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Your go to motels in Roppongi, Shibuya, and Shinjuku?

Is it commonly expected for the guy to bring his own, or is that one of the items that can be discussed with the provider before the session?
Its always good to have some extras, and if you have a kind of condom that works particularly well for you (L size, extra thin, non latex) you should definitely bring them yourself.

But the girl and the love hotel (in case you use one) are likely to have some spare ones.
Some girls may only want to use their own.
 
About money: i don't even bother with envelopes...who am i trying to fool? i just put the cash on the table where it's obvious. I've confused 10k and 1k yen notes before, so I'd rather she count it at the start and let me know if there's anything wrong. Lucky I haven't had a dinner+dessert date, since I'd just lay it out at the dinner table :D

i guess it's best for girls to keep their handbags with them at all times to prevent disputes and cases like Alice mentioned. But aren't they afraid of getting their expensive handbags wet in the shower? :p
 
About money: i don't even bother with envelopes...who am i trying to fool? i just put the cash on the table where it's obvious. I've confused 10k and 1k yen notes before, so I'd rather she count it at the start and let me know if there's anything wrong. Lucky I haven't had a dinner+dessert date, since I'd just lay it out at the dinner table :D

i guess it's best for girls to keep their handbags with them at all times to prevent disputes and cases like Alice mentioned. But aren't they afraid of getting their expensive handbags wet in the shower? :p
Haha, should definitely not put the money on the table in the restaurant!
But dinner + dessert dates are awkward because WHEN is the payment? Is it handed during the dinner in an envelope? (I've gotten it handed together with a gift as well which is cool.) or handed in the hotel room for the guy's safety since its easy for the girl to just bail?
I think with a girl who is a regular on a website, its pretty safe to give it to them beforehand to put them at ease, but maybe not with everyone..
The guy could also possibly bail after dinner without giving a social time fee, and most girls in this industry aren't just happy with a free dinner (assuming that the guy wouldn't bail on the check as well), if they could have worked or done other essential things in the same time.
In any case, if handing it over in public it should be discreet and if in the hotel room, before the session starts.

My handbag is not expensive and is waterproof so personally no worries there :D
It gets wetter during rainy days than in the shower area.
 
I guess she'd go to the bathroom to count it. the girl could bail, but there's gotta be some trust somewhere
 
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I have thought of doing it this way but wouldn't it be awkward for the escort counting cash in public?
Yeah, i would go to the bathroom with my bags to check it. Of course, this may cause problems like mentioned in another thread, namely that the provider will claim something is missing, but the client will suspect she took it out and tries to get more.

Counting discretely would be ok in some restaurant but not in a busy cafe.


Anyway i dont think its a major big deal to give it in the hotel but i do think there is no ideal scenario in the social + private time situation.
 
Its always good to have some extras, and if you have a kind of condom that works particularly well for you (L size, extra thin, non latex) you should definitely bring them yourself.

But the girl and the love hotel (in case you use one) are likely to have some spare ones.
Some girls may only want to use their own.
Cool. Thanks for taking the time to talk a newbie through all this. I really appreciate it, and I'm sure and girls I see in the future will appreciate it as well.
 
I left my bag alone and they took it out of my wallet. I saw it when i checked again. Rookie mistake, i dont leave my bag alone anymore except rarely by regulars who i trust completely.
They? It was 3P?
 
Narohudo! If I understand: it could have been Alice in a MMF or a FFM situation, of a FF situation?
 
They? It was 3P?
I meant it as people on multiple occasions did that. Has maybe happened to me 3 times or so, but only at the start and i've been around about 3 years. And always sneaky when i left my bag alone.
When i started i worried some guys would get violent and take money back but that has never happened.
 
About money: i don't even bother with envelopes...who am i trying to fool? i just put the cash on the table where it's obvious. I've confused 10k and 1k yen notes before, so I'd rather she count it at the start and let me know if there's anything wrong. Lucky I haven't had a dinner+dessert date, since I'd just lay it out at the dinner table :D

i guess it's best for girls to keep their handbags with them at all times to prevent disputes and cases like Alice mentioned. But aren't they afraid of getting their expensive handbags wet in the shower? :p
After working in Roppongi for a long time I have a mental image of how sen yens and ichimans look like. As a hostess you evolve to move in the direction of ichimans like a flower greets the sun. I can recognize an ichiman from across the room.
 
After working in Roppongi for a long time I have a mental image of how sen yens and ichimans look like. As a hostess you evolve to move in the direction of ichimans like a flower greets the sun. I can recognize an ichiman from across the room.
Haha no doubt.
I had bought something 1050 yen, but handed over 10,050 not expecting any change (i also had 1k notes in wallet).
When I told a japanese person about this they were very surprised- like how could someone ever get the two confused.
Where i live the notes have distinctively different colors though.
 
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Haha no doubt.
I had bought something 1050 yen, but handed over 10,050 not expecting any change (i also had 1k notes in wallet).
When I told a japanese person about this they were very surprised- like how could someone ever get the two confused.
Where i live the notes have distinctively different colors though.
At least that's better than the States where everything is the same color and the same size, and it's only relatively recently that the numbers are big enough to read easily from far away.
 
I meant it as people on multiple occasions did that. Has maybe happened to me 3 times or so, but only at the start and i've been around about 3 years. And always sneaky when i left my bag alone.
When i started i worried some guys would get violent and take money back but that has never happened.
I’m maybe naive, but I didn’t think something like that would happen in Japan. And not only once. On the countrary, I have often noticed how trusting Japanese DH ladies seem to be. I never cared much for being rubbed after the shower. I actually prefer to leave the shower room first, while the girl stay to finish her shower. That means that I usually have a couple of minutes by myself in the bedroom. I like that. I’m usually already in bed when she comes out, and I enjoy watching her doing her little womanly things. They never seem worried about their belongings. Bags are left open, purse and envelope with money sometimes still on the table. Never has anybody checked, at least not what I have noticed. Many are also quite open with personal information. But not all.
 
Many are also quite open with personal information.
For example, this DH girl I recently met. We found that we use the same supermarket. “Please say hello if we meet”, she said. Looking forward to that.
 
Yeah, i would go to the bathroom with my bags to check it. Of course, this may cause problems like mentioned in another thread, namely that the provider will claim something is missing, but the client will suspect she took it out and tries to get more.

Counting discretely would be ok in some restaurant but not in a busy cafe.


Anyway i dont think its a major big deal to give it in the hotel but i do think there is no ideal scenario in the social + private time situation.

I always use a small envelope - you can buy them in lots of places.... I always write the name or the person with a smiley face or transportation if it's for transport fee... depending on what the purpose is. you can slide it next to the coffee/tea cup or place it in her hand when you meet and shake hands... or on top of the gift under the ribbon if there.. it's discrete and done at the beginning... this assumes both people have a little common sense and are not legally blind... I think it also shows a bit of respect towards the woman (provider) when in an envelope rather than just handing notes over... of course, these are not the only way to exchange payment, but merely suggestions which have worked well for me. :D