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Frenchy said:
So, little update: it turned out she wants a guy who would be here for her every time she needs to come back to Japan but should not see other SBs. Not a good match indeed. :D
Frankly disappointed though because apart from that hard-to-achieve Mr Perfect status I think we would have clicked very well... Sad :(
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Umm. You’re morally against lying or something?
 
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Glock said:
This makes no sense. I mean a SD can ask the SB for exclusivity since he's the one dishing the cash but how does it work the other way round? Then it just becomes a very expensive wife??? Am I missing something or is this not such an unusual ask in the SA world?
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Well you know there is no rule , its all bilateral discussions. Tbh it was not really exclusivity, maybe she was uncomfortable that I may see « too many » ladies and its all in the subjective limit of what is « two many. Frankly I’m not at Saudi king’ s harem level. Maybe 3/4 max at any given period.
In any case its just a bit frustrating that those concerns appeared more than 2 months after the first contact but also its good to avoid conflicts later, I guess...
Never mind. Wished her the best in trying to find this gem of a man... on SA! :D

And as for anyone (SD or SB) asking exclusivity in the sugarworld , they are just delusional imho
 
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A little update: we will finally meet in one week, she will stay in Tokyo with me for a few months... can’t wait. Delicate attention which shows she’s more of a giver than a taker: asking beforehand what nail color I would like her to wear... I’m smitten! :)
I know , sounds silly , but a pure taker would have probably just asked me to pay for the fucking nail salon here - and it’s not cheap - and would not care one inch (bad pun, sorry) what I may like or not...
 
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Frenchy said:
Believe it or not, yes. I hate being lied to and I did it too much myself in the past. Now my (paper-) wife knows I do P4P for example .
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I don't "really" lie and neither does my other half (I'm fairly sure) and I know for a fact she knows I'm interested in P4P
 
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just4fun said:
I don't "really" lie and neither does my other half (I'm fairly sure) and I know for a fact she knows I'm interested in P4P
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Eh eh! Maybe time for a 3P with an escort and your better half :)
 
Frenchy said:
Eh eh! Maybe time for a 3P with an escort and your better half :)
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hahahaha That will NEVER happen

Thanks again for coming out last Friday :D
 
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Frenchy said:
A little update: we will finally meet in one week, she will stay in Tokyo with me for a few months... can’t wait. Delicate attention which shows she’s more of a giver than a taker: asking beforehand what nail color I would like her to wear... I’m smitten! :)
I know , sounds silly , but a pure taker would have probably just asked me to pay for the fucking nail salon here - and it’s not cheap - and would not care one inch (bad pun, sorry) what I may like or not...
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Sounds like a keeper.........
 
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Frenchy said:
Eh eh! Maybe time for a 3P with an escort and your better half :)
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Frenchy said:
A little update: we will finally meet in one week, she will stay in Tokyo with me for a few months... can’t wait. Delicate attention which shows she’s more of a giver than a taker: asking beforehand what nail color I would like her to wear... I’m smitten! :)
I know , sounds silly , but a pure taker would have probably just asked me to pay for the fucking nail salon here - and it’s not cheap - and would not care one inch (bad pun, sorry) what I may like or not...
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How did you structure this deal? All expenses paid trip without any service fees? Do you have exclusivity for two months?
 
namae said:
How did you structure this deal? All expenses paid trip without any service fees? Do you have exclusivity for two months?
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I prefer not to disclose in too many details but she pays her trip, I give her enough to cover Japanese school (she really intends to study hard, she needs it for what she wants to achieve) and living expenses. No limit on the number of dates and intimacy (if anything , looks like I may be the one saying stop! :))
No exclusivity given nor received but looks like we won’t have much time left to fool around with others anyway
 
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Frenchy said:
I prefer not to disclose in too many details but she pays her trip, I give her enough to cover Japanese school (she really intends to study hard, she needs it for what she wants to achieve) and living expenses. No limit on the number of dates and intimacy (if anything , looks like I may be the one saying stop! :))
No exclusivity given nor received but looks like we won’t have much time left to fool around with others anyway
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Maybe fit in a lunch with the wife......you need to work some new angles and press some new buttons on the divorce.
 
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Frenchy said:
« Well, it's easy to buy sex.. but true affection can only be given freely. I can only be a SB to a SD who I would still like even if there was no compensation envolved. I don't like P4P approach... I prefer that "All you can eat" buffet kinda thing . I don't want a SD to pay "for my time" but pay because he believes in my projects, affection and sex are consequences of me appreciating his support. »

I like that.... But then maybe she wrote it just because she guessed I’d like that. But if so , at least she was smart enough to guess it.... Hmmmm, not sure what to reply. What would you guys do?
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You like that? !! Omg. You are fucking nuts. What this bitch is saying is that she is going to take all of your money and then throttle her service to you depending on how much ‘true affection’ she has for you. I know you Frenchies have a long history of masochism, so this might be your thing, but the Buta Can’t Go For That. No Can Do. If you want both the good and bad of a relationship, I suggest you get a regular gf. You won’t have to pay her. But you will have to worry about how she feels about you. With this bitch, you pay, but you still have to work to gain her affection! Ask yourself, is that what you really want? Is it, punk?
 
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warubuta said:
You like that? !! Omg. You are fucking nuts. What this bitch is saying is that she is going to take all of your money and then throttle her service to you depending on how much ‘true affection’ she has for you. I know you Frenchies have a long history of masochism, so this might be your thing, but the Buta Can’t Go For That. No Can Do. If you want both the good and bad of a relationship, I suggest you get a regular gf. You won’t have to pay her. But you will have to worry about how she feels about you. With this bitch, you pay, but you still have to work to gain her affection! Ask yourself, is that what you really want? Is it, punk?
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Lol! Thanks for the kind advice Uncle Buta!
Not « falling » again, , no worries. It’s not fun for anyone involved. I had many months of communication with this one and know much more what to expect than after a simple meet&greet. And same for her. Hey can I be a bit optimistic for once ?

PS: we don’t have same tastes in songs too, apparently :D
 
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warubuta said:
You like that? !! Omg. You are fucking nuts. What this bitch is saying is that she is going to take all of your money and then throttle her service to you depending on how much ‘true affection’ she has for you. I know you Frenchies have a long history of masochism, so this might be your thing, but the Buta Can’t Go For That. No Can Do. If you want both the good and bad of a relationship, I suggest you get a regular gf. You won’t have to pay her. But you will have to worry about how she feels about you. With this bitch, you pay, but you still have to work to gain her affection! Ask yourself, is that what you really want? Is it, punk?
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We need a content sensitivity filter to protect us from Johnny and Dazza.

"WARNING: The following media contains disturbing sounds and images."
 
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namae said:
We need a content sensitivity filter to protect us from Johnny and Dazza.

"WARNING: The following media contains disturbing sounds and images."
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Agreed. What could be the next step if we don’t stop this right away? Rick Astley’s « never give you up »?
 
Frenchy said:
Agreed. What could be the next step if we don’t stop this right away? Rick Astley’s « never give you up »?[/QUOTE
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coming from the guy whose country hasn’t produced any decent music since Claude Debussy.
 
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warubuta said:
coming from the guy whose country hasn’t produced any decent music since Claude Debussy.
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Hey, no need to insult Édith Piaf like that!

Though that guy does have the coolest name in the earth. It sounds like he ate so much pussy he got nobility.
 
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