What is love for you?

[Sawako]

It goes without says, "love yourself first" in a non-boastful way and then "nothing can break your heart for long." - True love will always work itself back if both people "really love each other." Hence, I think most people use the word "love" or seek to feel "love" without really understanding the "genuine deepness" of "love."

 

[mrrobot1994]

Love is when you care more about someone else's happiness than your own. It's when you think of them when you pray, wishing them all the best. Love is when, in the midst of your own chaos, you wonder how they're doing. It's when you've had a tough day and all you want is to hear their voice before you sleep, wishing them good night. Love is not continously talking and laughing together it is when you understand that person, it is when you can read their silence.

Love is showing care be it for little things. Love is not always sweet and magical it's difficult at times, distance, fights, heart breaks ,despair,jealousy, sorrow all are a part of it but at the end of the day if you want to see that one person smile then this is love. sex việt

I feel loved when someone cares for me and does little things for me. When the person respects my feelings and not make fun of them.It's when they understand and encourage when time is difficult.

 

[static]

One of my high school teachers told me, and it's something that's stuck with me since:
Love is when you're absolutely fuming mad, seeing red at your partner, and still being able to say you love them. I've only met one girl where that was the case. Sadly, that was not my ex-wife.

 

[hkAlone]

I think that love like beauty is something you can/should experience daily. It makes you alive. No need for the big Hollywoodian LOVE. You can experience it with human beings, animals around you.
I can feel love for my family, friends, colleagues, favourite escorts everyday. When I'm seriously hangover or did some craps the day before it's a bit harder... I can acknowledge that.

When talking about romantic love... The passion tends to be just infatuation. I've been lucky enough to fall in love quite a few times in my life. This type of love is like cocaine. It keeps you awake, energise you, obsess you. It's amazing, crazy, dangerous. Overall I think it's a very selfish experience. I don't buy the "loving someone more than yourself" at this stage. If you're not in denial, you realize how much you want the other person in a very egocentric way.

Love with a big L is another matter. This one takes time. You feel it for your life partner after many years. You are grateful to be there for each others. You understand each others. This is really good, more boring than exciting, but still very real. Despite the boredom, you need to remind yourself how lucky you are.
Don't waste it for an ephemeral passion.

Do whatever you want with your life. I really enjoy all these forms of love and defined my own values lifestyle to do it without guilt.

I love you all...

 

[Alice]

When I'm seriously hangover or did some craps the day before it's a bit harder...

But when you are still drunk the day before, it’s much easier, right? 😂

I think that love like beauty is something you can/should experience daily. It makes you alive. No need for the big Hollywoodian LOVE. You can experience it with human beings, animals around you.
I can feel love for my family, friends, colleagues, favourite escorts everyday. When I'm seriously hangover or did some craps the day before it's a bit harder... I can acknowledge that.

When talking about romantic love... The passion tends to be just infatuation. I've been lucky enough to fall in love quite a few times in my life. This type of love is like cocaine. It keeps you awake, energise you, obsess you. It's amazing, crazy, dangerous. Overall I think it's a very selfish experience. I don't buy the "loving someone more than yourself" at this stage. If you're not in denial, you realize how much you want the other person in a very egocentric way.

Love with a big L is another matter. This one takes time. You feel it for your life partner after many years. You are grateful to be there for each others. You understand each others. This is really good, more boring than exciting, but still very real. Despite the boredom, you need to remind yourself how lucky you are.
Don't waste it for an ephemeral passion.

Do whatever you want with your life. I really enjoy all these forms of love and defined my own values lifestyle to do it without guilt.

I love you all...

I totally agree with most of your post. Well said.

 

[hso3736]

Who knew one could learn so much about life here?

To me love is thinking about the other person randomly during the day. And if you can go a week without thinking about what the other is doing, that's a problem.