GoldenDalton
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"program her for the type of sex that you like."
"after the 1st month, many women shut down, in terms of "trainabilty""
"Now the guy is just her bank ATM."
Most of what you said was useful, but ugh...come on man...
My experience is that he's right, even if it does seem unpleasant. Of course my experience isn't universal- I don't claim that- I just don't have anything else to go on.
My understanding is the Solomg advocates maintaining frame and valuing your own sexuality/time/money. If you " lay down the law" and maintain frame early you'll get better results than if you have to adapt to her frame.
There's no truly equal relationship really. Even among platonic friendships between the same sex, or children, or someone's let turtkes, a subtle ( or not so subtle) hierarchy tends to emerge, and while it's counterintuitive, if she's on the top of that hierarchy you can hang it up as hypergamy isn't satisfied by her " equal" ( really inferior tbh) partner.
These are just my thoughts on what Solong was saying, with some of my thoughts on game in general added in. My perspective comes from having been burned, and also doing pretty well with women at other times.
But it's not the be all end all. YMMV.