Tips for you Non-Japanese Guys

[Karen]

You guys in Japan that want to hook-up with J-girls, listen up!

During our girls-only night this past Saturday, we brought up the #1 topic we always get stuck on, men. Surprised? You shouldn't be! Here is a few things that came out of that discussion that I think it would nice to point out!

1) Yes, many Japanese girls are still quite immature, even for being in their late twenties. It is a travesty and I just advise you to steer clear of these types who will eventually cling to your wallet and your life.

2) For both mature and immature Japanese ladies: They don't care about your d*ck size. Ok? They hate guys who are so proud of their 'stuff' but usually can't fit Asian women, because its too big. (And it hurts!) This is near the top of the list for some girls. You average guys, they love you... not too big and not too small.

3) Biting/Twisting nipples! NO! If a girl says it hurts, it hurts! Unless she's into S&M that involves pain, when she says it hurts, STOP. It's a turn off and you already know some J-Girls have a hard time saying "No." So, man up and learn where the limits are!

4) Want to pick up a classy, J-girl that's worth your time? Learn Japanese! HINT: A number of Japanese ladies will pretend they don't understand English so they can later figure out what the guys are really after or what they are really saying about them. So many of you guys don't consider that when vying for the attention of a nice J-girl. Some girls don't understand English at all and some can listen and understand very detailed conversations!

5) Don't disrespect their culture. Some girls are much more modern than others, however, even the more modern girls still respect their heritage and culture. Don't be insensitive to that point...

Lastly... Some girls give other girls a very bad reputation, use common sense. Use that head of yours that is elevated above your waistline. Ok?

These are just a few small tips. I'm sure you want to flame me, please do.

Much <3

 

[TokyoSpirit]

Don't be so harsh! >.>

I will have to remember #4! Never considered that! Then again, most of the ladies I have been out with usually know me already and I know what they can or can't understand. I do prefer educated girls that have a sense of the world that lies outside of Japan. The girls who haven't spent anytime abroad are clueless most of the time. (IMHO)

 

[Kias]

Not sure if I should reply or run away from this thread! I'm new here so, I'll tread lightly!

I try to treat the girls with respect, sometimes I don't feel that I get the same in return. It almost feels like I'm just a plaything for some J-Women I've dated in the past. I think you can apply those same points to a woman as well, don't make it so male centric!

Just my opinion though, don't ban me Karen!

 

[Karen]

Just my opinion though, don't ban me Karen!

That would be censorship! This is after all a 'discussion forum' not a 'dictator' forum! I agree with your post, respect should be mutual, I do agree that it can played unfairly by both of the sexes. Maybe because I'm a woman, my views are a little biased but men are usually much more aggressive that women in general.

Now, what I will say is I believe that there are some who have forgotten how to be a woman, they want to compete with men too much so they become more like a man. Have you noticed the women in Japan vs. women in other countries such as America and the U.K.? Don't you think those women have gotten to be too casual? I have two American guy friends who have told me that they do prefer the more dressy Japanese ladies as opposed to the more casual ladies from the aforementioned countries. I can see his point, but every guy has different tastes and some of them like those really causal women.

Well, now I'm rambling. I'll stop here.

 

[TAG Manager]

Stuff you wrote...

You can put me in the category of men who like classy ladies who know how to dress. Women who are too casual, everyday, are a turn off. That's a fact, Jack!

 

[Karen]

You can put me in the category of men who like classy ladies who know how to dress. Women who are too casual, everyday, are a turn off. That's a fact, Jack!

As a woman, I agree with the dressy parts. But remember, women aren't always dressing for you men to gawk over, women dress to compete with other women! (Strange, I know, but that's the way it is.) Although, I don't compete as much as my J-girlfriends do, I just don't have the money to keep up with them!

On the other hand, I'm not a slob either!

 

[TAG Manager]

I forgot about this thread!

Don't ruin my image, the girls dress to impress me! (and other guys for that matter) I get to see good looking ladies around my office all day.

 

[Xeryu]

I forgot about this thread!

Don't ruin my image, the girls dress to impress me! (and other guys for that matter) I get to see good looking ladies around my office all day.

i don't care who they dress for, as long as I can look at the good looking ladies around where I work, i'm happy. spring time will roll around and the ladies will lose those extra winter clothes once again.

 

[Mark.B]

Ditto.

Tokyo is the mecca of cute and I love those women that are cute but look sophisticated at the same time. I'm talking about the ladies you see around Tokyo station or Nihonbashi area.

 

[Karen]

Did you lose an eye for western women too? Or do you like to have variety?

So many men here (in Tokyo) avoid western women. It's really hard for a western girl like myself to find a decent boyfriend. Well, I have one now, but before it was really difficult. Japanese guys are not my thing; too shy all the time.

I might as well turn lesbian, I'd probably get more attention.