I am 18, my friend is 16. We are both Japanese, but my friend speaks terrible Japanese (We are both Americans) but I speak fluent Japanese. Ever since he heard of soaplands, he is begging me to go with him to one. I'm not really sure. I've never been to a soapland, and my friend necessarily doesnt look over 18. He's also a virgin, so I don't feel it's right for him to lose it at a soapland. What should I say as his friend? I might end up taking him to a soapland, I mean, I don't see anything harmful about it.