and it pulls pictures from Facebook as well.

And I guess if your SO spotted you on Tinder, you would be in trouble. Of course if he or she had it installed, that would be a story as well.
Didn't happen to me but I did find people on Tinder that I knew, even one from where I work.
 
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Wow.... She went fishing for clients on Tinder to bring to her job.

I really need to turn my Tinder back on and see what's happening in that world, just for kicks.

Thanks for that story! We already knew that escorts were using it, I guess this isn't too far off the same path.


In Thailand there is a little bit of everything on Tinder. Girls looking for relationships, escorts, massage girls, bar owners, bar girls, and freelance bar girls.

A freelance bar girl is what I'm calling a girl who isn't a prostitute but gets a percentage of your bar tab. She will sleep with you if she likes you, but chances are she will suggest every place you go to, and probably gets a cut of your tab.

Be wary of any gal you meet on Tinder in Thailand who takes you to a bar to shoot pool. You'll have fun, but eventually you'll be playing pool with the bar owner for rounds of drinks for the house.

Not that much of a scam, but it stings a little when you see your "date" for the evening collect her cut of your tab.

They will usually obscure this, but if you are paying attention at the right time you'll see it.

I only got wise to it when I won a couple of games that I was supposed to lose, she was visibly disappointed whenever I sank a difficult shot.
 
How in the hell did Peter learn about Tinder before Quagmire found out about it.

Anyway, that is what made it so funny.

Plus, swiping right without even looking.

Quagmire's swipe finger gnawing to the bone... I'm glad I can see FG through ITV Hub.