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I wonder if this is the longest of the many threads on TAG started by a virgin guy coming to Tokyo and asking for advice about getting laid for the first time. I'd guess it is at least in contention.

I am just afraid this is but a sign of what is coming. For some reason it seems that Tokyo is now the place to come to lose your virginity.

And why not, it is always best to it somewhere where you don't speak the language, cannot navigate the transit systems and don't have any clue how to interact with the locals, right? :p
 
Why do virgin guys come to Tokyo to get laid for the first time?

I don't know why but I thing I know how. Reading the earlier threads it makes me believe their moms escorted them to the plane and buckled their seat belts.
 
I really can't follow your train of thought which makes me wonder if there is one. If you pay to humiliate someone that's not bad; if that is in the offer. If you pay someone for something else and then proceed to humiliate him/her yeah, that's bad but the paying part doesn't make any difference in here.

And if you want to be humiliated and someone likes to do that, nothing bad there either. Again no difference if money is involved or not. It's about the thing called consensual.
Preach. The only thing i can think of is that for some people sex = humiliation (especially humiliating to the girl) but thats not everyone’s view on sex.
 
I think it might have something to do with them not being socially successful in their home environment. They can come here and have safe, clean sex in a non-threatening yet completely foreign environment where there is no possibility or expectation that they would have to relate in any way to anyone.
 
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For some reason it seems that Tokyo is now the place to come to lose your virginity.

And why not, it is always best to it somewhere where you don't speak the language, cannot navigate the transit systems and don't have any clue how to interact with the locals, right? :p

:ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

Maybe these are the same guys who, back in their school days, were only willing to go out with the most desirable, popular and selective girl in their class and so ignored all the others but who were also too intimidated to speak to her. Tokyo probably looks like a good choice to them.

-Ww
 
Preach. The only thing i can think of is that for some people sex = humiliation (especially humiliating to the girl) but thats not everyone’s view on sex.
All human interaction has an element of power to it. Including sex. Especially sex. Either dominate or be dominated. It is in our DNA. Serotonin is released when we dominate. It makes us feel good. Maybe some men feel good being dominated because they have deep feelings of guilt that they don’t understand. They want to fuck thier mothers and kill their fathers. They feel bad about it so they pay a dominatrix to skewer their balls with a stiletto heel.
 
:ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

Maybe these are the same guys who, back in their school days, were only willing to go out with the most desirable, popular and selective girl in their class and so ignored all the others but who were also too intimidated to speak to her. Tokyo probably looks like a good choice to them.

-Ww
Damnit you got me LOL, I was able to talk to them though, but did not play my cards right.
 
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I don't know why but I thing I know how. Reading the earlier threads it makes me believe their moms escorted them to the plane and buckled their seat belts.
Family is huge in my culture but I also live in America so i had to be more independent, at 21 now I kind of forced myself to do more things by myself. This trip to tokyo I booked on a whimb, I got really sick of going to school everyday and dedicating every hour to it and when i did not have school I just worked nonstop, I needed a break and said fuck it and bought a trip out of impulse, I grew up as a fat kid who liked anime and japnese food and even though I got rid of that personality because Im shallow, I still wanted to live out one of my childhood dreams.
 
I used to waste a lot of time and energy focusing and dedicating to one girl at a time. I would get almost depressed for months once things didn’t work out even though I was the one who shot myself in the foot. I just focused on school and working out to really self reflect on what was going on and what I can do to make myself better as a person. I gave away good chances just because I wanted the fish that was slightly bigger just so i can show off.
I think of everything as a learning experience and I try to be honest with everyone and myself but beinf a virgin in America is tough, especially at 21 when people lost their card at around 16.
Once I got over the fact I was being a little bitch over some females I wasted my time on, I decided to give dating another chance like 8 months ago. I have been having substantially more success, just haven’t closed the deal; trying to be patient with myself.
 
@wtfpker - Your string of posts just above indicate so much self-awareness, common sense (which is uncommon) and maturity (uncommon in men) that I'm pretty confident that things will work out well for you in your sex life and in general. Hang in there and enjoy the ride!

-Ww
 
Great analogy.

I hate fishing. Nobody could pay me or suck my dick to make me do that again. And I've never seen anybody catch a fish anywhere near as nice as the fish at the shop two minutes from my front doo
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Somewhere off the Mariana Trench Fighting a large bill fish for hours and until your arms and back are exploding, and then sinking the gaff into the beast and dragging it over the transom into the boat....blood everywhere, everyone screaming. Or you could go buy a little square of fish in a plastic container and pay 690yen.
 
just haven’t closed the deal; trying to be patient with myself.
One pro tip that comes directly from the world of Sales (as a profession) - always ask for the sale.

At some point you have to ask. Don't be rude or crass, but find a way to ask for what you want. Don't walk away from any deal without asking.
 
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Somewhere off the Mariana Trench Fighting a large bill fish for hours and until your arms and back are exploding, and then sinking the gaff into the beast and dragging it over the transom into the boat....blood everywhere, everyone screaming. Or you could go buy a little square of fish in a plastic container and pay 690yen.
Calm down
 
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I used to work on my school farm. When the pigs got worked up we got a rake and sat above the pig sty and raked their backs. These were heavy metal rakes but the pigs had tough skin and they fucking loved it.
I miss those days. I was a better person. I just wanted the pigs to be happy.
 
Your string of posts just above indicate so much self-awareness, common sense (which is uncommon) and maturity (uncommon in men) that I'm pretty confident that things will work out well for you in your sex life and in general.

You are hard to please, I was already flabbergasted by the fact he actually read the replies made to him and took them to heart.