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Wassup guys, new to this, this might sound sad as shit but hear me out. Currently been talking to a shorty overseas, doesn’t know I haven’t been with anyone yet. (I’m solid looking and workout religiously but I have been focusing on school and haven’t really thought it out until now). This is my first time in Japan all by myself, I want to get as much experience as I can, I am thinking of trying tinder but I am not sure if have zero body count is considered unattractive here as it is in America, I was looking at everything listed and escorts and such are out of my budget, I also don’t speak any Japanese, came here as an impulse and a break from life. Any suggestions? (Remember broke college student)
Edit: Im 21 years old
 
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Try a place like Asian Feeling or Asian Relax in Kabukicho. Good bang for your buck.
Jan Jan or another pink salon my be an enjoyable quick hitter.
Plenty of reviews of those places here in TAG.
 
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Try a place like Asian Feeling or Asian Relax in Kabukicho. Good bang for your buck.
Jan Jan or another pink salon my be an enjoyable quick hitter.
Plenty of reviews of those places here in TAG.
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Sounds good, couldnt find too many recent bar reccomendations, by the way I also am still uncomfortable taking trains, should i just walk?
 
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I have been focusing on school
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Have you tried hanging out with your classmates?

wtfpker said:
I am thinking of trying tinder but I am not sure if have zero body count is considered unattractive here as it is in America, I was looking at everything listed and escorts and such are out of my budget, I also don’t speak any Japanese, came here as an impulse and a break from life. Any suggestions? (Remember broke college student)
Edit: Im 21 years old
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Have you tried conversation exchange?
 
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by the way I also am still uncomfortable taking trains, should i just walk?
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Uhm...why? I'd understand that during the morning rush hour it can be a b*>ch.
if you want to walk to and from your destination will be up to you
 
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Have you tried hanging out with your classmates?


Have you tried conversation exchange?
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I go to school in America, im in Tokyo completely solo, Ive talked to a few locals but just to get directions.
 
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I go to school in America, im in Tokyo completely solo, Ive talked to a few locals but just to get directions.
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You are here for 6 months as an exchange student? Why not spend time with your classmates after classes?
 
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If you can’t speak Japanese, try hitting up some nightclubs or bars in Roppongi. A lot of the Japanese girls speak English and there are plenty of foreign girls, too. Just remember to watch your drink, don’t go to clubs/bars without online reviews, and don’t make eye contact or talk to the African club/bar promoters on the street (most of them are scammers or work for very shady businesses). I see a lot of single guys go to Roppongi alone, especially on Thurs/Fri/Sat, so it shouldn’t feel too awkward or weird.

Besides Roppongi, there’s also Shibuya. It’s a much safer area (when it comes to shady businesses or scams) and has less foreigners if you want a more local experience. I recommend TK Shibuya if you’re into EDM and Harlem if you like hip-hop/R&B. I personally don’t like Gas Panic as it’s so crowded, but it’s another popular spot for people in their early/mid 20’s.
 
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wtfpker said:
im in tokyo for like 10 days.
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well, then I suggest you just go around and enjoy the sights of this city.

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and don’t make eye contact or talk to the African club/bar promoters on the street (most of them are scammers or work for very shady businesses)
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Just be careful of touts, like what hana said.
 
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MissInsomnia said:
If you can’t speak Japanese, try hitting up some nightclubs or bars in Roppongi. A lot of the Japanese girls speak English and there are plenty of foreign girls, too. Just remember to watch your drink, don’t go to clubs/bars without online reviews, and don’t make eye contact or talk to the African club/bar promoters on the street (most of them are scammers or work for very shady businesses). I see a lot of single guys go to Roppongi alone, especially on Thurs/Fri/Sat, so it shouldn’t feel too awkward or weird.

Besides Roppongi, there’s also Shibuya. It’s a much safer area (when it comes to shady businesses or scams) and has less foreigners if you want a more local experience. I recommend TK Shibuya if you’re into EDM and Harlem if you like hip-hop/R&B. I personally don’t like Gas Panic as it’s so crowded, but it’s another popular spot for people in their early/mid 20’s.
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Sounds like a plan, I saw some old posts about gas panic I didn’t know it was still packed, I will definitely go to both areas in shibuya and then roppongi when i feel slightly more comfortable, thanks hana
 
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My advice, since you're only going to be here for 10 days, is just to go out as much as possible and try to befriend other foreigners who speak English. The community of foreigners in their 20s in shibuya is surprisingly small from what I've learned, and they all kind of go to the same places (vision, tunnel, oath, contact, womb, circus, unit). Make friends just walking about during the day and mention you would like to go out and just join a group or go by yourself on Friday / Saturday.

Just be sweet while trying to talk to girls and try to make them laugh. Bring condoms, and if something should happen you can mention its your first time and I'm pretty sure it won't be an issue. I know I have no problem having sex with virgins and look at it as a great opportunity to teach and take the reins a little bit. The girl you ideally want to lose your virginity to won't be turned off by it, and will just look at it as an experience that will, by default, be memorable. Virginity is really not a big deal, society makes us think about it as something we give or lose, but I think it's more about gaining a certain experience. Having sex won't change your core, all you will have done is had sex.

I hope that helps to take some of the pressure off.
 
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TinyNymph said:
My advice, since you're only going to be here for 10 days, is just to go out as much as possible and try to befriend other foreigners who speak English. The community of foreigners in their 20s in shibuya is surprisingly small from what I've learned, and they all kind of go to the same places (vision, tunnel, oath, contact, womb, circus, unit). Make friends just walking about during the day and mention you would like to go out and just join a group or go by yourself on Friday / Saturday.

Just be sweet while trying to talk to girls and try to make them laugh. Bring condoms, and if something should happen you can mention its your first time and I'm pretty sure it won't be an issue. I know I have no problem having sex with virgins and look at it as a great opportunity to teach and take the reins a little bit. The girl you ideally want to lose your virginity to won't be turned off by it, and will just look at it as an experience that will, by default, be memorable. Virginity is really not a big deal, society makes us think about it as something we give or lose, but I think it's more about gaining a certain experience. Having sex won't change your core, all you will have done is had sex.

I hope that helps to take some of the pressure off.
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I’ve only spent my first day here in ueno, had some trouble with my accomodation and luggage cause of a late flight so Im staying at an interner cafe for now. I walked around for a few hours and met only locals, any good spots you reccomend to meet people?
 
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I’ve only spent my first day here in ueno, had some trouble with my accomodation and luggage cause of a late flight so Im staying at an interner cafe for now. I walked around for a few hours and met only locals, any good spots you reccomend to meet people?
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Coffee shops are great places to meet foreigners, I've met a few at my favourite clothing stores and will just compliment something I like that they are wearing to break the ice. Also, most art exhibits and museums have interesting people to meet. I guess it depends on what you like to do, go to places that interest you and you're sure to meet like minded people. For bars, I would recommend tunnel, it's full of young, hip foreigners who are looking to socialize. My best friendships have been made in daylight just walking around the city, although I'm not sure if 10 days would give you enough opportunity for a chance meeting like that to occur.
 
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TinyNymph said:
Coffee shops are great places to meet foreigners, I've met a few at my favourite clothing stores and will just compliment something I like that they are wearing to break the ice. Also, most art exhibits and museums have interesting people to meet. I guess it depends on what you like to do, go to places that interest you and you're sure to meet like minded people. For bars, I would recommend tunnel, it's full of young, hip foreigners who are looking to socialize. My best friendships have been made in daylight just walking around the city, although I'm not sure if 10 days would give you enough opportunity for a chance meeting like that to occur.
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Will definitely give that place a shot, yeah i wish I could stay longer, I gotta get back to work after this, will probably try to stay a month next summer, been enjoying myself even though Im struggling to move around, thanks again
 
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TinyNymph said:
Coffee shops are great places to meet foreigners, I've met a few at my favourite clothing stores and will just compliment something I like that they are wearing to break the ice. Also, most art exhibits and museums have interesting people to meet. I guess it depends on what you like to do, go to places that interest you and you're sure to meet like minded people. For bars, I would recommend tunnel, it's full of young, hip foreigners who are looking to socialize. My best friendships have been made in daylight just walking around the city, although I'm not sure if 10 days would give you enough opportunity for a chance meeting like that to occur.
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Is that Aoyama tunnel?
 
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TinyNymph said:
Coffee shops are great places to meet foreigners, I've met a few at my favourite clothing stores and will just compliment something I like that they are wearing to break the ice. Also, most art exhibits and museums have interesting people to meet. I guess it depends on what you like to do, go to places that interest you and you're sure to meet like minded people.

My best friendships have been made in daylight just walking around the city, .
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Bless you, @TinyNymph.
That is exactly the right approach to take when visiting a new city or town overseas for the first time.
It’s a mindset that has also helped me in my travels. Cheers!
 
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Tkoadventure said:
Try a place like Asian Feeling or Asian Relax in Kabukicho. Good bang for your buck.
Jan Jan or another pink salon my be an enjoyable quick hitter.
Plenty of reviews of those places here in TAG.
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All those places have women who are like twice his age..
Maybe a place like cocomelo or even strawberry jam would be more fit.
 
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