Would You Date A Stripper, Escort, Or Hostess?

I don't understand how this is an answer to the question. By "single" do you mean "not married" or "not dating anyone"? But in any case, you could still stop visiting "girls and establishments" if you were dating or married to a sex worker of some sort, couldn't you?

-Ww
Not dating anyone, and I'm of the opinion that a relationship is an equal give and take, so if I feel I shouldn't monger, I wouldn't date and/or marry a sex worker either. That's just me though, you do you.
 
I wouldn't date and/or marry a sex worker either.

OK, that is a clear answer to the question. I wasn't trying to argue with your decision/opinion, just saying that I couldn't tell what it is from your previous post.

-Ww
 
Date - yes
Have a relationship with - no

If I get into a relationship that is going well I pretty much give up all extra curricular activities with other women.
The thought of her out there having sex with all sorts of other blokes would do my head in.

I did have a shortlisted fling with an escort but it played with my head to much so it didn't last.

It started out easy but quite serious, and was just too tough to handle.
 
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Date - yes
Have a relationship with - no
Dont worry btw, those girls make so much money, are so used to freedom and high standards, that they are not interesting at all to be squeezed and handled by common guys for have a waitress life ;), they will never ask you, nor me unfortunately!
 
Dont worry btw, those girls make so much money, are so used to freedom and high standards, that they are not interesting at all to be squeezed and handled by common guys for have a waitress life ;), they will never ask you, nor me unfortunately
Sorry mate, but I disagree.
I started off as a paying client, but within a short time we were meeting up often. Sometimes just for dinner other for full nights of passion. In the end no money was changing hands and we were really tight. She would always make her plans around me, but she was working most nights when we weren't together.
It was a massage/ dh place but even knowing she had to blow guys played with my head too much.
We agreed to never talk about it, but I couldn't handle it. So it ended.
 
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Sorry mate, but I disagree.
I started off as a paying client, but within a short time we were meeting up often. Sometimes just for dinner other for full nights of passion. In the end no money was changing hands and we were really tight. She would always make her plans around me, but she was working most nights when we weren't together.
It was a massage/ dh place but even knowing she had to blow guys played with my head too much.
We agreed to never talk about it, but I couldn't handle it. So it ended.
And... did you become a client again? :)
 
Sorry mate, but I disagree.
I started off as a paying client, but within a short time we were meeting up often. Sometimes just for dinner other for full nights of passion. In the end no money was changing hands and we were really tight. She would always make her plans around me, but she was working most nights when we weren't together.
It was a massage/ dh place but even knowing she had to blow guys played with my head too much.
We agreed to never talk about it, but I couldn't handle it. So it ended.
No worry! I forgot to mention that i spoke about independant escorts ( not massage employees ) of course!
 
Dont worry btw, those girls make so much money, are so used to freedom and high standards, that they are not interesting at all to be squeezed and handled by common guys for have a waitress life ;), they will never ask you, nor me unfortunately!

I have to disagree on that o_O that may apply to a lot of escorts in the US with all that luxury etc but i think we independent escorts in Tokyo are pretty much down to earth and not relying on 'high standards'. I can say that as I've met the other girls and hang out with the every now and then.
You never know what happens and money is not always the major part in a relationship. And it shouldn't.
Let's turn this around: girlfriend/wife is working in the bank industry but boyfriend/husband is working as a waiter. If there is chemistry and love, I don't see a problem. She earns more, yes but that doesn't mean she puts herself higher than her SO. (I know there are exceptions, maybe that's a bad example....)
 
Let's turn this around: girlfriend/wife is working in the bank industry but boyfriend/husband is working as a waiter.

Ohhhh, Anna, and you also funny girl.... im in love now!
 
So yea, i would only date a very open minded guy and i'm equally open minded about their jobs and lifestyle. Diseases are a point of attention however. If your partner plays with others, make sure they do it protected and that they get tested regulary!
This sums up my opinion as well. So long as the girl I was with enjoys what they do and knows what they are doing, I don't believe the profession should be a deal breaker.
 
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