Your go to motels in Roppongi, Shibuya, and Shinjuku?

[Overture1928]

I live far from these areas, so in the invent of hooking up late in any of these areas I would like to have a list of a few decent places ready so I don't end up wondering aimlessly around like an idiot.

 

[User#8628]

You mean love hotels or actual motels?

 

[Overture1928]

You mean love hotels or actual motels?

Yes love motels

 

[rob040188]

@Overture1928 , you could enter the words "love hotel" on the search function. After reading some of the threads, you will get an idea which LHs are gaijin friendly
Or you could probably PM some of the members here.

For the privacy/safety of the provider and the client, it may not be a good idea to ask on an open forum. Just my 2cents

 

[User#8628]

Also depends on budget but supposing that you want to take your girl to a fancy place i'd say Bali An or Pasha in Shinjuku. For Shibuya the hotels are a bit older but maybe Clairs, areas or white city.

 

[Wwanderer]

Motels??

-Ww

 

[Simonka]

This is what comes to my mind 0_o'

And may be some dead bodies at the back of a van.

Motels??

-Ww

 

[MongerInAStrLnd]

Motels??

-Ww

That's the term used for Love Hotels in some other Asian countries.

 

[User#8628]

Motels??

-Ww

A joke:

Its bad weather and a woman in sexy clothes walks into a motel to get a room for shelter.
The receptionist doesn't trust it and asks her:

"What is your profession?"
"I'm a mhore"
"What's a mhore??"
"What's a motel??"

 

[bdole]

What are the thoughts among providers about LHs vs regular hotels? Is there a ranking system? Which ones are more comfortable to visit for the girls?

When I visit, I usually have a perfectly good room and I'd rather put more money towards time with my chosen companion than spending money on a LH, but if you girls are more comfortable in a LH, I'm happy to oblige and adjust.

 

[User#8628]

What are the thoughts among providers about LHs vs regular hotels? Is there a ranking system? Which ones are more comfortable to visit for the girls?

When I visit, I usually have a perfectly good room and I'd rather put more money towards time with my chosen companion than spending money on a LH, but if you girls are more comfortable in a LH, I'm happy to oblige and adjust.

I think thats a question best asked to every girl/shop you are gonna see individually. Some girls prefer expensive hotels because its more luxury. I dont feel safer in a love hotel per se (private appartments are a different case, can be quite scary) but location is a big deal for me.
I know its extra work on the guy's part so i don't expect it, but i really appreciate if a guy comes to my most convenient area and gets a LH if he is not staying there. Especially when its a first time meet and you're not 100% sure they are real.

 

[bdole]

I think thats a question best asked to every girl/shop you are gonna see individually. Some girls prefer expensive hotels because its more luxury. I dont feel safer in a love hotel per se (private appartments are a different case, can be quite scary) but location is a big deal for me.
I know its extra work on the guy's part so i don't expect it, but i really appreciate if a guy comes to my most convenient area and gets a LH if he is not staying there. Especially when its a first time meet and you're not 100% sure they are real.

That makes a lot of sense. I'll do my best to adjust based on whatever girl I choose. Regarding your last sentence, I assume that the answer will vary girl by girl, but is there anything in particular that helps a guy convince you he's a real first time customer?

 

[User#8628]

is there anything in particular that helps a guy convince you he's a real first time customer?

Oh, that is very easy, the tone of the emails really sets the mood. I understand why some guys want to be casual but its kind of disheartening to answer emails like "hi u free now" or something with a very demanding, unfriendly tone. If an email sounds like the guy is not a person i dont want to meet, i may not reply, or turn down his request.
A good email would be a little bit of information about yourself to make the girl comfortable, but nothing too revealing if you dont want. Then, its important to include where you want to meet, what time and for how long. If you are flexible and want to have a bigger chance that the girl can scedule you and that she is comfortable, you give her some more options and say something like "i'm staying in ... but if this is inconvenient for you we can meet in an area you suggest and use a love hotel. I'm available this day, this day and this day on mornings/afternoons/evenings, what would work for you?" If you meet at your hotel, ask if she is more comfortable meeting in the lobby or the room (if no key card needed). Some girls prefer lobby so they can see the guy first but some prefer room so they wont be seen in public together.
At first meeting, smile at her and give her a warm welcome, act excited to see her. Many girls are happy to get a small gift when meeting, and offer her a drink. Also offering the money upfront yourself saves her from an awkward moment when having to ask. Good hygiene is a must and most girls also require shower beforehand so you can propose to take a shower together early on first so she doesn't have to lead. If you are an easy talker, dont be scared to keep the conversation going, most girls are more relaxed if they dont have to think of topics to bring up themselves. Show her what you like and dont like (she is most likely not a psychic) and ask what she likes and doesn't like, then don't do things she doesn't like. Keep a bit of an eye on the time yourself so you dont go over the time limit. If you'd go over, it would be nice to compensate for it. Also offer a few sen taxi money if a girl needs travel expenses covered.

I'm sure you know and do a lot of these things already. And its not absolutely required to do all of that to be a good and liked customer.
But if you ask what you'd have to do to be a liked/preferred client, these are definitely things that most girls would appreciate.

 

[bdole]

Oh, that is very easy, the tone of the emails really sets the mood. I understand why some guys want to be casual but its kind of disheartening to answer emails like "hi u free now" or something with a very demanding, unfriendly tone. If an email sounds like the guy is not a person i dont want to meet, i may not reply, or turn down his request.
A good email would be a little bit of information about yourself to make the girl comfortable, but nothing too revealing if you dont want. Then, its important to include where you want to meet, what time and for how long. If you are flexible and want to have a bigger chance that the girl can scedule you and that she is comfortable, you give her some more options and say something like "i'm staying in ... but if this is inconvenient for you we can meet in an area you suggest and use a love hotel. I'm available this day, this day and this day on mornings/afternoons/evenings, what would work for you?" If you meet at your hotel, ask if she is more comfortable meeting in the lobby or the room (if no key card needed). Some girls prefer lobby so they can see the guy first but some prefer room so they wont be seen in public together.
At first meeting, smile at her and give her a warm welcome, act excited to see her. Many girls are happy to get a small gift when meeting, and offer her a drink. Also offering the money upfront yourself saves her from an awkward moment when having to ask. Good hygiene is a must and most girls also require shower beforehand so you can propose to take a shower together early on first so she doesn't have to lead. If you are an easy talker, dont be scared to keep the conversation going, most girls are more relaxed if they dont have to think of topics to bring up themselves. Show her what you like and dont like (she is most likely not a psychic) and ask what she likes and doesn't like, then don't do things she doesn't like. Keep a bit of an eye on the time yourself so you dont go over the time limit. If you'd go over, it would be nice to compensate for it. Also offer a few sen taxi money if a girl needs travel expenses covered.

I'm sure you know and do a lot of these things already. And its not absolutely required to do all of that to be a good and liked customer.
But if you ask what you'd have to do to be a liked/preferred client, these are definitely things that most girls would appreciate.

I think I can handle that . My one experience so far (which I reviewed here), I apparently acted well enough to get a girl who didn't initiate in 2 other reviews to initiate with me, and she opened up enough to show me pictures of her cat (no euphamism, her actual pet cat) on her phone.

I'll try to remember what I did and try to be like that again.

 

[rob040188]

act excited to see her

@User#8628 ,I didn't have to act excited when I first saw you.

most girls are more relaxed if they dont have to think of topics to bring up themselves.

@bdole, I'm also new to the p4p scene, so i'm no expert. I'll just give my opinions on what did work for me.
You could email her about the topics you two could talk about during the date. Also, "no-go" subjects that you two should not talk about, such as real life stuff. Below are some threads that might be helpful. They were helpful for me.

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/standard-practices-for-meeting-ladies.4258/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/things-not-to-ask-a-provider.17773/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/escorts-turning-down-clients.17568/

Many girls are happy to get a small gift when meeting, and offer her a drink. Also offering the money upfront yourself saves her from an awkward moment when having to ask.

@bdole , most TAG verified indies have a wishlist. You could get her a gift from that list. If she doesn't have a wishlist. You could email her before the date on what kind of gift she wants. Regarding the donation, it should be in an unsealed envelope. Before, I started p4p, I read somewhere on TAG (I can't find the thread now) that some indies have experienced some of their clients (maybe this was a very rare occurrence or maybe I'm just mis-remembering), removing a few bills when their backs were turned. So, what I did for all my (few) encounters (so far), I would ask them to count the money once we enter the room and before leaving the room. It might sound a bit strange. But I just wanted to be fair to them.

Besides, I want to be a repeating customer

 

[User#8628]

@User#8628 ,I didn't have to act excited when I first saw you.

@bdole, I'm also new to the p4p scene, so i'm no expert. I'll just give my opinions on what did work for me.
You could email her about the topics you two could talk about during the date. Also, "no-go" subjects such as real life stuff. Below are some threads that might be helpful. They were helpful for me.

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/standard-practices-for-meeting-ladies.4258/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/things-not-to-ask-a-provider.17773/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/escorts-turning-down-clients.17568/


@bdole , most TAG verified indies have a wishlist. You could get her a gift from that list. If she doesn't have a wishlist. You could email her before the date on what kind of gift she wants. Regarding the donation, it should be in an unsealed envelope. Before, I started p4p, I read somewhere on TAG (I can't find the thread now) that some indies have experienced some of their clients (maybe this was a very rare occurrence or maybe I'm just mis-remembering), removing a few bills when their backs were turned. So, what I did for all my (few) encounters (so far), I would ask them to count the money once we enter the room and before leaving the room. It might sound a bit strange. But I just wanted to be fair to them.

Besides, I want to be a repeating customer

Right about the money part.
I remember which girl said that.
I didn't experience it myself with someone from TAG but i have experienced it pre TAG when freestyling.

 

[rob040188]

but i have experienced it pre TAG when freestyling.

I'm sorry to hear that.

BTW, so what did you do when that happened?

 

[bdole]

@User#8628 ,I didn't have to act excited when I first saw you.

@bdole, I'm also new to the p4p scene, so i'm no expert. I'll just give my opinions on what did work for me.
You could email her about the topics you two could talk about during the date. Also, "no-go" subjects such as real life stuff. Below are some threads that might be helpful. They were helpful for me.

https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/standard-practices-for-meeting-ladies.4258/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/things-not-to-ask-a-provider.17773/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/escorts-turning-down-clients.17568/


@bdole , most TAG verified indies have a wishlist. You could get her a gift from that list. If she doesn't have a wishlist. You could email her before the date on what kind of gift she wants. Regarding the donation, it should be in an unsealed envelope. Before, I started p4p, I read somewhere on TAG (I can't find the thread now) that some indies have experienced some of their clients (maybe this was a very rare occurrence or maybe I'm just mis-remembering), removing a few bills when their backs were turned. So, what I did for all my (few) encounters (so far), I would ask them to count the money once we enter the room and before leaving the room. It might sound a bit strange. But I just wanted to be fair to them.

Besides, I want to be a repeating customer

Thanks for the tips. I'll be sure to read up on those threads. The money thing makes a lot of sense as well.

One thing I wondered regarding making the girl feel comfortable was about offering a drink. I offered one to my first p4p date, but she turned it down. After, I wondered if maybe it was for fear of being roofied or something. Would it be better to have sealed drinks available, or if I offer tea, make it with a bottled water that I open in front of her?

 

[User#8628]

Thanks for the tips. I'll be sure to read up on those threads. The money thing makes a lot of sense as well.

One thing I wondered regarding making the girl feel comfortable was about offering a drink. I offered one to my first p4p date, but she turned it down. After, I wondered if maybe it was for fear of being roofied or something. Would it be better to have sealed drinks available, or if I offer tea, make it with a bottled water that I open in front of her?

Sealed things are best, if possible.

I'm sorry to hear that.

BTW, so what did you do when that happened?

I confronted them but they deny it.

 

[rob040188]

One thing I wondered regarding making the girl feel comfortable was about offering a drink.

In my case, I needed the drink. . I live somewhere in tokyo, so to protect my privacy, i decided that an LH would be best. My very first time with an escort (You could read about my experience here on TAG. BTW I have been with a few women only. I'm not really sociable), I was having second thoughts. And when I approached her (both of you should decide on an easily recognizable article of clothing, such as a baseball cap), I was smitten. And she more or less tried to calm me down at the cafe. Same thing happened to me with @User#8628 . But I was more nervous the first time.

offered one to my first p4p date, but she turned it down. After, I wondered if maybe it was for fear of being roofied or something.

This might be the case. What you do is offer 2 similar bottles of water. Make her decide which one she wants to drink from. then drink from the other one. Well, that's what I did.

Would it be better to have sealed drinks available

Exactly. 2 identical sealed drinks.

if I offer tea

This will depend on the provider. Anna Summer, loves tea. herbal tea. I didn't know at that time there was a difference between herbal tea and fruit tea. Before coming to japan, my only experience with tea was Lipton Iced Tea.

Oh, for protection you can buy that from donki. But you should also ask your provider if she is allergic to what is commonly found in tokyo. Skyn rubbers are difficult to find in tokyo

 

[rob040188]

I confronted them but they deny it.

so did you get the agreed upon payment when you confronted them.

I'm sorry for digging up awful memories.

 

[User#8628]

so did you get agreed upon payment when you confronted them.

I'm sorry for digging up awful memories.

I left my bag alone and they took it out of my wallet. I saw it when i checked again. Rookie mistake, i dont leave my bag alone anymore except rarely by regulars who i trust completely.

 

[rob040188]

I left my bag alone and they took it out of my wallet.

I'm sorry about that. I hope their dicks fall off.

 

[bdole]

I'm sorry about that. I hope their dicks fall off.

Maybe it's a better curse to hope that it remains attached but never works in the presence of a girl again?

Oh, for protection you can buy that from donki.

Is it commonly expected for the guy to bring his own, or is that one of the items that can be discussed with the provider before the session?

 

[rob040188]

Is it commonly expected for the guy to bring his own, or is that one of the items that can be discussed with the provider before the session?

I think you should email your provider before the date, if you will bring protection or if she will bring protection.

Maybe it's a better curse to hope that it remains attached but never works in the presence of a girl again?

Agreed