Sorry for the long post, I thought I would make it shorter. /
Usually staying in Tokyo, I'll spend a few days in Fukuoka for the first time this weekend.
I have a lunch and afternoon date with a girl I had met once a couple of years ago after a flight, with whom we've stayed in touch here and there, and I'll be free the other days.
The girl sounds very happy to see me, offered herself to guide me in Fukuoka with a lot of enthusiasm, and at some point asked if I was coming alone, so it seems like a good start.
She recently said she had a plan in the evening, and suggested to meet from 1PM with a nice lunch instead of from 3PM as I suggested (I thought it would be afternoon-dinner), and I think from there we'll have a walk in the city.
So first, about this girl it will be a one-day trial, and assuming it goes well I'm less comfortable with taking a girl to a hotel room in the afternoon than at home at night, so if you have tips of does and don'ts I'll be glad to hear them.
Besides being a real cutie, from talking with her I also came to think that she really sounds like a kind person, which also means, with my still-western mind, that I feel less comfortable to propose her a hotel or my room in full daytime after a starbucks.
I'm comfortable with kissing, but this off/on switch to a sex space without a kiss is still not natural to me.
Should you propose to go there, should you just walk her to the love hotel and say どうぞ showing her the entrance, or should you just say hey, my air bnb is next street, let's go chill with music and drink (this one is easy, so I'll probably go for something like this if we're around, the love hotel part if we're far gives me more hard time)…
What is both efficient and within the realm of a gentlemen's manner, and that won't make her feel like I'm seeing her as a slut, is still quite mystery to me.
So if you have thoughts about this, I will gladly hear them.
And other than that, that was the original question of my post, I'll be in Hakata, do you have some recommended bars or izakayas with a cool and chill friendly atmosphere (my comfort zone) that could make it natural to engage a conversation with a girl and if it goes well take her at home?
Any particular things about Fukuoka girls that would differ from Tokyo girls about that matter?
Thanks very much in advance!
Usually staying in Tokyo, I'll spend a few days in Fukuoka for the first time this weekend.
I have a lunch and afternoon date with a girl I had met once a couple of years ago after a flight, with whom we've stayed in touch here and there, and I'll be free the other days.
The girl sounds very happy to see me, offered herself to guide me in Fukuoka with a lot of enthusiasm, and at some point asked if I was coming alone, so it seems like a good start.
She recently said she had a plan in the evening, and suggested to meet from 1PM with a nice lunch instead of from 3PM as I suggested (I thought it would be afternoon-dinner), and I think from there we'll have a walk in the city.
So first, about this girl it will be a one-day trial, and assuming it goes well I'm less comfortable with taking a girl to a hotel room in the afternoon than at home at night, so if you have tips of does and don'ts I'll be glad to hear them.
Besides being a real cutie, from talking with her I also came to think that she really sounds like a kind person, which also means, with my still-western mind, that I feel less comfortable to propose her a hotel or my room in full daytime after a starbucks.
I'm comfortable with kissing, but this off/on switch to a sex space without a kiss is still not natural to me.
Should you propose to go there, should you just walk her to the love hotel and say どうぞ showing her the entrance, or should you just say hey, my air bnb is next street, let's go chill with music and drink (this one is easy, so I'll probably go for something like this if we're around, the love hotel part if we're far gives me more hard time)…
What is both efficient and within the realm of a gentlemen's manner, and that won't make her feel like I'm seeing her as a slut, is still quite mystery to me.
So if you have thoughts about this, I will gladly hear them.
And other than that, that was the original question of my post, I'll be in Hakata, do you have some recommended bars or izakayas with a cool and chill friendly atmosphere (my comfort zone) that could make it natural to engage a conversation with a girl and if it goes well take her at home?
Any particular things about Fukuoka girls that would differ from Tokyo girls about that matter?
Thanks very much in advance!