Wingman for Clubs and Bars

Shochu Monster

Shochu Monster

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Hi guys, I'm looking for a wingman, especially someone as fluent as me or better in Japanese, for fairly regular clubbing and sometimes bars/yokocho/aiseki/etc. in Shibuya, Shinjuku, etc. especially on weekends. Age-wise someone in the 25~35 age range would be greatly appreciated. I'm in my early 30s but look like i'm in my 20s still, which is still good for clubs.

I'm also open to sometimes going out on weeknights so long as I can get to sleep by like 2 or 3 if nothing pans out. I'd be open to street nanpa, too, but I've very little experience with that, so don't do it very much. Hit my DMs if you're interested, thanks!

Also if anyone has advice, etc. feel free to discuss here. My luck with apps is not very good, but i'm also into cute and fashionable girls, so that's probably the issue.
 
Don't know why I can't send you a DM.

30s, old school (no dating app), my Japanese is intermediate but enough to pull and socialize. Though much prefer enjoy the nightlife also and approach genuinely rather than go out strictly only for nampa or standing on a street/bar corner. If that's alright, yoroshiku !
 
Wow, I'm a complete fool and missed the line in the welcome DM that tells you that DMs are private (friends only) by default.

Well, I've fixed it now. Thanks for letting me know you couldn't DM!!

I usually go to events that have music or stuff that I like, since if I'm gonna spend the money to be there, it's nice to be able to just enjoy if nothing else works out, so that is fine with me. It's just that most women go to clubs and stuff in pairs so it's difficult to approach on my own.

My japanese is pretty close to fluent, but not perfect. Frequently get asked if i'm half because of it even though I look like a total western foreigner.

Anyhow if anyone tried to DM before and couldn't, you're also welcome to try again 😂
 
If I were free nights I would totally throw down. I totally get the problem of girl groups, having a wingman makes the situation 1000% more comfy and feasible.

Nowadays I keep my pickup skills to happening bars. XD

I wonder how places have changed since corona. I feel like Shibuya has far more traffic lately in the night scene. Granted Shinjuku still probably is the biggest spot.
 
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Happening bars spook me because of legality issues and raids, but I know of one or two newer places that are basically happening bars except nothing happens in the store and you just agree to go to nearby love hotels instead. I've only been once though.

I'm not sure about Shinjuku -- street pickup is damn near impossible there and I personally didn't like the layouts for Warp or Zero Tokyo very much and hub was nowhere near what it was like pre corona. Maybe in izakayas or something?

Club scene has pretty much entirely moved to Shibuya, which has had interesting effects on the age ranges in some clubs. I like bar hopping better, but unfortunately I think the type of girls I like are only in music places or on the street in Shinjuku 😂
 
Hi all, newbie here.

Am travelling to tokyo after christmas and staying till after new year before heading to osaka.
Would love to join but too bad I do not speak Japanese.

Good luck to TS on finding ur wingman
 
Will be in Tokyo Jan 18-20. Non Japanese speaking but would gladly back you up in any situation!
 
I'm looking for peeps to go out with aswell as I normally cold approach solo. I'll be in japan till late jan my line Id is leafytoast if you ever want to go out.
 
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Bumping this. Still looking for regulars to go with. I'm having a hell of a time closing though. I can get contact information for nearly every girl I talk to but pulling from clubs to a hotel feels like a god damn miracle when it has happened. I need some help in this area badly. Sucks because my spoken Japanese is quite good -- I'm missing something more subtle
 
Shochu Monster said:
Bumping this. Still looking for regulars to go with. I'm having a hell of a time closing though. I can get contact information for nearly every girl I talk to but pulling from clubs to a hotel feels like a god damn miracle when it has happened. I need some help in this area badly. Sucks because my spoken Japanese is quite good -- I'm missing something more subtle
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I don't meet your criteria but who IS actually pulling chicks with no friend connection and taking them to a love hotel in the same night? In my day it would take a couple of at bats with her (same club next weekend and a couple more bottles) to be able to get a home run.

The only time I've been able to get a home run at first at bat was if a friend introduced us (common friends like a buddy of mine with his girlfriend and her friends)… you need a level of trust with J Girls I feel to be able to get in like that.
 
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I don't meet your criteria but who IS actually pulling chicks with no friend connection and taking them to a love hotel in the same night? In my day it would take a couple of at bats with her (same club next weekend and a couple more bottles) to be able to get a home run.

The only time I've been able to get a home run at first at bat was if a friend introduced us (common friends like a buddy of mine with his girlfriend and her friends)… you need a level of trust with J Girls I feel to be able to get in like that.
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Happens a lot more than you would think. I also go enough that I know staff and regulars. Typically if I'm by myself I try to team up with someone else who is by also by themselves.
 
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Shochu Monster said:
Bumping this. Still looking for regulars to go with. I'm having a hell of a time closing though. I can get contact information for nearly every girl I talk to but pulling from clubs to a hotel feels like a god damn miracle when it has happened. I need some help in this area badly. Sucks because my spoken Japanese is quite good -- I'm missing something more subtle
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I'd be down to try. I'm not much into clubbing, but bars/yokocho I'd be interested in.
 
jackoffinthebox said:
Hint: you don't go from bar to hotel. You go from bar to food/karaoke to hotel. Sometimes it's bar to food to walk to park makeout to hotel 😂
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I think this part is obvious. Getting them to actually bounce from the place you met them at is the hard part.
 
I speak Japanese, but am chronically shy with mid looks and social skills. I've had ONS from apps and seduced providers on occasion, but never at a club or bar.

Would be willing to try it out though if anyone is interested.
 
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I have almost no Japanese proficiency, so my only shot is with English-speaking people. Lucky for me, they're usually more open-minded.
I'm also looking for a wingman to hit clubs and pick up girls. I'm 28m and will try to be going out every Friday and Saturday.

If you're up for it, DM me so we can set up a date and time.
 
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i go up to tokyo a lot.

but im more of a bar person, clubs cut you off at the legs, the market is saturated and you can't speak without yelling
 
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