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    Someone made a reservation at a shop using my number and name I give to shops

    Honestly this freaked me out more then anything, make me think I should be using a burner phone. I got an SMS from a store called 赤羽アリス in the middle of the night saying they also had 180 minute option available. I thought nothing of it, just some type of spam. Until they called me this...
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    How comfortable are you with having a provider come to your residence?

    Did the calculations and realize that if taxi hotel fees etc, if I had providers come to my apartment instead of going to hotels, I cold save 30,000 - 40,000 yen a month. Still have my hesitations, like to hear why other people do or do not have provider come to you. Have concerns regarding...
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    Do you consider how late into a girls shift it is when making reservation?

    So I went to see my regular girl at Style group. Normally she is about an 8 and just the most bubbly attitude. However was her last client at the end of a 7 hour shift on Friday and she was obviously faking having energy and seemed dead, didn't even care that she did not make me finish...
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    Addiction to adult services. / oversexed

    So in the past 2 and a half years I`ve received pay raises that allow me to have hundreds of thousands of yen in disposable income that I did not have before. I still have been spending the same percentage of my disposable income on mid-level priced adult services though. This literally means...
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    Non cold-call pick up methods?

    So, every relationship I"ve ever been with has been with a night worker (paying or non-paying). Yes Pathetic, thanks! Need to pick it up and before I get too old- last year of my 20s - stop paying for it, and try to actually have a real relationship. Picking up people on the street is not...
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    Ways that stores take advantage of young girls...

    So via reading and talking to girls, it is amazing how there are a lot of just simply naive girls that come into the industry believe ads that they just by talking on a free schedule without any type of touching or dress , that they can make 8000 yen an hour. Here are ways that I"ve read and...
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    Upselling by a provider, how do you feel about it?

    Okay, so slowly come to the realization that I hate being upsold by a provider during play or at night clubs. Before the play or by the staff doesn't bother, but during the play, it throws me out of the illusion. I would rather pay upfront a good amount for quality than be upsold. Me asking if...
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    Ratio / Percentage of Girls rejecting foreigners at shops

    So after being rejected by a art-school student girl, that based on her store blog has the exact same hobbies/interests/fashion style as me. I've noticed the ratio of girls that reject foreigners in shops that allow foreigners is all over the map: just from my experience (I have Fluent, JLPT 1...
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    So you've been matched on Tinder? now what do you do? (looking for answers)

    I paid the 500 yen a month for tinder premium and I'm semi-attractive, Kinda socially awkward late 20's guy. This leads me to get at least 4-5 matches on tinder a day. out of those maybe one will reply to me. My conversations go like this(less generic, but this is the conversation flow. )...
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    見学クラブ　- What did I just pay money for?

    Don't want to say what shop I went to for privacy reasons so not posting this in reviews, but apparently, they are all the same so here we go: Went to this having no idea what it would be like, with the expectation that there were going to be some type of secret options (Hint: there is none)...
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    Momo Cafe - Chie ちえ

    Service and/or Provider's Name: Momo Cafe Date of Encounter: Jan Contact Method: In person Appointment Length & Costs: 40 mintues - 15,000 Type/Location: Ikebukuro Language Notes: Japanese Details of the Encounter: Decided to try and get over my feelings of my lost girl as stated in my...
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    North Exit Ikebukuro Rip-off gang, how do they not get stopped?

    My question: What can I do to help people out/ try and prevent victims? If I continue warning people by myself it is 1 vs 20+ gang they will eventually beat me to a pulp. So I live in Ikebukuro, I go and hang out in North Ikebukuro all the time. It has recently come to my attention that all...
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    Male who wants to go to Host Club alone, suggestions?

    Per the topic! I want to see what dating advice hosts can give, Where do you suggest and what is the price range ?
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    How to keep trance mode / magic over several dates?

    Okay the pull isn't a problem for me, I have candidates. My problem is I'm rubbish at planning dates.. we basically just end up somewhere like a restaurant or a park talking, Karaoke so normal so typical etc... Once you have made the pull and gotten the date, What are the tips/tricks for...
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    Why do non-sex workers get hair removal in the entire pubic area? + bonus question

    Okay was with a girl who is involved in the fashion industry and she told me that she got laser hair removal done on her entire vagina and also that she is not a sex worker (I believe her). 1. When I asked her why she told because it is really thick hair and annoying and stuff gets stuck in...
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    Banned from store for exchanging contact info

    As we have had this question before, about how to meet women outside of shops, going to share my experience. I have yet to have a single good long-term experience come from meeting girls outside of shops. People are in this industry for a reason. Most people working in amateur shops don't want...
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    Any very frequent users of Kyaba Clubs?

    Other thread got me to thinking of giving up Kyaba Clubs and only using paying for sexual services. Every Time I've met a girl at Kyaba, I've gone too far down the rabbit hole and ended up killing any point of it. Curious to ask some other frequent users of Kyaba Clubs 1. What do you get out...
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    What Parallel dimension have I entered into?

    Following up on my horror stories of trying to be a sugar daddy comes this: I just spent 7 hours with an absolute stunner , tall utterly beautiful slender hair model, that I had met once at a sexy pub(spent 12,000 yen on her in a sexy pub, 12,000 is nothing at these pubs). I told her that I...
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    How comfortable do you feel in advance payment for sugar baby?

    So let me just bullet point my situation. Thoughts on how you handle it with your own sugar babies? Background: - Met a very amateur girl at a ichya pub who needed to pay back the money she spent on her defunct band renting out live houses. Girl meets my type and interests / we went to same...
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    Sugar Daddy date suggestions - semi-public places okay to cuddle?

    Okay my non-sexual sugar baby is not comfortable with going to a hotel as it leads to sex/ she can not escape Met her at a opai bar where it was okay to sit and lay down next to each other in sleeping next to each other style. Any suggestions on places where you can lay down next to each stare...