There are still clubs in Rops?!The OP is going to be 37. If someone is reasonably good looking, in shape, and has social skills in his 30s, there is no reason a guy at that age cannot pull ladies ten or so years younger in Tokyo. It happens each and every night. I saw it in quantity last weekend when I visited a club in Rops.
Apps like Coffee Meets Bagel. Find a girl –or many, and invite her/them to dinner and clubbing. Beware of your potential depression of the 30's. You'll see what will come in the 40's, 50's... Age is in your head, in Asian cultures women do not necessary reject older men.What is the cultural more appriate way to meet ladies to interact with for the over 30s crowds if clubs are a no go due to old age ?
I haven't been to ropo since a couple months before the rona ruined everything. I wonder how it isThe OP is going to be 37. If someone is reasonably good looking, in shape, and has social skills in his 30s, there is no reason a guy at that age cannot pull ladies ten or so years younger in Tokyo. It happens each and every night. I saw it in quantity last weekend when I visited a club in Rops.
Nah if you are male, over 30 and not a millionaire you’ve no place being in a club. Just let it go.
AHHHH you bring me back! and before Rigoletto there was Heartland!
but yes, if Rigoletto is still around then its a good upscale bar where you can chat up a lady or two.
Going alone to rigelleto would be incredibly weird.A guy I know picked up a single there a few weeks back. I was with him. She just came right up to him and started talking and now he's got a regular.
She wasn't bad looking, and he's no Brad Pitt.
It happens, but not as much as it used to. Go in solo, leave solo. Ya need a wing and girls almost always go in pairs there.
Dude. wow. What you talking about? I've been to Ageha (Shin Kiba) lots of times being over 30, even got some dirty dancing, a few numbers and a follow up date.
Sure, clubs aren't the best percentage wise for pick up, but it's hella fun and when I was out on the dance floor grinding it away with a cute younger chick, ya can't get that at no friggin' hobgoblin. haha
I might go in from time to time, but treat it as a transition to some other place later on.Going alone to rigelleto would be incredibly weird.
They have Stella on tap. So you have a point. I may go there by myself actually.I might go in from time to time, but treat it as a transition to some other place later on.
Drinks aren't bad and not all the expensive. Ya never know unless you go.
Personally found clubs had a good success rate, when I was younger. I once passed out at ageha, woke up at 4am, got on the dance floor and got a hand job right there. Never exchanged a word with the girl.
Agree. I've seen older pull mid 20's without pulling out the wad and paying for everything.The OP is going to be 37. If someone is reasonably good looking, in shape, and has social skills in his 30s, there is no reason a guy at that age cannot pull ladies ten or so years younger in Tokyo. It happens each and every night. I saw it in quantity last weekend when I visited a club in Rops.
Nothing magical. Dress well, good hygiene, and confidence go a long way. A lot of that becomes a learned habit as one ages but still needs to be learned. Specifically in Japan speaking the language is a force multiplier. I prefer P4P for the simplicity, but hooking up even for old fucks like me is not difficult in Japan since we get the pull the cool foreigner card.Agree. I've seen older pull mid 20's without pulling out the wad and paying for everything.
Take decent care of yourself, look presentable, make eye contact and be confident, actually have some GAME and it IS possible
Remember, girls all over the world often gravitate more towards the older(not geriatric of course)/more mature guy (daddy issues aside!) versus some young buck that will be finished within 2 mins of starting. haha
Funny thing that my old thread is still running . And yeah I'd say I am not the worst looking dude, have always been described as a decent looking one. I also look younger on good day which might increase my chances.Agree. I've seen older pull mid 20's without pulling out the wad and paying for everything.
Take decent care of yourself, look presentable, make eye contact and be confident, actually have some GAME and it IS possible
Remember, girls all over the world often gravitate more towards the older(not geriatric of course)/more mature guy (daddy issues aside!) versus some young buck that will be finished within 2 mins of starting. haha
I actually ended up in a Hub earlier this evening, and it was surprisingly filled with young hot women.Not the Hub again.. 😔